last night i dreamed of my aunts

[char k]

the first aunt is dead in real life and her children were all in my dream. just having fun and visiting. the 2nd aunt hasn't talked to me since the other aunts death. i kept telling her how much i loved her and how much i needed her. in the dream there was no resolution. but coffee seemed to be an important point. (the dead aunts husband is a coffee fein) and he also was in the dream. we all kept making him coffee.

i feel i need to make this family whole again. any suggestions?
much love
char k

[Varzandeh]

Hi,
Coffee is a symbol for a sorrow as the bitter taste and black color implies.

Good luck.

[char k]

thanks V
it is a bitter situation.
i need to cleanse it and make it whole.
i feel somewhat at fault for the outcome.
family means alot.
i feel you can help.
i feel you can direct me to make it all okay again.
CAN YOU
much love
char k

[Varzandeh]

Hi,
What do you want me to do for you?

[unclesirbobbyrobson]

Well I have a strong belief in premonitions. I also believe in telepathy dreams. But I am very unsure about dreams about people who have died. How do we truly tell if they have been communicating with us.

People exist in our hearts and minds. Although I do believe in premonitions dreas can and often do have simple meanings. They reflect the stuff that floats around our own heads.

It may just be that you have recognised mistakes you have made in the past. That you wish to rctify things. Your dreams define you as a person. They underpin your own morality and ideologies ... your very reasons for living. So a dream will reflect your own beliefs . It may seem important and it is. But it may just still be thoughts floating around your own head.

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[char k]

both of your replies were insightful. the dream was like real life my aunt hasnt been a aunt to me since my grandmother died. my mom and i cared for the grandmother prior to her death and when i had to return to work and leave it all to my mom this aunt wouldnt help and me and my brother laid down the law that our mom needed help caring for grandmother and if the rest of the family would not help we may resort to a nursing home. which in the end did happen as rehab sort of deal. but why did she and another aunt not help and not own up to responsibility and now not speak to us in years. and why do i feel such guilt that the remark i made about my mom needing help break this close family up. why does she not speak or keep in contact with me her, her sister's daughter. and why did i dream of the situation that is now at least 10 years old.

i feel i need to make the family whole again V how can i do this, that is what i ask of you. and should i even care?

[Varzandeh]

Hi,
In the holy books is said if you cut relations with family members your relations to God will be cut and if you connect to the family God will have relations to You.

The only thing to do is you to go to the family members to say hello regularly at least once or twice a year.The thing will be corrected by God.

Good luck.

[char k]

thank you
much love
char k