I am new at this Please help me.

[Modify]

This Dream caused me to awake many times. It also caused me to spend all of today researching the dream. This is the first dream I have ever actually pursued any kind of explanation for. What really bothers me is the final scene where the child tells me that my love was false and the "perfect girl" who i felt alot of love for tells me my kisses are lies. The whole dream left me with an incredible sinking feeling and if there is a message that any of you can please help me understand I would love to listen to your words.



It opens with a party with a large amount of people in my old home.
I was in my room alone staring at a box of items that I collected fom my last relationship.I see the "perfect girl" when I leave a room and pass to another for the first time but I choose to ignore her. But later that night I meet her in the bathroom where she is in the bathtub in her clothes drunk, the tub partially full of water, marti gra beads wrapped around her wrists and ballons/blown up condoms floating in the water.She told me her name. But I dont remeber what it was but I do know she was the "perfect girl"
We we communicating about what I dont know but I enjoyed it. She begain to cry and I helped her clean up and helped her back to the party. I enjoyed my time with her and soon she had to leave with others I think it may have been her parents.I remeber time passing slowly and than suddenly she came back. It was at this point that we started dating. I ressisted at first but she began to cry so I quickly but happily submitted. Time passes quickly and we are suddenly on the stairs of another home i lived in.(an outside staircase) The neighbor child is calling me up the stairs. The girl smiles at me and asks for a kiss. I kiss her in front of the child and the child says that was a careful kiss. So it doesn't count since we clearly dont love each other. I frown and the child leaves with her hat quoting the 10 commandments on a scrolling electronic marqee. I rest my head on her shoulder. She smiles and says "Even your kisses are lies, Thats why I love you"

Anyways any help would be greatly appreciated and those of you who do this are great people and thank you for such a service from the heart.

Thanks Modify

[char k]

i feel you are having relationship trouble...period....you are not being truthful to someone, yourself or your present lover???
just be you
just be honest
much love
char k

[weiss]

well the dream went from a crazy party scene where rules don't really apply to seeing the ten commandments on scrolling on a hat. so think of something where a lot of rules might make you doubt yourself. rules are there to cramp your style. almost as bad as kissing in front of an annoying neighborhood child.

i dunno that the words all that important. i dont remember too many dreams where it was important what people said. this dream could simply mean that you're more comfortable in a morally loose environment. it doesnt have to be about a particular girl.

[dreamalittledream]

The message of the dream is that honesty is the best policy. Lying does no good and only makes you feel guilty, as it should. You should follow the Ten Commandments, but what is wrong with loving someone? You feel some kind of sinking feeling that kissing this woman you love is criminal, but there is no crime in loving another. Perhaps your religion or your morals have kept you from pursuing true love.
Life is precious, so why not pursue the woman of your dreams? It is false to deny yourself what you want. As long as you aren't hurting her or yourself, where's the harm? Some people find love here and others there...who cares where you met her?
You will find lasting love soon and it will be blissful and you deserve happiness. Forgive yourself and others and find this "perfect girl" of your dreams.

[Wolfjk]

Hi,
Dreams are about what happens in the sleep they occur in. Your dream reflects your lifestyleof playing the field. However the dream also indicates that you were feeling a bit tipsy in your sleep. Was it drinks or stimulants?
Many dreams are dreamt purely for entertainment. Although you're asleep, idle thoughts come and go like in waking life. The subconscious responds with a dream story.

I kiss her in front of the child and the child says that was a careful kiss. So it doesn't count since we clearly dont love each other. I frown and the child leaves with her hat quoting the 10 commandments on a scrolling electronic marqee. I rest my head on her shoulder. She smiles and says "Even your kisses are lies, Thats why I love you"

At the end of sleep, or when you're ready to wake up the subconscious puts a waking element, or a series of waking elements in the dream story. These are incongruous, or strange words or sentences that grab your attention; sometimes very firmly indeed! as these few sentences did in your dream. The strangeness of the ideas are the waking elements in your dream. It is the way your subconscious connected or switched on your brain! That is the reason you remembered the dream!
Cheers Wolfjk