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To dream about being gay?

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Old 05-21-2008, 04:46 PM
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I'm asking on behalf of my male friend. He's completley straight, however recently he's been having 'sex dreams' about/with guys that he knows and is friends with. He said when he wakes, he feels no attraction to guys whatsoever. But he's a little freaked out by it all. (also, violent sex with girls)

I'm so sorry at how weird this sounds!!

Does it mean anything?

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Hello thepostalservice...

It is hard to interpret dreams without much detail...but I will give it a shot. Based on what you gave me...with your friend having dreams of sex with guys he knows and violent sex with women....I would say that your friend has been hurt by females. Violent sex...rape... is not really about sex as it is about power and control. I would imagine that he felt as though he lost control is a relationship and was wounded badly, perhaps even mocked by a female. The fact that he is dreaming of having sex with his male friends may just indicate his need to bond with his friends...gain comfort and confirmation from them because of being hurt. You say he is not attracted to men and that is why I interpreted it this way. Please be open to the possibility that your friend may (I am just saying may) have some conflict with sexual orientation and he may be bouncing these "dreams" off of you to see how you will react and if you will still accept him as a friend. I only say this because, if he is possibly homosexual, he will need the support of good friends to make it through this confusion. May you and your friend be well.
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Thank you so much. That definatley makes a lot of sense.

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Hi,
Having sex with a known person means to do a favor a big help.It makes no difference gay or lesbian.We have many such dreams here you can use search.
I've said this story several times but not bad for you to hear:
Once two politicians came to my office ( their guards standing out) they locked the door, and asked what have we done to see such a dreams?They both has sex dreams with each other.I said both will do big favors to the other in two months.Next month one of them called me , the other who was a housing manager too granted him a big flat with a low price.After a while the other help him to have his three books publishing.
Here in this site we have many stories too, once a student wrote here that she had sex with her principale I said the same above, after a month she replied that the principale added her a few marks and excempted her from finals.
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I'm wondering if these dreams don't represent anything specifically sexual, but rather the dreams are about masculinity and power? Masculinity represented by the gay sex (ie, all men and lots of testosterone), and power repesented by violent sex with women where he dominates them. Unless of course he watches too much of this stuff on TV, and it might just be a result of what he views in his waking life and his brain reshuffling what it's absorbed. Lol
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