Intrepret my dream please!

[lovelylaura]

Can anyone please explain what this means?

Okay so last night I had a dream of my boyfriends cousin, his name was Anthony. He past away a little bit over a year ago. They haven't found who murdered him yet. Anyhow, I had never met him before.

In my dream, he was in jail, but I knew he wasn't really in jail, I knew he was in Heaven. My boyfriend and I went to see him in ''jail'' and we had 10 minutes before they closed the visitation time. So my boyfriend went in first. He got really quiet and didn't know what to tell him. Then when it was my turn to talk to him... Anthony and my boyfriend both walked out of the jail (without the security going after him, which was odd). But then he quickly went back inside, to not get caught. So I went inside the visitation area and immediately started a conversation with him. I let him know that although I had never met him, I knew so much about him, from what his family had told me. I started telling him everything they told me, how he was very humble, nice, warm, friendly, loving, always had a smile on his face, etc. you know all the good things he got teary eyed and began to quietly cry, but then he smiled. He was very happy to hear me tell him how much everyone loved and missed him. He seemed very at peace after I told him all this. It was weird how I could feel his emotions. When he looked at me, (teary eyed) his eyes were bright, almost a teal, not green not blue. In real life they told me he had hazel eyes. anyhow his eyes were just amazing, full of life. I could tell he was happy where he was.

That's all I can remember. Can anyone intrepret this? I would love to tell him mom that I had a dream of him. She is very sad... He was only 19 years old. Someone shot him and they haven't found his killer. He was a very good kid.

thank you.
Laura

[Shirah]

Hello LovelyLaura...

I would be very careful about telling his mother that you had a dream about her son. She is obviously still mourning over the loss and may be even more upset if she has not had any dreams about him. Just a thought you may want to ponder on. As for your dream....well...I believe it may indicate how differently you and your boyfriend are handling the loss. Your boyfriend visited him in "jail" and didn't know what to say. Yet he walked out with him without interruption. Your boyfriend's cousin went back for fear of being caught. This could imply that your boyfriend is willing to let go a little but is still having problems talking about the loss. You, on the other hand, are fully able to accept his passing because you believe he is in a better place. You are also showing in this dream your ability to empathize with his family and loved ones over their loss and his possible feelings of not knowing if he is missed. If you have this much empathy...I would suggest that the best thing to do is to just be there for his family in case they need to talk...and allow them to vent their loss to you. You seem to have a positive view of the afterworld...so perhaps you can share your views with them when the time is right. Hope this helps. Be well.

[lovelylaura]

Thank you so much for replying to my post.
I was telling my co-worker about my dream and she also said I show a lot of empathy towards the situation. I consider myself very understanding of other people's feelings, sometimes a little too much, hehe.

[yosef]

Hello. Below are the interpretations I found relating to your dream from Ten Thousand Dreams Interpreted. This dream may not be too bad, I tried to order the interpretations relating to how they were said in your report.

http://www.freewebtown.com/godisking...nterpreted.pdf

To dream of a prison, is the forerunner of misfortune in every instance,
if it encircles your friends, or yourself.
To see any one dismissed from prison, denotes that you will
finally overcome misfortune.

To dream of a penitentiary, denotes you will have engagements
which will, unfortunately, result in your loss. To be an inmate
of one, foretells discontent in the home and failing business.
To escape from one, you will overcome difficult obstacles.

To see others in jail, you will be urged to grant privileges to persons
whom you believe to be unworthy
To see negroes in jail, denotes worries and loss through
negligence of underlings.
For a young woman to dream that her lover is in jail, she will be disappointed
in his character, as he will prove a deceiver.

To see a jailer, denotes that treachery will embarrass your interests
and evil women will enthrall you.

If you visit in your dreams, you will shortly have some pleasant occasion
in your life.
If your visit is unpleasant, your enjoyment will be marred by the action
of malicious persons.
For a friend to visit you, denotes that news of a favorable
nature will soon reach you. If the friend appears sad
and travel-worn, there will be a note of displeasure growing
out of the visit, or other slight disappointments may follow.
If she is dressed in black or white and looks pale or ghastly,
serious illness or accidents are predicted.

To dream of loving any object, denotes satisfaction with
your present environments.
To dream that the love of others fills you with happy forebodings,
successful affairs will give you contentment and freedom from the anxious
cares of life.

To dream of seeing an eye, warns you that watchful enemies are
seeking the slightest chance to work injury to your business.
This dream indicates to a lover, that a rival will usurp him
if he is not careful.
To dream of brown eyes, denotes deceit and perfidy.
To see blue eyes, denotes weakness in carrying out any intention.
To see gray eyes, denotes a love of flattery for the owner.

To meet an acquaintance, and converse pleasantly with him,
foretells that your business will run smoothly, and there
will be but little discord in your domestic affairs.

To dream of the dead, is usually a dream of warning. If you see and talk
with your father, some unlucky transaction is about to be made by you.
Be careful how you enter into contracts, enemies are around you.
Men and women are warned to look to their reputations after this dream.
To see your mother, warns you to control your inclination to
cultivate morbidness and ill will towards your fellow creatures.
A brother, or other relatives or friends, denotes that you
may be called on for charity or aid within a short time.

To dream of seeing the dead, living and happy, signifies you are letting wrong
influences into your life, which will bring material loss if not corrected
by the assumption of your own will force.
To dream that you are conversing with a dead relative, and that
relative endeavors to extract a promise from you, warns you
of coming distress, unless you follow the advice given you.
Disastrous consequences could often be averted if minds could grasp
the inner workings and sight of the higher or spiritual self.
The voice of relatives is only that higher self taking form to approach
more distinctly the mind that lives near the material plane.
There is so little congeniality between common or material natures
that persons should depend upon their own subjectivity for true
contentment and pleasure.
[52] Paracelsus says on this subject: “It may happen that the soul of
persons who have died perhaps fifty years ago may appear to us in a dream,
and if it speaks to us we should pay special attention to what it says,
for such a vision is not an illusion or delusion, and it is possible
that a man is as much able to use his reason during the sleep of his body
as when the latter is awake; and if in such a case such a soul appears
to him and he asks questions, he will then hear that which is true.
Through these solicitous souls we may obtain a great deal of knowledge
to good or to evil things if we ask them to reveal them to us.
Many persons have had such prayers granted to them. Some people that were
sick have been informed during their sleep what remedies they should use,
and after using the remedies, they became cured, and such things have
happened not only to Christians, but also to Jews, Persians, and heathens,
to good and to bad persons.”
The writer does not hold that such knowledge is obtained from external
or excarnate spirits, but rather through the personal Spirit Glimpses
that is in man.—AUTHOR.

To dream of seeing any of your people dead, warns you of coming dissolution
or sorrow. Disappointments always follow dreams of this nature.
To hear of any friend or relative being dead, you will soon have bad news
from some of them.
Dreams relating to death or dying, unless they are due
to spiritual causes, are misleading and very confusing to
the novice in dream lore when he attempts to interpret them.
A man who thinks intensely fills his aura with thought or
subjective images active with the passions that gave them birth;
by thinking and acting on other lines, he may supplant these
images with others possessed of a different form and nature.
In his dreams he may see these images dying, dead or
their burial, and mistake them for friends or enemies.
In this way he may, while asleep, see himself or a relative die,
when in reality he has been warned that some good thought
or deed is to be supplanted by an evil one. To illustrate:
If it is a dear friend or relative whom he sees in the agony
of death, he is warned against immoral or other improper thought
and action, but if it is an enemy or some repulsive object
dismantled in death, he may overcome his evil ways and thus give
himself or friends cause for joy. Often the end or beginning
of suspense or trials are foretold by dreams of this nature.
They also frequently occur when the dreamer is controlled by imaginary
states of evil or good. A man in that state is not himself,
but is what the dominating influences make him. He may be warned
of approaching conditions or his extrication from the same.
In our dreams we are closer to our real self than in waking life.
The hideous or pleasing incidents seen and heard about us in our
dreams are all of our own making, they reflect the true state
of our soul and body, and we cannot flee from them unless we drive
them out of our being by the use of good thoughts and deeds,
by the power of the spirit within us.

To see others crying, forbodes unexpected calls for aid from you.