Complicated Dream-help!

[peacechild_123]

I am in this beautiful kingdom, where I am a princess in Marie Antoinette style. It reminds me of a Disney kingdom, though, as the nice-ness of the castle is in this huge room only, with huge mall-like doors opening to an outside shopping structure, like a swap meet. I am pretty, but not so pretty as to explain why all these gentlemen seem to be in love with me. However, I meet this one handsome boy and we go for a walk and have a lovely time and I think he loves me. So we return to the castle, and his servant says “The horses are ready.” I assume he has arranged a ride for us so I run to put my shoes on. However, while putting my shoes on I see him riding off with another girl, looking back at me, but not stopping. Stubbornly I continue to put on the shoes, hoping maybe another will ask to go riding. When no one does I throw off the shoes and turn to a man who I thought was once in love with me. I turn and ask him “Did you ever love me?” and he goes “no.” and I say “good" and start makking out with him. Somehow I decide in order to feel better about my love leaving with another girl to have some huge orgy thing in the mens bathroom. Four of us meet in there and start fooling around and such but then a huge crowd gathers at the bathroom calling us names and things because they have figured out what we have done. All but I leave, not knowing what is going on. When I finally do leave, the crowd has gone and this man appears asking for my hand in marriage. I refuse, walking towards the couches. Then the leader lady person comes and screams at me that I’m a whore and must be burned or something. The man that had asked to marry me becomes super strong and holds them all off while I run into the street, where it is apparently forbidden for royals to go unless accompanied by a guard, so I just keep walking, looking for shoes. I find many, cheap shoes but realize I have no money.

I have this gut feeling that this is a wonderful dream and all day yesterday I thought "Wow, what a great dream." I still feel like it was one of the best dreams I ever had, even though reading the typed version I can't imagine why. If anyone could help me decide what this means (if it means anything) I'd be very happy.
Thank you all.

[CandiDreamz]

as i read your dream i feel as if its your inner desires and wants are calling for attention. Meaning maybe a rigorous work schedule , not enough pampering and a busy life may have you subconsiously wanting to be number 1 in your life !! It seems as if you are the type who might put other peoples needs and desires in front of your own and your soul is crying for ME time, it knows what you need. The man leaving with the other woman and the wild orgies that followed means you are feeling unappreciated although you are trying to do all that you can to please everyone. the fact that you were caught after the wild party could be your s/c trying to get you to do something drastic like confront those that take you for granted to get wat you deserve !! i know kinda out there but thats wat i got outta that dream

[unclesirbobbyrobson]

“Did you ever love me?”

Dreams often reveal their meanings through quotes. Look at this quote. What does it make you think of. Think of moods especially in your mind the day before.. its more likely that your dream just reveals thoughts within your own head. Often these can switch around very quickly.

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Dreams deal with extremes. If you truly understood the meaning of your dream it may be quite negative. We are our own worst judge. We try to detect signals coming from other people. Do people feel we are not cool or incompetent? The dream mind is often very harsh and honest. It tells us things that we do not like to admit to ourselves. It tells us things that we fear. Its worries about how others are seeing us. It’s a big harsh dose of reality.

Yet the dream mind also heads in the other direction. It captures our fantasies and positive feelings. Sometimes you wake up in a positive mood and feel that you are going to tackle a task in a particular way. You are invigorated and positive. Dreams then help motivate us. But often if we go too far in one direction our dreams tell us to cool down and not get carried away. This makes sense really. The dream mind then explores feelings connected with our judgment. We need to motivate ourselves but we also need to be realistic.

Try these pages as they help you understand the process of dreaming

Dream dictionary symbols - How to analyse and interpret dreams
Dreams analyzed - How to use dreams symbols
Dream dictionary interpretation - How to interpret dreams
Dream interpreting - the police and security forces and their symbolic meaning

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[Shirah]

Hello Peacechild..

Several things stand out to me in your dream. One is the fluctuation in your feelings and emotions regarding relationships. You think you love this one person...her rides off with another girl...you asking this other man if he ever loved you...you being okay that he wasn't and still making out with him...you having an orgy with men in the bathroom ...and then you refusing a proposal.
It seems like you may have difficulty with getting close to people in a romantic way. Your dreams indicates that you have been hurt in a intimate relationship and that because of this, you now blur the lines between love and lust. This shows me that you desire a solid loving relationship, yet you are confused about how to attract such a person without perhaps compromising yourself in the process.

The second thing that stood out in your dream was the references to shoes...changing them...looking for shoes...and only finding cheap ones but having no money to buy them. I believe this may indicate that you sometimes want to be someone else...someone who is different then how you believe you are. I believe you may sometimes view yourself as not having much to give to others and not being able to accomplish much.

The last thing that stood out is your stubbornness in your dream. You refuse to be defeated and you refuse to follow the norm. I believe this is the saving grace of the depth of your dream. Although you may be confused about love and how to obtain true love and although you may doubt your abilities at times and even dream of being someone else, you are a independent spirit who will continue to fight and survive. It seems to me that this fighting spirit will get you through whatever you may be experiencing and will be present as you find your balanced footing along the journey. Be well

[Varzandeh]

Hi,
Being a princess means some dinity at work or study.
A palace means some money or a man for ladies.
Your shoes means a partner /husband or a work.
You put on means you will have a man, .
Yes, the sense of the dream is very much powerful than the typed version because your soul senses it.


I want to tell you a reason to know that 5 senses can't understand anything except by the soul.
Have you dreamt you were eating and drinking and had pleasure of that. He said yes. I said: have you dreamt laughing and crying, and strolling in the cities that haven't seen yet but you know the specialties. He said: yes dreamt very much. I said: Have you ever dreamt about your dead brother or father and know them like they are alive.
He said: yes too many times. I said: tell me which sense has received such things to see the dead and talking to them or crying and laughing. He said: I can’t say which one. Because the body is slept like a dead. I said: tell me when you wake up don’t you remember and report to the friends exactly, He said; yes and sometimes I see that before night in real life. I said; which sense keeps it to remember the dream after waking. He said; there is no way for sense. I said then you should know because senses are vein here that is the soul that God has put wisdom in it and it is a reason. He said; what I dream is like mirage one thinks it is water but when arrive at there is nothing. I said; how do you say it is like mirage and you ate sweets and pickles and were happy and sad he said; because what I dream when I arrive at it is nothing. I said: have you ever had sex in the dream and your hearts beat, have you ever had wet dream about a woman or man. You know him or don’t know He said many times said had you orgasm and when you woke up you were wet then this is not mirage.
He said: dreaming orgasm is just like the real life .I said this is my reason that soul Knows everything although senses are dead and can’t see or hear of course you shouldn’t deny that soul in addition of the senses knowledge recognition in the waking life after vanishing the senses has sex with them then it recognizes the things after going senses and now you understand that the soul itself is guiding the senses and is their governor and none of the senses can’t do anything without soul; if the soul goes ahead body wasn’t get back and if soul gets back the body won’t go ahead with the soul the happiness comes and with it the ache is received if a sense is damaged the soul is remained but if the soul is damaged senses can work properly.

[peacechild_123]

thank you to everyone who posted, although I must say Shirah's interpretation was the most how do I say...correct? I recognize almost all of that posting in my life, thank you, as do I recognize what the others posted as well. thank you all again very much!
peacechild

[steve1530]

Yes, this is a very good dream. I think the dream is reminding you of who you were created to be and what your future/destiny can be. You may have come through a period where you were infaturated with something (a person or way of life perhaps) that looked promising and powerful (horses, "horsepower", etc.) and you even spent some time preparing (getting on shoes) and getting equipped for the ride only to be disappointed when it didn't work out. But because you invested heavily in this thing, you were hoping something similar would come along ("maybe another will ask me to go riding") but when it didn't, you felt very betrayed and abandoned, so much so that you were willing to go back to your former ways and embrace them again (making out with a former lover who confesses that he never really loved you at all) even though you knew it wasn't good for you. Infact, the pain of the rejection was so severe that you really went to the extreme of medicating it (the orgy in the mensroom) which may soon be exposed to the full view and scruity of the crowd (which are subjects of your realm, princess! those in your circle of friends, family, etc). When this comes about, or maybe it already has, they express their displeasure in where your life is right now ("the leader lady comes and screams at me..."). The good news is that despite your circumstances and the choices you've made that have gotten you to that place, when all the others have left you, there comes a man who truly loves you, who has seen what has happend, who knows the whole story and even still and invites you to enter into covenant, deep intimacy, union with him. This is the exact opposite of "all those gentlemen seem to be in love with me" but are not really. And he is bigger and stronger than anything/anyone who could come against you and he will "hold them off" while you run into the street where it is forbidden for royals to go without a guard, but you will have the best and strongest guard. I think the dream is giving you a picture of what God longs to do in your life if you will accept his proposal. How's that? Any of that resonate with you?

[peacechild_123]

yes, that definately rings quite a few bells,
i definately know the man i was (am) infatuated with...
although I remembered a new part to the dream,
and the more I think about it, the more I think it means I want to show off to my first "love" that I'm loveable too.

In the dream, I remembered the way I got the guys in the bathroom for our orgy thing was i wrote them all notes, all the same saying the equivalent of come to the bathroom for a good time.

after i was caught and left the bathroom, i found one of these notes specifically to write on the back of one of them a letter to the first gentlemen that he'd "missed out."

do you think this means that part of the reason I want true love or acceptance so badly is because the first man left me?
that by gaining acceptance from someone else maybe...i don't know.
I definately know that's true in my life, but is this what the dream means?
Thank You all!

[steve1530]

Well, I think the quest for true love is something that our creator has placed into each of us in order to take us outside of ourselves. It's very easy to get so inward looking/self-centered/looking out for #1 that we become cut off and isolated. A very wise and holy man from the 4th century said, "Our hearts are restless until they rest in you, O Lord." So, without knowing anything about your situation, I think the dream is inviting you to explore the ultimate source of love and once you experience that, the other relationships/loves will fall into place as they ought. Have a great weekend!