Husband engaging in homosexual behavior

[dg506]

Hi, last night I had a nightmare that I found out my husband was cheating on me and had been involved with other men. I woke up very anxious and overwhelmed. The history behind this is that my husband has cheated on me with other woman and I returned the favor. I still do not trust him and we are now trying to repair our marriage and things have been going well until this week. His coworker who he used to party with and I suspect he kissed has resigned and this is her last week. I started feeling uncomfortable that since she is leaving they would feel the need to say goodbye and have inappropriate conversations or interactions. Well yesterday they worked together and I was just uncomfortable not knowing what was actually happening since they work in a very small office. So when I fell asleep I had negative feelings about the situation....additionally earlier in the day I had listened to a radio program that talked about kids who were transgender and this women talked about how her husband turned out to be a women and that if he would have been supported in being a women when he was younger she and her daughters would have been spared the pain. I don't think my husband is gay nor do I think he has homosexual tendencies but when I told him about my dream he was disturbed and said that I must have some deep seeded concerns about his sexuality....can you pls help me interpret my dream. Many thanks!

[unclesirbobbyrobson]

Well this transgender thing is just a metaphor. Its showing that the situation on the radio wass similar IN SOME WAY to your husband. That maybe your husband... is in some way you are finding out something deeply disturbing about his sexual nature.

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Dreams can be premonitions. But many dreams that seem like premonitions may simply be about situations and feelings from yesterday (as we think over the previous days events). So it’s best to assume that a dream is about the day before and is personal and psychological in its origin. It’s easy to jump to conclusions about premonitions. Generally it’s best to wait and see.

In truth it’s not easy to interpret a dream especially if its not your own. A dream symbol may often link to various meanings that we can obtain from an ordinary dictionary. Dream symbols then are used as words.

A famous person may symbolize a situation where you are made to feel special. So see how you felt special or wished to feel special. But the trouble is that the words (symbols) that dreams use are difficult to understand both on their own and together (as a set of dream symbols).

Think of the word famous. Does a dream with a famous person make it easy to understand the meaning of the dream? The answer has to be no. Firstly, a famous person may link too many meaning commonly used in ordinary dictionaries. Think of the many different contexts that the word appears: "Those were his famous last words"; "He made me feel special and important - I felt like a film star"; "I really wish to become famous". So making sweeping judgments about dream symbols is pointless. A dream symbol is used in so many contexts and in such a sophisticated way that you really have to interpret it with caution.

But the study of dreams is not so pointless. We can by experience understand that dreams are very much of the moment. Dreams are linked to the way the mind studies situations. They are linked to our intuitions. The dream mind is also conceptual in its thinking so expect whatever comes out of it to be an idea or well thought out feeling. Actually the best way to interpret a dream is to write down several sentences which sum up your current feelings about yesterdays events. Add some more sentences which capture your feelings about the day to come and the future in general. You will probably end up with three or four sentences such as "I really hate the way that my sister gets me to take the blame" or "I feel really worried about my exam tomorrow" or "I wonder if my friend is unhappy as she is very quiet and acting oddly right now". It’s likely that one of these conceptual thoughts is the dreams actual meaning. Try to spot links with the dream symbols various meanings and real life. If two or three symbols match up then you have a possible interpretation.

It’s still not easy. A dream may not contain any direct connection to the situation it is about.

These pages are especially helpful in showing you how to interpret dreams

Dream dictionary interpretation - How to interpret dreams Interpreting dreams
Dreams analyzed - How to use dreams symbols Triggers for dreams
Dream dictionary symbols - How to analyse and interpret dreams Dream dictionary

[Varzandeh]

Hi,
Don't worry, dream language symbols sometimes are disgusting and should be interpreted.
In dream language if two men had sex means one will do the other a big favor , help nothing more.
This is the same for two women having sex , it means one will do the other a big help.
Once two poilticians came to ny office and Their guards stayed out.
They locked the door and asked what have we done to see such a dreams.
Both had dreams having sex with the other.I said both of you will do the other big favors in two months.
Next month one of them called me the other who was also a housing manager granted the other a flat in a low price, and then i was informed that later the other helped him for publishing his books.For more info please see the words " Sex" and woman and marriage here in the dream dictionary advanced, using search.


Dream language interpretation is an ancient science of allusions and pointing of the surrounded environment, as Mr. Einstein has said the events are like train stations which exist and we are moving towards them, these are prewritten destiny with some authority ( in decision making seconds) in very full details. This dream language should be translated, and interesting to know it is international and common for all human beings. But ignorance causes some misunderstanings.People were not aware of this language and always thought in a bad way , for example Mr. Freud said about sexual dreams it is because you have suppressed your sexual desires so misled everybody and some women dreamt about having sex with co-workers or another and thought they should do that, while it only meant he will do something for her, or some others dreamt had sex with the same sex and invented homosexual, while it meant the same ,Also some men dreamt his wife had sex with a man and didn't understand or a woman dreamt her partner had sex with a woman and didn't' understand ...etc.Do you see what catastrophes are caused by misunderstanding a language. About the approximate interpretation time table: Dreams at noon or exactly at midnight( In the summer time 13 at noon and 1 midnight else at 12)in the same day if past a few minutes, a few days later. Dreams at 10-11 in the morning in 15-30 days later. Also dreams at 3-4 in the evening in 1-2 months .Dreams in the sunset mostly are not truthful and are messed, they have no interpretations, Dreams at 4-5 in the morning in a few days to 2 months some dreams in the holy books( Josef dream of kneeling the sun and the moon and 11 stars)was interpreted after 20 years and other dreams of the Pharaoh's prisoners interpreted in the same day and after 7 years. Dream of Pharaoh about the 7 thin cows and 7 fat cows interpreted from the next year to 14 years. Also dreams in 6th of the month will interpret after 1-2 days, in 9th at the same day, in 10th after 20 days, in 13th after 9 days in 14th after 26 days and in 15th after 3 days, in 16th after 2 days and in 28th ,29th ,30th in the same day, but these are solar (Persian months and you should refer to a calendar or convert them) . Of course there are different kinds of dreams , like messy dreams which have no interpretations or deja vu dreams, or psychological dreams or dreams which are caused by bad food or drinks
Good luck.