Dreaming of an ex

[jillyb]

Hi

i keep havin roughly the same dream about an ex of mine (bout every few months) how we accidently bump into each other and how he says he's sorry we didn't make up an and can we put it behind us and be friends again and i feel really relieved. But then when i wake up and realise its not true i feel frustrated.

We broke up about 6 years ago and i don't want to be back with him (i since have another boyf i love).its just when were out out we were really good friends aswell and we ended badly with me sending him drunken texts after he broke up with me and then him ignoring me and never returning my calls.

Even though we had a lot of mutual friends n kept bumping into each other,he still ignored me. I have never been on bad terms with any of my exes of even past friends (without resolving it) and i all i ever wanted was to just clear the air.

But the lastest dream i had of him was he saying he really wants me back and i have to chose between him and my current boyfriend.

any ideas?? thanks

[unclesirbobbyrobson]

Well its probably not actually about him. Its more likely that its about relationships as a whole. You do not like to fall out with people. A lot of dreams are about how we would like things to be and how we would possibly like to change the world if given the chance.

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The dream mind is a conceptual mind. So expect the meaning of a dream to be a conceptual meaning. Try to think about the ideas and emotions that are forming in your mind. Dreams can be about health issues, they can be about relationships, they can simply reflect some paranoias in your mind. Simply put dreams are about the STUFF in your mind. So instead of trying to interpret the dream try to think about ideas forming in your mind.

Whats more dreams concentrate on new feelings. They capture those moments when your feelings change. For instance the moment when you started to mistrust your boyfriend. Try this page as it shows you how to spot the issues which trigger dreams

Dreams analyzed - How to use dreams symbols

Learn how to capture in quotes the concepts and ideas that will be the subject of your dreams

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