My Wife's Dreams

[smitty1962a]

My wife had two dreams that she told me about recently. During one dream. one of her friends from high school and her went back to an old brick school that was seven stories tall and very dilapidated. When she talks about this friend of hers its almost always how she is stuck back in the 70's.
In her second dream, my two sons, her, and I are standing at an elevator. She is afraid to go up to the top floor because someone died there. However, my sons and I go. Later, I text her asking her where she is. Then she tries to call me on my cell and can't reach, but is able to reach my older son. She described this dreamed as being the worst one she has ever had.
In the first dream, I think it is telling her that her way of thinking is outdated. Her methods of doing things in the past are not working today. In the second dream, I get a sense that she doesn't want to move on. Anyway, I'm not sure and I would like an outside opinion.

[Wolfjk]

Originally Posted by smitty1962a

My wife had two dreams that she told me about recently. During one dream. one of her friends from high school and her went back to an old brick school that was seven stories tall and very dilapidated. When she talks about this friend of hers its almost always how she is stuck back in the 70's.
In her second dream, my two sons, her, and I are standing at an elevator. She is afraid to go up to the top floor because someone died there. However, my sons and I go. Later, I text her asking her where she is. Then she tries to call me on my cell and can't reach, but is able to reach my older son. She described this dreamed as being the worst one she has ever had.
In the first dream, I think it is telling her that her way of thinking is outdated. Her methods of doing things in the past are not working today. In the second dream, I get a sense that she doesn't want to move on. Anyway, I'm not sure and I would like an outside opinion.

Hi Smitty,

In the first dream, I think it is telling her that her way of thinking is outdated. Her methods of doing things in the past are not working today

When someone dreams about being back at the old school, it usually means that she is being unfairly criticised and feels embarrassed about it. Almost all of us don something in school we feel ashamed of or embarrassed about. You should know how many of your students feel when you ask them something and they can't come up with an answer. Appart from that, adolescence is the blushing age. Sexual awkening, onset of menstruation and other personal problems make school days traumatic!
The second dream indicates that your wife is worried about your health! You'll have to slim!
Cheers Wolfjk

[weiss]

buildings are also about the idea of building something up. you can build skills, build your social circle, etc. so the idea of a dilapidated building is probably related to worries that you arent keeping something sharp and neat that was previously built up. i kind of like dilapidated buildings though, so they cant be all bad.

in the second dream maybe she just isnt as idealistic as she used to be. it is kind of scary. i dont think it is about moving on or anything. when i was a kid i always had dreams with elevators and skyscrapers and going to the top of these cool buildings. it's probably more about believing that there are things worth aspiring to. i think thats why people remember having really fun pleasant dreams as kids. they had more positive outlooks on life before they were disillusioned.

[Varzandeh]

Hi,
In the first dream a brick building is an indirect saying for a quarrel on the way.

In the second , she is afraid of some progression at work that someone had her/his problem solved.

Good luck.

[smitty1962a]

Thanks everyone for your answers ro her dreams and to mine. We are worried about each other's health because she has colitis and I have almost constant migraines. The running joke at our house is that if you put us both together that we still wouldn't get a good one. Weiss, like you I like dilapidated buildings not because their shabby, but because I see potential. There are many houses in town that people are renovating and I enjoy walking by to see the progress being made. Varandeh, I hope there's not a quarrel on the way becaue that usually involves me, but thanks for the heads up.

[IrisRavenstar]

Usually, I don't do second-hand dreams, preferring the dream that is typed in by the dreamer, and includes usually more detail. But this one intrigued me, so I'll say a few things.

Our human bodies have seven main chakras (sanskrit for wheel, they are energy centers, visible to many psychics and to Kirlian photography), which start at the tail bone, and run up to the crown of the head. I think this is the dilapidated seven-story building. It speaks to me of a need for healing at many levels, but especially the seventh story. The seventh, or Crown chakra is just above the crown of the head, is usually seen as violet in color, and is our connection to Spirit or God/dess, in whatever way your wife understands that part of our Being.

The spiritual realms are where the dead seem to reside, so the fear here seems to me to be of her own intuitive knowledge that might actually help her to heal herself if she could get over the fear and allow herself to open up to it. The intuitive part of the mind is the feminine right brain. You and your two sons going without her won't really help much, as you are depicting the masculine left brain, the intellectual side, which apparently bears more weight with her (normal in our current world). She needs to bring out the feminine side, and allow it to be not only present, but the one in charge during a gathering of information. Then the male intellectual side can help interpret it and use it! The reason the dream was bad is that she's fighting something that is actually natural, possibly due to religious indoctrination, which uses a lot of fear to discourage psychic skills in order to keep the hierarchy in control. I used to do that too!

But my dreams have shown me the way out of so many illnesses, that there is no fear anymore! Just a great sense of being blessed, and knowing God/dess loves me, for real, and as Jesus said, knows how many hairs I have on my head, and when a stomach ache is a bleeding ulcer and not cancer like the doctor is trying to say. That time, I got step by step dietary and herbal advice and oversight through my dreams and waking visions, and it healed without all the invasive tests or possibly wrong treatment making matters worse.

Give your wife my best!

I'm done for today! See you all soon!