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08-13-2009, 12:43 PM
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My 18 yr. old son passed away 6 months ago.
He died on Friday the 13th of February. I had a dream last night that I was sitting in what I think was a church (am not a regular church goer). It was all women and the pews were arranged so 1/2 of the room faced the other half, as would sit in a rail car. We were all holding a baked turkey breast in our laps?!? and looking down at the turkey breast. Then I looked over my left shoulder and saw my son Tyler, in that bright, white light we hear of, with a HUGE smile on his face walking as fast as he could down the aisle towards me. I jumped up (don't know what happened to the turkey breast when I did) and ran to give him a hug. I was thinking "this is so cool. I am dying in my sleep and I'll get to be with Tyler forever from here on out". Then I woke up.
 I was so disappointed to wake up.     
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#2
08-13-2009, 01:15 PM
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Please accept my condolences.
Hello. This was a sign that your son is in Heaven. I know you miss him. Just know that he is resting in peace. I think the turkey represents Thanksgiving...all the beautiful dinners you made for him. Hang in there.
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08-13-2009, 05:05 PM
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I feel for your loss deeply....
The women represent " heaven's host of Angels" .The Turkeys represent the meaning of " Thanks Giving ",which is to always be thankful for the blessings that God gives us.This means,in this case,to be thankful that he is in Heaven with a huge smile,and amongst Angels happy and in peace.Your feeling of wanting to be with him is you spirit's way of telling you that inevitably,you too,will be with him in heaven !
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#4
08-13-2009, 06:38 PM
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My 18 year old son
Dear tyler'smom. A beautiful dream. I would agree with the other members replies the turkey breasts represent thanksgiving. Turkey also contains an enzyne which relaxes the nervous system. The turkey is the key to unlocking the barriers between the demensions. It would be normal in your sitation to have experienced a lot of grief in your sons loss. Grief like worry is not a paticularly productive mindset both of them tend to self generate in a circular pattern blocking any escape. The key to enlightenment is to begin thoughts with gratitude. Gratitude to be alive, gratitude to have had tyler for your son, and gratitude that the bond between you and your son can never be broken. If you excercise these thoughts before you go to sleep you will visit Tyler as much as you would seem necessary. I specifically mention necessary, because you will need to move on in life meeting new friends, possibly relationships because as great as it was to have Tyler for a son its the attitude of being protective and nurturing that is the lessons we need to get down in our lifes experiences. Best regards.
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#5
08-13-2009, 07:53 PM
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Thank you for all of your responses.
I am a lucid dreamer. In this dream I saw him, I mean I really saw him. And I said, "this is so cool, I'm seeing my son smiling, coming to greet me and help me cross over. There's the bright light, I'm dying in my sleep and I get to be with him". And then things began to fade and, still sleeping I begged God "please, just take me now, I want only to be with him and he needs his mom. Please don't allow me to wake up." And then I woke up and was so disappointed. I felt, when I saw that light, "yesssssss.......I'm going to be reunited with my baby".
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08-13-2009, 11:18 PM
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I feel your sadness...
I have a customer who is also a dear friend.I've worked for her and have known her fo almost 18 years now.Her daughter died from luekemia cancer when she was just 17 years old.She was very smart and beautiful,and she died way,way too young.Gloria,her mom and my friend,says that she is positive that the luekemia was caused by a " Transfomer " that was too close to her daughter's window,outside on a telephone pole.
Anyway many years have passed since the death of her daughter.The father,her husband,deals with his child's death by refuseing to talk about her.He is,and has been in denial.Gloria is sad all the time,even though she has two other daughters that try to make her happy. I can't say that in time your pain and sadness will ease,or go away.Becauase the death of loved one,especually a child, is very traumatic,and life changing experience. But i believe that your dream was God's way of showing and telling you that your son is in heaven among the angels and that he is smiling and happy.
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#7
08-14-2009, 04:16 AM
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Hi there.
Let me just say, I am truly sorry for the loss of your child, I can imagine the pain left to reside in your heart. I wish you healing and strength during this time. But maybe in the dream you were looking at it wrong, not that you were dying there in your sleep that day, because of course here you are toughing through another day. But maybe your son was trying to show you by the smile and the vision of him running to greet you that he is happy where he is and of course he misses his mother. You sound like you cherished your boy very much and no matter what he is doing in the afterlife he knows that and holds it very dear to his heart. Maybe what this dream was trying to tell you is that ONE day.. not today, and hopefully not soon, you two WILL be reunited again. And it will be a joyful day. But just from one stranger to another who has lost someone very very dear to my heart also.. I think the best way to honor the lost ones is to... in a sense find them.. find yourself, grow from the love you shared, from the loss you endured, and the amount of strength it took you to win the heartache battle. I lost my dear one.. it will be 7 years Nov. 14th.. but not a day goes past that I don't thin k of him, speak to him with my heart. I still talk about him to others, I will never ever let his memory fade not from my heart or any others who knew him. I write poems in his memory, make songs in his memory, I set goals for my own personal things just to show him I can do it, if not for me.. then for him. In a way, I am a better person because I lost him. His passing helped me see things in a whole new light and I will be forever thankful for the many years I DID get to have with him. These things you too can hold onto and grow from. Blossom into a new improved you. And when you ARE reunited with your son, he will know all you did for him even AFTER his passing. Oh and I am not a church goer either, I'm a lil unsure where I stand religiously but I DO believe in afterlife. Again, I wish you all my strength, hope, and faith. Bless your heart Tyler's Mom. And hang in there... some common advice that everyone gives... "Time heals all wounds" No time wont heal you.. but in time you will come to a understanding and that makes it easier to take it day by day. -Candeebee
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#8
08-15-2009, 10:51 PM
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Well who knows if we live on after death. It is possible but not something that I say anything about as its just speculation. If you were to look at nmy dream guide you would probably class this as an emotional dream. Such dreams show emotions rising through your mind during sleep... and expressing themselves in dreams. Was there something from the day before that would make you highly emotional ... reflective... wanting to think about your son?
Sometimes we just wake up highly emotional... and the dream just fits in with that mood... ------------------------ My dream guide http://www.dreamsymbolism.info
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