Weird dreams

[dreamgirl84]

Hello

newbie here, been having some odd dreams and not sure what to make of them.

the other night I dreamt that my husband took a second wife, which I okayed, but then I walked in on them in the bedroom and was shattered. The wife was my 2ic manager at work, and I ran from the room in tears. I then waited in the lounge room (sat on my couch but the room looked more like my childhood home - common in my dreams) for the to finish and for him to come out so I could talk to him. I woke from this dream feeling physically ill, but also thinking how ridiculous it was.

The next night I dreamt that he was having an internet affair, accessing the net via his mobile phone. When I found out, I went to my best friends house in tears, and she called his best friend to come over and help console me (he's a good friend to me as well as my husband).

Finally, last night, I dreamt that I was in a store, carrying some items I intended on buying when I took a wrong turn and exited the store without paying. When I realised I'd shoplifted I didnt care. I then went out to my car, went to drive off but was surrounded by a group of teenage boys, one of whom was trying to get into my car. I drove off, but bumped one of them on the way. I stopped a little way down the road, and was surrounded again, this time they attempted to put bricks under my tyres so I drove off again and called the police from my mobile phone.

Anyone have any clue what any of these dreams mean? Please help!

[Varzandeh]

Hi,
Your hubby married again means he will receive some dignity and rank.
He had sex with a known woman means he ( you) will do her a favor a help, nothing more.
You were crying in tears means a happiness from God is on the way.
You shop lifted means you will sit with a big man and will have bnenefits as much as you stole.
Carrying a cart means some dignity.
A group of teenage boys means a sorrow and problem at work,as your car means your work.
Good luck.

[Jennings]

The feeling that comes across from your dream with more than a 'resounding tinkle' is the insecurity in your marital life and the anger, the desparate need to escape from it, and to hurt others as a form of revenge. If you are young and not long married and if your husband is around the same stage to life then your fear is understandable. Quite a number of young men have very high libidos which keeps their minds constantly focussed on sex. In their life sex and love are not intertwined but, of course, extramarital affairs can lead to the short-circuiting of one's emotions. By far the best thing you can do to help stop him from straying is to look as feminine and attractive as you possibly can (without throwing sex in his face dresswise) and to ensure that his needs are met, and to make overtures towards him to be certain. It is his constant urge to copulate of which you are probably aware and which worries you. This is a problem in many marriages at their early stages. Never allow domestication get in the way of the courting between you or it will die; courting should continue throughout your life.

[dreamgirl84]

Thanks for the replies, all of the suggestions are quite interesting. The notion of 'doing a favour' is quite likely as the woman is my superior at work and I often do extra shifts etc to help her out.

As for the comments about new marriage etc, we are newlywed, but have been a couple for nearly 7 years and have lived together for most of this time, so its not a case of getting married and letting things slip as nothing has changed between us in a long time. Perhaps that decline took place a few years ago but not recently. Also, my husband is not the same age as me, he is thirteen years older and past the stage you referred too.

[Varzandeh]

Hi,
please remember dreams often happen a few days to a few months later.

approximate interpretation time table: Dreams at noon or exactly at midnight( In the summer time 13 at noon and 1 midnight else at 12)in the same day if past a few minutes, a few days later. Dreams at 10-11 in the morning in 15-30 days later. Also dreams at 3-4 in the evening in 1-2 months .Dreams in the sunset mostly are not truthful and are messed, they have no interpretations, Dreams at 4-5 in the morning in a few days to 2 months some dreams in the holy books( Josef dream of kneeling the sun and the moon and 11 stars)was interpreted after 20 years and other dreams of the Pharaoh's prisoners interpreted in the same day and after 7 years. Dream of Pharaoh about the 7 thin cows and 7 fat cows interpreted from the next year to 14 years. Also dreams in 6th of the month will interpret after 1-2 days, in 9th at the same day, in 10th after 20 days, in 13th after 9 days in 14th after 26 days and in 15th after 3 days, in 16th after 2 days and in 28th ,29th ,30th in the same day, but these are solar (Persian months and you should refer to a calendar or convert them) . Of course there are different kinds of dreams , like messy dreams which have no interpretations or deja vu dreams, or psychological dreams or dreams which are caused by bad food or drinks.

Bibliography:
1- Principles of the dreams, by Daniel the prophet (562-604 B.C) Peace be on him.
2-Divisions of the dreams, by Imam Sadeq peace be on him ( 663-798 A.C).
3- Generals of the dreams, by Mohammad ibn Syrin ( 690 A.C).
4- Guides in the dreams , by Jaber ibn Hay'an( Father of the new chemistry)
5- Interpretations, by Ibn Ash'as ( 840 A.C).
6- Complete interpretations, by Habish Teflisi ( 1180 A.C).
7- Treasures of the dreams( Al Ma'moni) by Abd al Salam ( 963 A.C).