Dream of ex boyfriend

[little fairy]

Hi
I wonder if anyone could help me!? I keep having very similar dreams! I was with my ex for 6 years then he cheated on me and we split up! We have been split up for 1 year and 9 months! I keep having dreams of him and even when we were together in the last 6 months i was having pretty much the same dream!!

in the dream i can see him and people i know around us, its always different scenarios but every time he is ignoring me, or telling me he wants to be with me yet rejecting me for someone else!! i wake up crying as its soo real!!

Last night the whole nmight was a unsteady dream and i couldnt get out of it! this time he was with his new girlfriend and i could see them clearly but it was like he couldnt hear me!!

any advice would be great thanks!! x

[Sable]

Its obvious you still have feelings for him and that is what your dream is trying to tell him, but your is also saying that a relationship with him would be hurtful. It would be best to move on and find someone who truly cares and respects you.
hope that helps

[scoobus]

I agree with Sable.

Also sounds like there's still some anger and resentment toward your ex. I can't blame you, infidelity is quite painful.

I'll share what helped me lessen some resentment toward my ex-wife. I wrote her a long letter, full of all the anger I still held for her. I held nothing back, I verbally ripped her to shreds. But, I never sent it to her. Instead, I put it away for a few days and then read it to myself. Then I burned it, scooped up the ashes, and put them in a jar. I took the jar to a cemetary and buried it. It such a huge catharsis. You wouldn't believe the sense of relief I felt walking away from the cemetary.

healing doesn't happen right away, and sometimes old wounds need to be reopened - like a bone that wasn't set right has to be rebroken and reset. your dream might be telling you it's time to address those old wounds and start healing.

good luck.

[little fairy]

Thanks for your reply! Yeah there is still anger and resentment!!
But what hurts most is in the dream and reality i want to still be with him!!
but the dreams repeat them selfs!! also i sometimes have a dream often the i cant control my own body and its like im drugged i cant talk, i cant stand up and my legs r like jelly!! its quite frightening!

x

[scoobus]

Originally Posted by little fairy

Thanks for your reply! Yeah there is still anger and resentment!!
But what hurts most is in the dream and reality i want to still be with him!!
but the dreams repeat them selfs!! also i sometimes have a dream often the i cant control my own body and its like im drugged i cant talk, i cant stand up and my legs r like jelly!! its quite frightening!

x

I feel your pain. If I had a nickel for every dream I had about my ex-wife like that.