please interpret..

[mydreams]

I had this dream I took the wedding ring out of hand and thiking i have to wear it again.and the wedding is inside out.My sister is asking for not exactly pearls but but looks like it and black in colour,i sadi i will give how many ever she wants.please interpret..

[sailrmc]

This dream is about the commitment that one builds with the subconscious mind (it is part of you therefore symbolically your sister). The message is an acknowledgment that you will gladly work with the subconscious mind to give it information (anything that it wants) so that it may bridge the gap of conscoiusness and bring things to awareness (actually the collection and transfer of information happens every waking moment...data is collected stored for both knowledge and for future comment by the subconscious when it feels it is neccessary for comment). The dream also shows that you hold the "subconscious aspect of you" in high regard (hence the precious stone). This precious stone is interesting (when used as a symbol). As you said it is similar to a pearl, a black pearl. In reality this stone (the black pearl) is so very rare, it is created just as any pearl is created...it (the oyster) builds layers on the stone throughout it's lifecycle. It ia a wonderful symbol as it shows the accumulation (over time, of extremely special data or knowledge (pearls form in layers over time)...used as a foundation for you to build your life upon. As I said this wonderful symbolism represents the incredible you...a uniquely and special person (in the eyes of your subconscious and I am sure this holds true in reality) The extremely unique person, (you), grows over time and increases in knowledge and wisdom courtesy of your dreaming mind (also known as the subconscious mind). This process of the mind is called "individuation".
As well, the black pearl represents the subconscious minds role in the fact that you are unique.
In case you have not noticed the subconscious mind is your friend and mentor. You have a wonderful dream showing that you are into a long and lasting bond and working relationship over time. This is an incredible dream and acknowledgment!
The subconscious mind is such a gift, it is dreams like these that solidify my spiritual beliefs.
Thank you for sharing!
sailrmc

[porshia]

Ehhh dark colors I would think a funeral so the death or divorce of your husband (You removing the ring) then you remarry?

[mydreams]

hi sailrmc,
It is not a pearl I am sure about it,its weight similar to pearl.People in india wear that black one when they get married.thanks
porshia,
please suggest me something.my husband is going to india.thanks

[sailrmc]

Dreams with siblings in them or even family in general are often dreams that relate directly to the dreamer...as I mentioned before the sister would be an attribute of your own persona, the mother is the parental aspect of ones own persona etc.
In your dream the sister may just relate to your sister in reality. If what I have said does not feel right then I am most likely off in my interpretation.

AND since you have come back with information about your tradition and culture (which by the way, the dreamers specific culture and religion, is very significant in meaning and symbolism in dreams) perhaps your dream is relating to your sister or your relationship with her (directly or indirectly).

Looking at your dream differently, it is possibly about the fact that it appears that your sister will marry before you get the opportunity (or proposal). In certain cultures the order of age of the children in the family often shows which child should be next to marry. Typically the eldest first (sometimes gender makes a difference).
Perhaps your dream is inferring that (the subconscious mind feels) that your boyfriend is no where near making a marriage committment to you...AND OR possibly that simply your sister is closer to becoming wed than you.
I am not certain (other that personal expectations) how this affects you.

Getting back to my original interpretation...you say the stone was not a pearl. In dreams when something is not named or known, the first thought upon waking, concerning the object, is how the object is to be analyzed symbolically. You felt it was like a pearl...(by weight), so the analysis would give the object the benefit of the doubt and use pearl. As well, just the thought "the weight of a pearl" may tell the dreamer to give the symbol (whatever it was) the symbolic weight (to use the object in it's meaning as a pearl).
So you see...in a multi plane dream there are more than one specific meaning...possibly both interpretations could apply.
Either way, it is your dream and you will know best.
sailrmc

[mydreams]

Thanks sailrmc,
I think that you are very good at telling meaning of dreams.I know wht they say in my language i dont know how put it here.I am married and my sister too is married too.I am worrying whether any sort of danger to my relation with my husband ,so was asking about it.I had couple dreams about this wedding ring since few days,so worried.I honestly beleive you what you say is correct ,as you said it is one that got the dream understands well about what you are saying,that is why i feel connected to you and varzandeh.what can i say other than god bless you and others who help to interpret.

[Allegra 26]

Hi,

It could be something related to you missing your husband if he is going away for a while and you're going to be apart. Perhaps you're worried about this? Are you not often apart and this scares you a little?

Only you really know if that is at all relevant! Hope this helps.

Allegra

[mydreams]

Thanks Allegra,
If thats all it tell,i am glad .yes he is going to india,i had to be away from him for a couple of weeks.this is my first time away from him,so apprehended.thanks you ,i appreciate your response.