Nightmares that my daughter is dead

[rosannasmom]

I've had 4 different dreams about this and she is only 3 months old. The first one, she was not dead. We went to Busch Gardens and we left her with someone to watch her while we went on a ride and then we left the ride without her (without realizing it at first). Then I freaked out and realized we forgot her but when I went back she was gone and did not know who had taken her or where.

The second one I took her to a restaurant and it was raining when I got out but I thought if I ran fast I could get to the car without her getting wet. But as I ran through the parking lot I saw she was all wet and I was wiping the water off her face. Then when I got in the car she wasn't moving or breathing so I drove around frantically to try to find a place where I could help her and I drove my car into a parking lot but my car was too big to fit in the space. Then I drove into the lobby of a hotel. Then I took her out of the car and I was screaming "somebody help her" and they were just looking at me!! So I opened her mouth and there was all this black stuff in her mouth that kind of looked like coffee grounds and I was scooping out handfuls of it and throwing it on the floor!! Finally I got it all out and then I saw there was a big hole in her tongue where I guess the stuff had burned a hole through it. But it was too late and she was dead.

I've had two more dreams where she died and it was my fault (or I felt like it was my fault) because of something I did, or didn't do. I can't remember them anymore. I am really scared that something is going to happen to her in real life because of these dreams.

please help

[Wolfjk]

Originally Posted by rosannasmom

I've had 4 different dreams about this and she is only 3 months old. The first one, she was not dead. We went to Busch Gardens and we left her with someone to watch her while we went on a ride and then we left the ride without her (without realizing it at first). Then I freaked out and realized we forgot her but when I went back she was gone and did not know who had taken her or where.

The second one I took her to a restaurant and it was raining when I got out but I thought if I ran fast I could get to the car without her getting wet. But as I ran through the parking lot I saw she was all wet and I was wiping the water off her face. Then when I got in the car she wasn't moving or breathing so I drove around frantically to try to find a place where I could help her and I drove my car into a parking lot but my car was too big to fit in the space. Then I drove into the lobby of a hotel. Then I took her out of the car and I was screaming "somebody help her" and they were just looking at me!! So I opened her mouth and there was all this black stuff in her mouth that kind of looked like coffee grounds and I was scooping out handfuls of it and throwing it on the floor!! Finally I got it all out and then I saw there was a big hole in her tongue where I guess the stuff had burned a hole through it. But it was too late and she was dead.

I've had two more dreams where she died and it was my fault (or I felt like it was my fault) because of something I did, or didn't do. I can't remember them anymore. I am really scared that something is going to happen to her in real life because of these dreams.

please help

Hi,
Your dreams are probably caused by post natal stress. Try to relax. The dreams have nothing to do with your baby. They come about because you worry about her day and night. When you're stressed these negative thoughts keep intruding into your sleep and your subconscious translates them into dreams.
Have a talk about your dreams to your doctor and your friends. I'm sure the dreams will stop soon. Hormone changes after the birth sometimes cause depression without you realising it.
I hope all will be well.
Cheers Wolfjk

[Varzandeh]

Hi,
Your daughter is a sample of you also a little girl means a happiness and blessings ,if a little girldies means a sorrow is on the way.
She was wet means a travel on the way and she died means a sorrow .Also coffee means a sorrow on the way.
If you help a few poor for the food or more it may pass slightly.