Advice?

[rnoelle06]

I have had various dreams along the same lines as this one and I'm not sure how to take it, and they are becoming somewhat of an issue/stressful.

I am married and have been for almost 2 years but I keep dreaming about my ex-boyfriend, of whom I broke up with for the man I'm with now.

Las night I dreamed about the ex again, and I saw him at a reunion and was autimatically drawn to him. We started talking, and although my husband wasn't there, my family was. I cheated on my husband in this dream, not only emotionally but physically. The ex and I went and hung out with his friends, and during a conversation we had I discussed that I didn't care about cheating on my husband. I told the ex that I still loved him and even though I loved my husband too, I loved the ex so much more. Then it was Easter Sunday, and my husband was never in the dream, we (my family and I) were waiting to go have dinner with my ex's family the dream ended with me trying to find my ex so that we could have some alone time before the dinner happened.

To be honest, the dream was good, and it seemed so real. I just really need help in wondering why I keep dreaming about him, and usually in situations in which I am cheating on my husband with him, or that I'm not even married to my husband. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

[Leidee]

Hi

My suggestion regarding your dream is as follows, based on the information you have provided:

You are having a "processing dream" about your ex-bf. It may be that when you ended that relationship to commence or continue your relationship with the man that eventually became your husband, you didn't allow yourself time to grieve the ending of the other relationship or felt perhaps that you shouldn't grieve the other relationship, as you had made a choice to be with this other man.

Your dreams are allowing you to process residual feelings about your ex.

L

[Varzandeh]

Hi,
Having sex with a known man means one will do a favor a help to the other nothing more, nothing else.Dream symbols sometimes are disgusting.


Here are more info about dreams:

Dream language interpretation is an ancient science of allusions and pointing of the surrounded environment, as Mr. Einstein has said the events are like train stations which exist and we are moving towards them, these are prewritten destiny with some authority ( in decision making seconds) in very full details. This dream language should be translated, and interesting to know it is international and common for all human beings. But ignorance causes some misunderstanings.People were not aware of this language and always thought in a bad way , for example Mr. Freud said about sexual dreams it is because you have suppressed your sexual desires so misled everybody and some women dreamt about having sex with co-workers or another and thought they should do that, while it only meant he will do something for her, or some others dreamt had sex with the same sex and invented homosexual, while it meant the same ,Also some men dreamt his wife had sex with a man and didn't understand or a woman dreamt her partner had sex with a woman and didn't' understand ...etc.Do you see what catastrophes are caused by misunderstanding a language. About the approximate interpretation time table: Dreams at noon or exactly at midnight( In the summer time 13 at noon and 1 midnight else at 12)in the same day if past a few minutes, a few days later. Dreams at 10-11 in the morning in 15-30 days later. Also dreams at 3-4 in the evening in 1-2 months .Dreams in the sunset mostly are not truthful and are messed, they have no interpretations, Dreams at 4-5 in the morning in a few days to 2 months some dreams in the holy books( Josef dream of kneeling the sun and the moon and 11 stars)was interpreted after 20 years and other dreams of the Pharaoh's prisoners interpreted in the same day and after 7 years. Dream of Pharaoh about the 7 thin cows and 7 fat cows interpreted from the next year to 14 years. Also dreams in 6th of the month will interpret after 1-2 days, in 9th at the same day, in 10th after 20 days, in 13th after 9 days in 14th after 26 days and in 15th after 3 days, in 16th after 2 days and in 28th ,29th ,30th in the same day, but these are solar (Persian months and you should refer to a calendar or convert them) . Of course there are different kinds of dreams , like messy dreams which have no interpretations or deja vu dreams, or psychological dreams or dreams which are caused by bad food or drinks.

Bibliography:
1- Principles of the dreams, by Daniel the prophet (562-604 B.C) Peace be on him.
2-Divisions of the dreams, by Imam Sadeq peace be on him ( 663-798 A.C).
3- Generals of the dreams, by Mohammad ibn Syrin ( 690 A.C).
4- Guides in the dreams , by Jaber ibn Hay'an( Father of the new chemistry)
5- Interpretations, by Ibn Ash'as ( 840 A.C).



If one dreamt had anal sex with his wife or another woman means he is innovator in religion and will do something that is not good for him and he doesn't follow the prophet's way.
If dreamt had sex with his mother or sister or some immoral relatives means his relations with the family will cut and means a sorrow also he won't see that relative any more.
If dreamt had sex generally means achieving a wish.
If dreamt two woman or two men had sex means one will do the other a big favor.
If dreamt someone had sex with his wife means his family will get rich or will buy houses.
If dreamt had sex with his wife and the woman was over him means he will marry another woman.
If dreamt had sex with a virgin girl means he will marry in the same year.
If dreamt had sex with the governor's wife means he will overcome the enemy.
If dreamt had sex with a wild animal means he will overcome the enemy.
Some interpreters say will have fears by the governor.
If dreamt had sex with a bird will overcome someone who is interpreted as that bird.
If dreamt had sex with a jew or Zoroastrian means his material situation will arrange.
If an old woman or old man whose passion is gone dreamt had passion like when he was young means he/she will like very much to do religious duties and prayers.
If dreamt had sex with a prostitute means he will like the material world and will receive immoral money.
If one dreamt had sex with a camel means he will rescue from a sorrow and a hard situation also will overcome the rival and will be somewhat famous.
If dreamt had sex with a president or a governor means will be near to the governor.
If dreamt had sex with the queen or the governor's wife means he will receive benefits from the governor.
If dreamt had sex with a woman who was in her cycle means his situation will be worse.
If dreamt had sex with a woman who is passed away means his situation will be worse till he marry one of her relatives.
If dreamt had sex with a known woman means he will be far from her relatives.
If dreamt had sex with a known man means will receive a benefit from him.
If dreamt had sex with an unknown man means will his wish by the governor.
If dreamt had sex with a dead man means will pray for the dead or will do a charity for his sake.
If a woman dreamt had sex with another woman means she will do her a favor.
Some interpreters say if had sex with a woman in her cycle means his affairs in material world will be easy.
If dreamt had sex with a passed away woman means a sorrow.
If dreamt had sex with an unknown dead woman means he will succeed in a job that was disappointed.
If dreamt had sex with a known young man that they are in fight means their enmity will turn to love.
If dreamt had sex with an old woman means will receive a benefit and goodness.