how do i proceed

[gambit]

hi all,
this is a dream i had 2 days back and i have spent much time thinking about it but have been unable to come to a conclusion on what it could be implying so am looking for advice on what i should do next. i've tried to put in all the details i can remeber from my dream...hope it helps

the dream starts off with me thinking about how ive been sharing my bed with with my friend who has run away from something for the last few nights and about how im not getting enough sleep so i decide to go to sleep early. i wake up in the middle of the night to find my best friend (a girl) sleeping in my arms (kinda like an embrace). she is awake and i percieve her to be worried and i tell her not to worry now, and joke about how our future selves in the morning can handle the problems and we should sleep now. she laughs and agrees with what i have just said. she snuggles up to me and i stop myself from telling her how much i love her when she looks into my eyes and says " i love you too" like she read my mind and she kisses me on the cheek and at this point im telling myself that i cant let this happen coz she has a boyfriend already... i keep thinking to myself if only i wasnt such a good guy...when i woke up with a start.

the background is that ive only recently realised that i have feeling for her and havnt told her about it coz she is already with some other guy.. so i need help figuring out what the dream is trying to say

[Wolfjk]

Originally Posted by gambit

hi all,
this is a dream i had 2 days back and i have spent much time thinking about it but have been unable to come to a conclusion on what it could be implying so am looking for advice on what i should do next. i've tried to put in all the details i can remeber from my dream...hope it helps

the dream starts off with me thinking about how ive been sharing my bed with with my friend who has run away from something for the last few nights and about how im not getting enough sleep so i decide to go to sleep early. i wake up in the middle of the night to find my best friend (a girl) sleeping in my arms (kinda like an embrace). she is awake and i percieve her to be worried and i tell her not to worry now, and joke about how our future selves in the morning can handle the problems and we should sleep now. she laughs and agrees with what i have just said. she snuggles up to me and i stop myself from telling her how much i love her when she looks into my eyes and says " i love you too" like she read my mind and she kisses me on the cheek and at this point im telling myself that i cant let this happen coz she has a boyfriend already... i keep thinking to myself if only i wasnt such a good guy...when i woke up with a start.

the background is that ive only recently realised that i have feeling for her and havnt told her about it coz she is already with some other guy.. so i need help figuring out what the dream is trying to say

Hi,
Stop being a "GOOD GUY', all's fair in love and war! however it would be better if played the field a bit more! It would save you a friendship, save you embarrasment and probably get you a more suitable partner!
It is quite natural for two people to fall for each other if life throws them together. If you are very tactful, you may be able to find out whether she likes you or not.
Cheers Wolfjk

[Varzandeh]

Hi,
Dreams are in an indirect saying way and should be interpreted.
Even if you had sex with her it would mean that you will do her a favor a help, nothing else.

This may happen in a few days to around two months.

Good luck.

[unclesirbobbyrobson]

Well gambit,

I study dreams and I firmaly believe that they link to our thoughts. Sometimes these are key thoughts forming in our mind about important subjects ... sometimes they are premonitions of emotions we are about to have... to genuinely tell the future... usually in regards to something the next day.

They do not tell us earth shattering things... they will tell you how you have been thinking and feeling in relation to this girl. You already know that... but its fun to see how your dream is translated...

My best guess is that the dream features the questions and dilemmas inside your mind ... questions such as

"Should I tell her how I feel"

"Would she really want to know"

"Maybe I should be less of a good guy"

Dreams will not so much give us advice.. they more tell us what we are focusing on... dreams are about the difficult subjects in our lives... were there are mixed feelings... conflicts... you truly don't know which is the best course of action... its just intuitions... thats what dreams are about

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Dream interpreting is not an easy task. In some ways its like trying to work out what subject inspired someone’s poem by studying the metaphors within it. It can be done though. But you only achieve any level of success when you interpret your own dreams.

Generally dreams are very much in the present day. They will often represent specific thoughts either as we look back to the previous day or as we focus on the day to come. So a snake for example symbolises something bad and in the context of a dream analysis will generally point to some problem or trap either that you nearly fell into yesterday or that you worry about in the near future. But either way there are not that many problems and traps and difficult situations from yesterday. Usually you will be able to highlight one thing.

So try to look at dreams simply. A good dream will show your happy state of mind and so thats really not that difficult to trace.


The following pages above all help you to learn the basics of dream interpreting

Dream dictionary interpretation - How to interpret dreams Interpreting dreams
Dreams analyzed Triggers for dreams
Dream dictionary symbols - How to analyse and interpret dreams Dream dictionary