My friend finally came to me in my dream

[carprincessjo]

Hi-a good friend of mine was hit by a semi truck and died almost a year ago. Questions have swirled about if it was suicide or just an unfortunate accident. I have backed up the stance that it was misfortune. But-just the other night my friend came to me in a dream and we visited for a long time. He told me that his life had just totally gone to bad and that he did choose to end his life. He didn't realize that I would be so upset by his death that is why it took him so long to come to me and reassure me. We sat together and had a conversation and he was on the other side-but it was like neutral-neither Heaven nor Hell. He came dressed in a white shirt-just normal clothing. As we talked he told me that his timing was everything-I don't know what that meant-but I think it pertained to life insurance. He told me that he was almost a million dollars in debt, his bank account was overdrawn, his wife was divorcing him and he was about to lose his job. When his car ran out of gas on the freeway-it was time. So he stepped out and waited for the semi to hit him. I wanted to ask if it hurt-but I couldn't. Kinda kinetically he at the same time told me that he felt nothing until there was the light. And he told me that he is always just a "call" away...if I want his "spirit" to be with me...all I have to do is say so-easier than calling on the cell phone even.

So my question is-when someone deceased visits you like that-is it them or just another dream like any other? I would shrug this off as part of the grief process...but he told me so many details that I wouldn't, couldn't maybe shouldn't ever know.

Your thoughts and interpretation?

[Varzandeh]

Hi,
There are both types of dreams , The deceased person can come into dreams and also dreaming of a deceased person alive has an interpretation.
So, you dreamt a deceased person means something got difficult and forgotten will be ok for you.
Also he has visited you.


I want to tell you a reason to know that 5 senses can't understand anything except by the soul,
Have you dreamt you were eating and drinking and had pleasure of that. He said yes. I said: have you dreamt laughing and crying, and strolling in the cities that haven't seen yet but you know the specialties. He said: yes dreamt very much. I said: Have you ever dreamt about your dead brother or father and know them like they are alive.
He said: yes too many times. I said: tell me which sense has received such things to see the dead and talking to them or crying and laughing. He said: I can’t say which one. Because the body is slept like a dead. I said: tell me when you wake up don’t you remember and report to the friends exactly, He said; yes and sometimes I see that before night in real life. I said; which sense keeps it to remember the dream after waking. He said; there is no way for sense. I said then you should know because senses are vein here that is the soul that God has put wisdom in it and it is a reason. He said; what I dream is like mirage one thinks it is water but when arrive at there is nothing. I said; how do you say it is like mirage and you ate sweets and pickles and were happy and sad he said; because what I dream when I arrive at it is nothing. I said: have you ever had sex in the dream and your hearts beat, have you ever had wet dream about a woman or man. You know him or don’t know He said many times said had you orgasm and when you woke up you were wet then this is not mirage.
He said: dreaming orgasm is just like the real life .I said this is my reason that soul. Knows everything although senses are dead and can’t see or hear of course you shouldn’t deny that soul in addition of the senses knowledge recognition in the waking life and after vanishing the senses has sex with them then it recognizes the things after going senses and now you understand that the itself is guiding the senses and is their governor and none of the senses can’t do anything without soul; if the soul goes a head body wasn’t get back and if soul gets back the body won’t go ahead with the soul the happiness comes and with it the ache is received if a sense is damaged the soul is remained but if the soul is damaged senses can work properly.

[Allegra 26]

Hi,

I think that it is possible to have someone who has died come to you in a dream, but I do also think that it's possible to dream of someone who has died. Perhaps this dream, whichever way it actually was, was to reassure you and help you in the grieving process. I mean, with regards to being a million dollars in debt, etc, that is probably not likely for most people.. But only you know these sort of details to be able to differentiate what could be 'real' I guess.

Hope this helps.

Allegra

[porshia]

It could be your friends way of saying he's sorry he left you and that he has not forgotten or really left you.