Mean girl turned nice?

[lizzy]

Hello! Last night I was dreaming plenty but I can only recall bits and pieces. The first part I remember was I was standing in a stairwell looking down I did not go down but I could see a girl down there who I knew from high school I really didnÂ’t like her. She was watching TV. I walked away from the steps but I had to be careful not to fall because there were many steps in this house and they were very tricky and steep and a long ways down. I went to the kitchen and we sat on some barstools around the island of the kitchen there were 6 barstools. The fat mean girl came up and was being nice, her fat mother was also there and she was surprisingly being kind as well. We have some mutual family friends and they also were there, we sat around the island eating lunch and talking as if we were friends. I was just wondering why they were not being mean. Then I woke up. Any help or ideas welcome. Thank you Lizzy

[Wolfjk]

Hi Lizzy,

The fat mean girl came up and was being nice, her fat mother was also there and she was surprisingly being kind as well. We have some mutual family friends and they also were there, we sat around the island eating lunch and talking as if we were friends. I was just wondering why they were not being mean. Then I woke up. Any help or ideas welcome.

Dreams often communicate by surprises. In the sleep you needed to woken for some reason and it was the travesty of the dream that did the waking.
I think you had some problem in the sleep that related to what you drunk or ate before the sleep. Perhaps you are thinking about dieting?
Cheers Wolfjk

[lizzy]

Wolfjk, My husband grills steaks each weekend, typically I can only eat 1/4 to 1/2 of my steak. However last night I was extremely hungry (I have my period at the moment and then I get very hungry especially for meat) anyways last night when he grilled I ate the whole steak I have never done this in my life. He also made me pina coladas and I drank a few. I didn't feel bad about eating this much because I am thin and I normally don't do this but you are correct I did eat way more than I typically do. Thanks for this insight. Lizzy

[unclesirbobbyrobson]

Well that explanation does kind of work. Often in a dream something is associated in strange ways. The fat girl could symbolise eating lots. So if she is being nice then that links to you liking and enjoying the types of things that she is associated with.

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Dreams use symbols. In real life you will say something like "I need to be recognised and accepted. I just seem to constantly fighting against peopel who do not respect me in the way that they should". yet a dream will also express such a concept but in symbolic form. You maybe fighting in the dream. That symbolises the struggle in your life.

Also remember that the day before the dream is especially important in the dream. Many dreams link top specific feelings that we felt yesterday as we reform our emotions.

These pages are especially helpful in showing you how to interpret dreams

http://www.geocities.com/hairybobby2...howtopost.html Interpreting dreams
http://www.geocities.com/hairybobby2...ssayhowto.html Triggers for dreams
http://www.geocities.com/hairybobby2000/dreamessay.html Dream dictionary

[lizzy]

Unclesirbobbyrobson, Yes I think you are right this is a little funny to think of isn't it? Maybe I should lay off the steak ha-ha. Thanks you for the reply. Lizzy