Reoccuring Dreams

[mysteriousdreammer2005]

Lately, I have been having some of the dreams that are reoccuring. The only thing is, is that they are like 2 or 3 dreams that I have had in the past combined into one. There is only a little bit of a difference in the dreams from the original dreams. I was hoping that by my posting them I could get help.

For example, the latest dream, I went back east to visit friends and family. The only thing was, when I flew in, I walked to my friend's house, she lives 30minutes easy from the airport. I walked up the back to her house and I was wearing shorts and a short sleeve shirt and t was winter out there when I walked up to the door. I had no luggage on me only the clothes on my back.

My friend let me in and we talked for a bit then we went to bed. When I woke up and went to the kitchen, my "husband and 2 kids" were there. (I am not married nor do I have any kids yet). My friends and I were out on the portch talking about the family. My kids were running out in the feilds (which don't exist in this area of New Hampshire.)

All of a sudden, my dream jumped to being back to winter and my aunt came out and started talking to my friend. I was inside of my friend's house watching TV (the TV was on mute) while my friend was talking to my aunt. My friend's husband was upstairs and Kat (my friend) was talking to my aunt (my aunt knew that Jim was upstairs) so I was kinda hiding while my friend and aunt were talking.

While my friend and aunt were talking, I remember hearing that my aunt was mad at me for not telling her that I was comeing out. The only thing was, I didn't tell her that I was coming out because I didn't want to see or talk to her.

Can anyone help me? Please? I am confused by these dreams.

[quaerome98]

Are you anxious about your relations with your family and/or friends back home because of the fact that you don't have a husband or kids of your own? The fact that you're not dressed properly for the winter and that you had to walk and have no luggage implies that maybe you don't feel like you have met some kind of criteria for a glorious homecoming, like somehow you don't have the accoutrements of success and therefore you are somehow ashamed to be coming back (you use the back door and try to avoid seeing your aunt or even letting her know that you're there). The switching between seasons also seems to correspond well to that idea, as only when you have this idealized family of your own does the weather feel welcoming and you feel confident enough to chat outside, where you could conceivably be seen by anyone.

[mysteriousdreammer2005]

Well, The thing is, I live at home. although, I do concider New Hampshire, Mass., New Jersey and New York my home as well because I have family that live there. No I am not ashamed about my job. I am busting my butt at my current job and busting my butt twice as hard to pass a test to go into my dream career. I am not ashamed of anything. I just don't get along with this particular aunt and I have tried alot to get my aunt to understand my decision.