Weird dream can someone help me

[pebbs]

I had a dream that my coworker decided to ask me out and i said yes but as soon after he asked me out found out he was dating two girls at the same time. One girl he didnt have the heart to break up with her because she was very senstive. The other girl he was in love i even remember her name was jenny. The next thing that happened was we were all on the bus and all her friends started to jump all over me how he broke up with the girl that he didnt have the heart to break up with because he wanted to be with me. They also told me that he was in love with this girl jenny but he broke up with her too because he wanted to be with me even though hes in love with her .

Then they were all yelling at me and jumping down my throat, and then i remember we got off the bus and i went into the building to find him and then i woke up. Even though this is my co worker it was set in the time of high school and i was on the yellow bus on the way to school and the last thing i remeber it was cloudy and i was walking into school.

In real life I have a coworker who i use to talk to until is mom stop us from talking a year ago, she also works with us. His friends at work didnt approve of us talking either. At work these girls give me dirty looks all the time and have spread rumors about me which is one reason why he stopped talking ot me a year ago along with his mom not approving. I have spoked about him on this board before.

[DrmDoc]

Hello pebbs,

If you're considering reigniting your friendship with the person in your dream, consider this dream as a warning about the trouble such relationships at work can cause. Think about this as you consider relationships with your co-workers. I hope this helps.

[pebbs]

yea i know. but the dream wasn't about being friends it was about being more than friends. i think for us to be friends or more than friends it would have to be not at work, where no one there could know. I wouldn't work there anymore. Because you can't date someone or be theyre friend and not talk to them if you work with them. If something would happen it would have to be outside of work and i couldnt work there anymore. There are too many people including his mom who works there who disaproves that have given him a hard time about it, and told him lies. He just doesn't want to deal with that, I think thats why he stopped talking to me even though he didnt want to. I know from him he wants to talk to me but he can't at work.

[DrmDoc]

Hello Pebbs,

Your dream is your personal advisor and its advice is not to pursue that relationship under any circumstance--in my opinion.

[pebbs]

i know but outside of work i think we could be friends