"GayBi Dream" What does this mean?

[kagomeshuko]

I had this dream a few nights ago:

Wow! What an odd dream I had last night.

I dreamt that I was dating this girl that I knew from St. Paul years ago when we were young and in handbell choir together.

She lived in Lake Charles again (she doesn't, she lives in PA).

She is the middle sister of three sisters and we were so happy together. We would go out in groups of friends and she and I would hold hands and enjoy our time dating each other.

The thing was that I hadn't told my parents that I might be bisexual (I wasn't sure, but I was feeling like this was true love with her so that I was). Yes, it was as if my Daddy were still alive.

I didn't talk to my parents first. I first talked to my sister. I asked her, "What if I were bisexual?"

She said, "Well, you better change back because the Bible doesn't allow that!"

I just left her feeling angry and then went on another group date where I held my "girlfriend's" hand. We chatted and I told her that I had not yet told my parents.

She said that she understood because her parents didn't like the fact that she liked girls.


The dream ended as I was about to tell my Mama that I thought I might be bisexual, but it never got that far in the dream.



I'm not bisexual. I know that. I have nothing against people who are. I have nothing against people who are homosexual. It's just that I am not, so it was a very strange dream.

I think part of it may have come from the fact that another daughter in a different family that I knew from St. Paul is homosexual and her mother has disowned her because of that and basically refuses to talk to her.

I found her on facebook once and sent her a message. She said it wasn't uncommon for people to not agree with her mother. (This has been a long standing thing with me and her mother. The daughter and I are about the same age and always got along well.)



So, yeah, very odd indeed. At least I enjoyed listening to the wind this morning. That was neat.

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My friend said:

Nothing wrong with having a 'gay dream'. I've had dreams where I was a guy, or an animal, but I have no desire to be either, y'know? I know it's been tough for your family lately since your Dad [died], so it's entirely possible you were projecting affection onto someone else in your dreams, and your subconscious just latched onto that girl for some reason.

I was just wondering if it is possible if there were any other interpretations.

[Varzandeh]

Hi,
Dream language is symbolic and should be interpreted.
Having sex means one will do the other a BIG FAVOR A HELP NOTHING MORE.
We have had hundreds of sex dreams here in the archive.Once a student wrote she had sex with principale ( female)of the school and I told the same ... she will do you a favor, after a month or so she wrote the principale added a few marks to her score and excempted her from finals.


Here are all of the scenarios about sex :


To have sex with a known person means you will do her a favor a help, nothing more.
If one dreamt had anal sex with his wife or another woman means he is innovator in religion and will do something that is not good for him and he doesn't follow the prophet's way.
If dreamt had sex with his mother or sister or some immoral relatives means his relations with the family will cut and means a sorrow also he won't see that relative any more.
If dreamt had sex generally means achieving a wish.
If dreamt two woman or two men had sex means one will do the other a big favor.
If dreamt someone had sex with his wife means his family will get rich or will buy houses.
If dreamt had sex with his wife and the woman was over him means he will marry another woman.
If dreamt had sex with a virgin girl means he will marry in the same year.
If dreamt had sex with the governor's wife means he will overcome the enemy.
If dreamt had sex with a wild animal means he will overcome the enemy.
Some interpreters say will have fears by the governor.
If dreamt had sex with a bird will overcome someone who is interpreted as that bird.
If dreamt had sex with a jew or Zoroastrian means his material situation will arrange.
If an old woman or old man whose passion is gone dreamt had passion like when he was young means he/she will like very much to do religious duties and prayers.
If dreamt had sex with a prostitute means he will like the material world and will receive immoral money.
If one dreamt had sex with a camel means he will rescue from a sorrow and a hard situation also will overcome the rival and will be somewhat famous.
If dreamt had sex with a president or a governor means will be near to the governor.
If dreamt had sex with the queen or the governor's wife means he will receive benefits from the governor.
If dreamt had sex with a woman who was in her cycle means his situation will be worse.
If dreamt had sex with a woman who is passed away means his situation will be worse till he marry one of her relatives.
If dreamt had sex with a known woman means he will be far from her relatives.
If dreamt had sex with a known man means will receive a benefit from him.
If dreamt had sex with an unknown man means will his wish by the governor.
If dreamt had sex with a dead man means will pray for the dead or will do a charity for his sake.
If a woman dreamt had sex with another woman means she will do her a favor.
Some interpreters say if had sex with a woman in her cycle means his affairs in material world will be easy.
If dreamt had sex with a passed away woman means a sorrow.
If dreamt had sex with an unknown dead woman means he will succeed in a job that was disappointed.
If dreamt had sex with a known young man that they are in fight means their enmity will turn to love.
If dreamt had sex with an old woman means will receive a benefit and goodness.

Dream language interpretation is an ancient science of allusions and pointing of the surrounded environment, as Mr. Einstein has said the events are like train stations which exist and we are moving towards them, these are prewritten destiny with some authority ( in decision making seconds) in very full details. This dream language should be translated, and interesting to know it is international and common for all human beings. But ignorance causes some misunderstanings.People were not aware of this language and always thought in a bad way , for example Mr. Freud said about sexual dreams it is because you have suppressed your sexual desires so misled everybody and some women dreamt about having sex with co-workers or another and thought they should do that, while it only meant he will do something for her, or some others dreamt had sex with the same sex and invented homosexual, while it meant the same ,Also some men dreamt his wife had sex with a man and didn't understand or a woman dreamt her partner had sex with a woman and didn't' understand ...etc.Do you see what catastrophes are caused by misunderstanding a language.

[Roxxie]

Two possible scenarios that I can think of:

Is there something not related at all to the subject matter of your dream that you haven't told your family about and you are uncertain how they will respond?

You were putting yourself in your friends shoes and seeing what that would be like.

[Wolfjk]

Originally Posted by kagomeshuko

I had this dream a few nights ago:

Wow! What an odd dream I had last night.

I dreamt that I was dating this girl that I knew from St. Paul years ago when we were young and in handbell choir together.

She lived in Lake Charles again (she doesn't, she lives in PA).

She is the middle sister of three sisters and we were so happy together. We would go out in groups of friends and she and I would hold hands and enjoy our time dating each other.

The thing was that I hadn't told my parents that I might be bisexual (I wasn't sure, but I was feeling like this was true love with her so that I was). Yes, it was as if my Daddy were still alive.

I didn't talk to my parents first. I first talked to my sister. I asked her, "What if I were bisexual?"

She said, "Well, you better change back because the Bible doesn't allow that!"

I just left her feeling angry and then went on another group date where I held my "girlfriend's" hand. We chatted and I told her that I had not yet told my parents.

She said that she understood because her parents didn't like the fact that she liked girls.


The dream ended as I was about to tell my Mama that I thought I might be bisexual, but it never got that far in the dream.



I'm not bisexual. I know that. I have nothing against people who are. I have nothing against people who are homosexual. It's just that I am not, so it was a very strange dream.

I think part of it may have come from the fact that another daughter in a different family that I knew from St. Paul is homosexual and her mother has disowned her because of that and basically refuses to talk to her.

I found her on facebook once and sent her a message. She said it wasn't uncommon for people to not agree with her mother. (This has been a long standing thing with me and her mother. The daughter and I are about the same age and always got along well.)



So, yeah, very odd indeed. At least I enjoyed listening to the wind this morning. That was neat.

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My friend said:

Nothing wrong with having a 'gay dream'. I've had dreams where I was a guy, or an animal, but I have no desire to be either, y'know? I know it's been tough for your family lately since your Dad [died], so it's entirely possible you were projecting affection onto someone else in your dreams, and your subconscious just latched onto that girl for some reason.

I was just wondering if it is possible if there were any other interpretations.

Hi,
Dreams, or the parts of them you remember are often contrary for a definite reason. Dreaming that you're gay when you're not grabs your attention and engages your brain. It is a waking dream.
Dreams deal with the issues and events that happen while you're asleep. sometimes the dream diverts you from your negative thoughts, other times the subconscous creates an entertaining or interesting story line that keeps you from waking up prematurely.
your dreams do an important job and are always trying to help you. Dont take them literally.
Cheers Wolfjk

[kagomeshuko]

Originally Posted by Roxxie

Two possible scenarios that I can think of:

Is there something not related at all to the subject matter of your dream that you haven't told your family about and you are uncertain how they will respond?

You were putting yourself in your friends shoes and seeing what that would be like.

Putting myself in my friend's shoes makes sense.

[kagomeshuko]

Originally Posted by Wolfjk

Hi,
Dreams, or the parts of them you remember are often contrary for a definite reason. Dreaming that you're gay when you're not grabs your attention and engages your brain. It is a waking dream.
Dreams deal with the issues and events that happen while you're asleep. sometimes the dream diverts you from your negative thoughts, other times the subconscous creates an entertaining or interesting story line that keeps you from waking up prematurely.
your dreams do an important job and are always trying to help you. Dont take them literally.
Cheers Wolfjk

An engaging story line makes sense since there have been a lot of bad things happening lately.