Boyfriend cheating on me...

[j_watson118]

I was at a house with my best friend. My boyfriend was in the other room with some of his female friends. I heard them whispering, so I went in and asked him if he was ready to leave. He was cuddling with a girl on a couch and said I could leave if I wanted to, but he was staying there. Then he looked right into my eyes and stuck his tongue down her throat. This dream was in color, too! Which I heard means something... just not sure what. Can someone tell me what this means?

[bright_dreamer]

Hi,
In your dream, your boyfriend shows you no respect. He blatently cheats on you right in front of you.
This could mean either you fear that he will cheat on you, or you know/suspect in your gut that he is or will.
ANother thing to think about....how does he treat you in real life? How does he talk about you to others? What is his attitude toward girls? Are they just another "notch in his belt?"
If your answers raise red flags to you, listen to your gut. You deserve more respect.
I hope this helps

[Ananetaqua]

hi,
my experance is-it's not literal,had many such dreams in 17 years of marrage.
note he never has or would cheat on me.
book sais-
cheating-see yourself cheated on you can expect a stroke of good luck
and there love for you is true.
and that HAS proven true for me and many others time and time again.
good luck and may the great spirit bless you

[j_watson118]

Everyone that was around, I think there were 2 or 3 other girls, were laughing after... they were all this "other girls" friends.

[unclesirbobbyrobson]

Often dreams may seem extreme. Try not to think of this as a premonition. It may have simply linked to a moemnt when you caught him looking at another girl.

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Dreams are not so much a record of events they are more a record of our feelings. The rational waking mind may describe an event that happened the day before in this way "I was talking with my friend yesterday and he was talking a lot about work". The dream mind is less interested in events and more about feelings. The intuitive mind looks at the same incident and thinks "I was with my friend yesterday and he was acting strangely. Normally he talks about our friendship but he seemed to be talking a lot more about work".

A dream does not really record reality in any systematic fashion. It is merely describing events by pointing to emotions. A dream may simply be a collection of feelings. Such as "I was doing housework and felt tired", "I was talking to my brother who always confuses me" and "I was in a tornament aiming a crossbow at a target". So when a dream contains a series of unrelated events and feelings it maybe refering to something that you have recently felt. Together these symbols build up a conceptual set of feelings about something happening in your life. So this dreamn was maybe refering to the previous day when "I felt tired and became steadily more confused trying to figure out how to complete my task. I decided to set myself little targets. It helped me conquer my own brain fatique".

These pages are especially helpful in showing you how to interpret dreams

Dream dictionary interpretation - How to interpret dreams Interpreting dreams
Dreams analyzed Triggers for dreams
Dream dictionary symbols - How to analyse and interpret dreams Dream dictionary

[j_watson118]

The wierd part is that he was so VIVID in my dream, I can still picture it! There was color in it, but the only color I remember was orange on his hat and a green shirt that he has. And both of those colors were VERY vivid!

[dreamgurl84]

I've often had dreams like this too - I've learned it's 'fear' that your spouse or significant other will cheat (if given the opportunity of course, not just outright)....someone else said perhaps you caught him looking at another woman recently, and although it didn't SEEm to bother you, subconsciencely it did!