Dream about having a baby with my ex

[borntosnooze]

Hello, I'm new here. Hope someone could help me figure this out.

A couple nights ago, I had a dream about having a baby with my ex boyfriend (who I dumped for cheating on me two weeks ago). In the dream, my family hands me this baby and tells me it's mine. I'm shocked of course and keep asking them, "Is this really my baby?" I ask them who the father is and they say it's my ex. I become upset after hearing this.

Sidenote: I'm 28 years old and have no intention of having a baby anytime soon, but I've been thinking about wanting kids a lot lately for some reason.

[unclesirbobbyrobson]

Well dreams link to reality in ways that we do not realise. In real life you dislike your ex because she cheated on you.

In a way this dream links directly to that. If she is having a baby then you are not certain who the father is BECAUSE she is cheating

So really the dream just tells you what you already know... she is cheating and you cannot really trust what she says

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In real life we constantly make little decisions. We make judgments about how people react and how they perform. We assess how well we have done and if we can make little alterations. Life is full of such decisions. But in real life we need to make decisions quickly. Should I trust my son to walk to school on his own? Should I start jogging again so soon after my foot was injured? Should I side with my friend at work even though I know she was lying? In real life we need to make yes or no choices. Yet the truth is that in many cases we wish to say maybe! Much of the time we lack the necessary evidence or information to make a proper informed choice. Judging peoples characters and reactions is an ongoing process. Peoples behavior changes and we can spot these imperceptible changes. In many ways dreams concentrate on things which are different or changing in your life. Perhaps they dwell on a moment when your distrust of someone turned to trust. When your patience with someone turned to impatience. Dreams mark these little turning points. They mark the moment when the balance of the scales shifted from yes to no.

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[borntosnooze]

Originally Posted by unclesirbobbyrobson

Well dreams link to reality in ways that we do not realise. In real life you dislike your ex because she cheated on you.

In a way this dream links directly to that. If she is having a baby then you are not certain who the father is BECAUSE she is cheating

So really the dream just tells you what you already know... she is cheating and you cannot really trust what she says

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In real life we constantly make little decisions. We make judgments about how people react and how they perform. We assess how well we have done and if we can make little alterations. Life is full of such decisions. But in real life we need to make decisions quickly. Should I trust my son to walk to school on his own? Should I start jogging again so soon after my foot was injured? Should I side with my friend at work even though I know she was lying? In real life we need to make yes or no choices. Yet the truth is that in many cases we wish to say maybe! Much of the time we lack the necessary evidence or information to make a proper informed choice. Judging peoples characters and reactions is an ongoing process. Peoples behavior changes and we can spot these imperceptible changes. In many ways dreams concentrate on things which are different or changing in your life. Perhaps they dwell on a moment when your distrust of someone turned to trust. When your patience with someone turned to impatience. Dreams mark these little turning points. They mark the moment when the balance of the scales shifted from yes to no.

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Thanks for your input. I'm a woman, by the way. I'm sure that doesn't really affect the answer. I'm still feeling upset about my ex boyfriend cheating on me, so it makes sense.

[unclesirbobbyrobson]

Sorry. I sometimes make assumptions about the sex of a person. But your right it didn't really matter in terms of the interpretation.

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[Varzandeh]

Hi,
If it was a baby boy means you will have a sorrow, if it was a baby girl means you will have a happiness or curing an illness.

[borntosnooze]

Thanks for your input. I don't remember what the sex of the baby was. In the dream, I was more worried that I had a child that I didn't want and that my ex boyfriend fathered it.

[Varzandeh]

Hi,
It may mean an unexpected benefit from him in around two months.

Good luck.