I WANT HELP TO UNDERSTAND MY DEAD FRIEND

[holdenangel]

ABOUT 2 WEEKS AGO I HAD A DREAM OF A FRIEND WHO DIED IN A STOLEN CAR POLICE CHASE 9 YEARS AGO.

I HAVE NOT THOUGHT OF THIS PERSON FOR SOME TIME AND THOUGHT I HAD GOTTEN OVER HIS DEATH UNTIL....

HE CAME INTO MY DREAM, AND TOLD ME HE WAS NOT DEAD, HE TOLD ME HE HAS BEEN HIDING BECAUSE NOBODY CARED ABOUT HIM AND HE APOLOGIZED FOR DOING WRONG.

I ACCEPTED HIS APOLOGY AND THEN WENT ON TO TELL HIM THAT PEOPLE CARED, HE THEN ASKED ME TO PROVE IT SO I LET HIM KNOW THAT I HAVE NAMED MY 6 YEAR OLD SON AFTER HIM.

HE THEN WENT ON TO CRY AND ASKED ME IF HE WAS DEAD. I INFORMED HIM THAT HE DIED IN A CAR ACCIDENT IN 1997 AND HE CONTINUED TO CRY AND APOLOGIZE.

I WOKE UP SATURATED AND CRYING AND I FOUND THIS DREAM TO BE NOT SO MUCH DISTURBING BUT MORE VERY UPSETTING.

IT HAS BEEN PLAYING ON MY MIND FOR WEEKS AND I WONDER IF HE CAME TO MY DREAMS BEFORE CROSSING OVER AND IF PERHAPS THIS COULD HAVE PUT HIM AT EASE TO CROSS OVER EVEN AFTER 9 YEARS?

CAN SOMEONE EXPLAIN THIS DREAM TO ME PLEASE, I HAVE NEVER BEEN MORE UPSET ABOUT SOMETHING BEFORE.

[Varzandeh]

Hi,
Dreaming of a deceased person has two menings :1- if a dead person says that I'm alive means he has a good situation in the spiritual world and his place is like matyres.
2- a forgotten affair of you or something got impossible in your life will revive again.Soon in less than a month.
Crying means a happiness for you is on the way.Please let me know when something happened as a confirm.Please let me know your age and occupation.
Good luck.

[Elohim333]

Hello holdenangel,

ItÂ’s ironic how our emotions resurface with another layer just when we thought we'd finished. In your dream your friend actually DID appear in astral form and truly believed he was still alive in physical form. He has been both trying to hide out & hiding from himself the fact that he is no longer in physical form out of fear of being judged harshly for something he regrets having done. Making the transition when we fear being judged for what we've already judged ourself harshly for understandably holds us back.

He chose you to assist (as you were open enough to receive his message), and his guides persuaded him to seek out someone in physical form. Sometimes when we hear what is needed in another light or person their words are able to impact & influence us in a positive way.
YOU offered the reality check needed & healing words he needed to hear in order to move on. You were that influential person he trusted enough to make the transition. His guides knew if someone he trusted told him he no longer had a physical body he would believe it. You made the difference.

Take heart - youÂ’ve done some VERY POWERFUL work on the inner planes (during your dream). This was no easy task, as his guides have tried diligently to assist him and encourage him to move on, and had been unsuccessful up until this point in coax him to where he needed to be.

Normally when we awaken crying, etc, it deals with remorse. However in your case – it’s a much needed release that is healing for you.

So yes – your friend did come to you before he agreed to cross over. It feels as though he was skeptical and needed a good friend he COULD TRUST fully. You were/are that friend. The area he’s in feels woodsy, near a body of water. It’s a place of restoration.

Interestingly enough the number 9 is a number of completion. Though taxing, you were of great service. Please know your service will be rewarded. Where and when - I have no clue (that's what I'm hearing so I'l trust it). Hope that helps, take great care & God Bless

Kelli

[holdenangel]

thank you so much for your help, i think you both confirmed what i expected but i was a teeny bit skeptical as this has never happened to me before. i am proud of the fact that he came to me.

when i was 16 i was madly in love with him but he never knew this and it was difficult due to living interstate. i found his photo yesterday (taken just a few months before his death) and i have framed it and put it next to my computer. i thought i had lost it, thank god i found it.

Varzandeh, i am female 26 from australia, no occupation at current.

i will let you know what happens.

again thank you

[Elohim333]

What holdenangel,

No occupation - oh my word. You're already doing your real work in the world (I know what you meant though).

Never doubt for a moment your friend KNOWS you have that picture next to your computer.

Kelli

[holdenangel]

thank you heaps it still doesnt help the fact that after 9 years, all of a sudden i cant get him out of my head.

you guys r the only ppl i can talk to about this so please excuse my whining.

it still feels as though i need to speak with him and i dont know why.

[Elohim333]

No worries, I understand. Go for it, he can easily hear your thoughts. Once we cross over and are without physical form, we simply vibrate at a higher frequency. So while most are unable to see them - they're alive and well in another realm. (Listen to thoughts that pop into your mind, or ask for a sign for an answer back & trust what you receive.)

(I've seen with my own eyes more than once so have zero doubt). Also if you have a picture of yourself, or have one taken many times (not every time) but many - your spirit friends want to be in the picture with you. So show up behind the scenes (so to speak).

We're unable to see TV or radio waves, yet we KNOW they're there.
Unable to see a hummingbirds wings beat, yet we KNOW they hold the lil' hummers body mid air.

I'd never physically met a woman whos brochure I picked up in the grocery store. And could see a non-physical man behind her - drew it to the best of my ability, took a deep breath. I tried to contact her but she moved to Arizona (many states away). Mailed it off to her to ask A. if I were crazy, or B if she might know who the individual was. It was a close male friend of hers that had crossed over 10 years earlier. She said she always felt like he was around & indeed he was. Take good care -Gotta fly

Kelli

[holdenangel]

hi guys just a follow up, i have been in contact with my friends father on a regular basis and have discovered a few things about eric (the deceased)

1. he did not know the car was stolen, a friend told him it was his new car
2. from the time it was released my favorite song is I SWEAR i have never had a reason for it to be a favorite and now i do, i have sinced learned it was eric's fave song and was played at his funeral.
3. it turns out he had a crush on me although i did not know this
4. i have misplaced his picture due to moving and this has crushed me, it always goes missing, just that picture!
5. i think i have become obsessed since that dream about him and i just don't know what to do. i so badly want him to come to my dreams again.

[Elohim333]

Hi Holdenangel,

Interesting how in tune you are with him and the song, etc. You're open minded and it takes that to be a great receiver!

ASK before you fall asleep for at least 3 nights in a row that he be in your dream(s), or write it out on a small piece of paper & place it under your pillow. And that you will recall your dream when he does.

Many times what we ask for, or have on our mind will be part of our dreamscape. There are times though especially if really emotional it takes time for the individual to appear. I know with the death of someone I'd become very attached to, & loved heart & soul - I was an emotional basketcase. Though I kept asking, and praying to hold and hug them one more time, it took some time. Even though I knew he was A-OK, it was still a very healing closure when they FINALLY visited.

Hope that helps - take good care. ~Blessings to you~

[oreomarble]

Hello, I'm new to this forum but I was very interested in your dream and wanted to ask you some things.
Did you go to your friends funeral when he passed away?
If you didn't- sometimes it's the guilt of grief lingering- that we may feel on a subconscious level that makes us dream of our dead family member or friend.
Have you tried saying a nice prayer for your friend to help him cross over into the light and say a prayer for yourself for forgiveness.
I have had dreams of dead family members right before someone I love passes- like the boat man is coming to carry them away. The only time that I've dreamt of a friend that died - I said a prayer for him and never dreamt of him again. Try the prayers - maybe he can't leave due to unfinished business and asking you to forgive him- is one of them.