dream about a dead friend

[jessdell]

Before i tell my dream i should just mention that the guy in my dream died a year ago, and was actually murdered. i wasnt that close with him but alot of my friends were, and the night i was dreaming this, was his birthday.
Im a girl by the way, straight.
first it was at my house, and a bunch of people my age and older i went to highschool with were at my house. I had a cemetary on my porch and the mother of the boy that died was at my house as well. it wasn't his actual mom it was a much older woman, but i knew in the dream it was his mom. i brought her to my porch to show her his grave. then as ashamed as i am to have dremnt this, i was lying in my bedroom and was having intercourse with the guy who died like i kinda saw his face and it looked like him but it was a little blurry. i knew he was dead thought thats the weird thing. Its like at the moment i brought his mother to his grave i knew he was dead, but then when when the moment in my room was happening, i knew it but didnt think it at the time. im just really ashamed of this dream, but i dont know what it means. then other events occured that a girl i went to highschool with had a crush on me, and then i found out i got into university through my email.

the most inportant thing would be about my diceased friend. just thought i would mention everything else that happend in the dream

[Wolfjk]

Originally Posted by jessdell

Before i tell my dream i should just mention that the guy in my dream died a year ago, and was actually murdered. i wasnt that close with him but alot of my friends were, and the night i was dreaming this, was his birthday.
Im a girl by the way, straight.
first it was at my house, and a bunch of people my age and older i went to highschool with were at my house. I had a cemetary on my porch and the mother of the boy that died was at my house as well. it wasn't his actual mom it was a much older woman, but i knew in the dream it was his mom. i brought her to my porch to show her his grave. then as ashamed as i am to have dremnt this, i was lying in my bedroom and was having intercourse with the guy who died like i kinda saw his face and it looked like him but it was a little blurry. i knew he was dead thought thats the weird thing. Its like at the moment i brought his mother to his grave i knew he was dead, but then when when the moment in my room was happening, i knew it but didnt think it at the time. im just really ashamed of this dream, but i dont know what it means. then other events occured that a girl i went to highschool with had a crush on me, and then i found out i got into university through my email.

the most inportant thing would be about my diceased friend. just thought i would mention everything else that happend in the dream

Hi,
This is a mixed up dream, However if you know that dreams do many things in sleep you will feel easier about it.
Firstly dreams do some entertaining. In sleep as in waking life your mind wanders about and different thoughts come and go in your head. You probably thought about this guy in the daytime and probably thought "what a waste of a good ----! In your sleep the thoughts probably came back, however you might have been feeling aroused at the same time and your subconscious has no scruples about using any opportunity to satisfy your needs in sleep to kep you from waking prematurely! The subconscious also uses pangs of consciense to prod your brain with when it comes to your normal waking time.
So, you can see that a dream can go from one thing to the other, according to what your needs are in the sleep!
Relax about your dream! Nobody understands them! Forget about the meanings too. There are non that should concern you!
Cheers Wolfjk