Dream or Nightmare?!

[Jhaydee]

I had this dream about the guy I really love. I can say that we have a mutual feelings for each other but I'm the one who have a stronger feeling and we don't have any commitment. He is still attached to his ex-GF and he is very sweet to her other friends(girls), and i think he has flings. The dream started when he asked me to accompany him to the hospital because his brother was there. I knew his brother, but in my dream, it's a different person, there is this guy that played as his brother. His brother's wife was also there. When his brother saw me, he has this warning in his eyes. That warning is about their mother, she was also there in the hospital, it's like she didn't want me to be there. I'm close to his family, but in my dream, his mother was a bit strange. All of a sudden, his mother just told him that, she will only allow me to be with her son if her son already forget his ex-GF. I cried because of what i heard. I ran to the comfort room nearby. His brother's wife followed me and feel pity for me. He also went to the comfort room trying to stop me from crying. And I heard him say that he shouldn't done this(asking me to accompany him to the hospital). I dried my tears and we went out. We saw his ex-GF beside his mother. That moment, I dare him to choose between me and his Ex-GF. He told me that he don't want to lose me, he want me to stay in his life. But I still insist to him to answer my question. He thinks for a while suddenly told me that he will choose his Ex-GF over me. That moment, I hug him tight and told him that "If only I came into your life before her, I'm the one you will pick". He also hug me tight and felt that he don't want to let go. I saw in his eyes that he's telling me that I'm the one who forced him to answer the question.

In reality, I have this fear to experience this scenario. I'm afraid this dream would come into reality because there is a high possibility that if I asked him the same question that I asked to him in my dream, he will pick other girls over me.

What's the meaning of my dream? Is this my nightmare?

[unclesirbobbyrobson]

Well often dreams show us working out what we should or should not do. They show us testing things out in our minds. We work out the possible consequences. So really you are telling yourself not to push things... not to make him choose... because you do fear he may choose others over you.

Its likely that this reflects your own intuitions. So try not to be too worried. It does not mean that you will break up imminently.

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