ExHusband

[itsjustme]

I dream about my exhusband all the time. I dreamed last night that his wife can to me on what to do because she wanted a divorce from him. I dream about having sex with him almost every night, what the heck is going on.

[John_Livermore]

Originally Posted by itsjustme

I dream about my exhusband all the time. I dreamed last night that his wife can to me on what to do because she wanted a divorce from him. I dream about having sex with him almost every night, what the heck is going on.

Dear itsjustme!

There is no matter how the relationship with your ex-husband has ended, because, in one way or another, you have put a part your heart, of your psyche in this relationship and it will take some (maybe not so short) time to forget it.

As far as having sex with him is concerned, this symbolizes your reservations about involving in a new relationship. It seems that you are anxious about exposing yourself to a new relationship.

Please notice, that the fore-mentioned interpretation should not be considered as the only one possible or as an absolute truth.

I wish you all your bad dreams to stop occurring as soon as possible!
John

[Roxxie]

You're not alone in dreaming about your Ex.

If the dreams about your Ex leave you feeling good, then I'd say you are thinking about the good parts of your past relationship. That's not a bad thing, especially given your subject matter. Dreams are nice for reliving past good times.

Since you are also dreaming about his new wife wanting a divorce, I'd say a part of you is playing the "what if" game on getting back with your Ex. I think you need to sit down and play the "what if" game while fully awake and remember all the reasons he is your Ex. This will help you to stop playing that awful "what if" game.

Just my two cents.