x-boyfriend, his xwife, her parents and me

[makarah]

so long story short i fell in love with a man who after having our baby went back to his ex-wife. it was pretty devastating. i recently had this dream:
they (him and his ex-wife) are living in this big house with a dirt road leading up to it. my job is to come and take all the kids to school (they have three children together and i have two from my first marriage and the baby with him)...so he is in the house standing around and her parents are living with them, they are Mexican and very nice to my face in the dream but hate my guts-this is how i feel in the dream(i have never met them in real life). the only thing he says to me is:"don't you understand that i need money as badly as i need to get out of the hell that i'm in"...anyway at some point i am riding away from the house on a bicycle and it looks like his ex-wife is coming after me on a moped but i realize that we are both riding away from the house-kind of escaping. there also is a third woman involved who is waiting for him like a business partner of his or something and i ask her if she and he are together and she tells me how in love she is with him and so for a minute i feel sorry for the wife because this whole time she sees me as a threat to their relationship but really he is with someone else. in the last scene i am driving a super high tech car with all the kids in it and i can't see the road well at all and the car is talking to me saying if you don't get over you will die.

[MannyAnalogue]

Makarah

I'm sorry to hear what happened.

I thought the main message of this dream was told to you by the futuristic car at the end : You have to get over this.

The rest of the dream seems to show the shady character of your ex and probably the benefit of you not being with such an irresponsible person anymore. You mentioned you even felt sympathy for the woman he was with at one point. It's likely a blessing on your part that things turned out the way they did. Maybe your subconscious is trying to remind you that you're better off.

Through the dream the children seemed to be your primary concern, and at the end you were driving them, guiding them. I think it shows that you are a good mother and place your children first. You just have to be strong and look at the situation logically. I'd say this is a positive dream, you have everything you need to do right. All you have to do is let go of the past and look forward to the future.

I apologize if anything I said came off as offensive, I didn't mean to overstep my bounds.

I hope things go well for you mana.

- Manny

[makarah]

thank you for your insight. there were things I definately did not think of that you pointed in your reply. I appreciate you taking the time to analyze my dream and give thoughtful and insightful commentary. I think you are right on with what you said!

[MannyAnalogue]

Makarah

I'm happy to hear I could be some help. It's always easier as a third party to read a dream and pick things out, but only the dreamer themselves can know if it's true. I think you'll find the users on this site are pretty helpful.

Take it easy mana.

- Manny