does anyone have an answer for me??

[heather36]

can someone tell me what my dream is about please
before i tell you about my dream i will give you some background just over 3 years ago we moved my grandfather from the cottage he had lived in for years to a place much closer to our home he had wanted to move anyway and it was good timing in the end as he had been unwell just before we got the flat,he settled in fine anyway im not sure when my dream started but a little while later and quite often since i have had dreams of myself needing to go back to the old cottage i feel in the dream that its somthing i have to do, at first i had to sneak into the cottage without the people from the nearby fARM AND THE OWNERS FINDING OUT i think in every dream that its old photos i am looking for and seem to have a feeling that we have left something behind it is allmost the same every time with just little bits different now and again but i have had the same dream so many times i really feel that it has to be trying to tell me something ,now just to add a bit 3weeks ago my grandfather died very suddenly and since then i have had the dream again the only diffence this time is that as i was going to leave the cottage and as i walked into the kitchen from the living room there was a man standing in the kitchen his face was so clear but not a face i know at all or even a face of anyone in their younger days and allthough i wasnt scared of him in the dream it sort of makes me feel a little uneasy since after i woke from this dream i went back to sleep and allmost went back into the dream but this time i had other people with me and i was telling the person from the farm that my grandad had died and i had to go and look in the cottage etc the people with me that i think were some family members went and i was last to leave the cottage and i was then in the second field down hiding behind the hedge looking at 2 or three men looking at the cottage across in the first field down and they were waiting to catch me coming out i think then one of the men who i knew as an old friend of my grandfathers waved at me to say he knew i was in the next field and he walked off away from the other men/man i think he was saying its ok i know you have gone from the cottage can anyone help me to say what this is as after at least two and half years of dreaming the same thing its really got to be telling me somthing

[pikka]

Well, it could be there's something you need to remember from some visit you had there [photos: images: memory]. Is there someone you met even elsewhere on a day when you visited your grandfather there [the man]?

I think memories become like compressed files on a computer and you have to pick at them to get them to open. I think there's a memory and once you recall it, you'll know whether or not to actually go back.