meet a man, daughter falls off bridge into cold water, almost drowns

[bright_dreamer]

Hi,
This one kind of scares me.

It is dusk, and I'm on a bike, riding down a road that is not very busy. For some reason, it should have been, since it was a state road.

I remember having to turn onto "Route 3." I see a sign for route 3, and turn left. It is getting dark.
I rode a short way and a traffic light on red and I saw a sign for route "80." I then realize why I'm there. I'm supposed to meet a man. (In my dream I know him, but he doesn't exist in real life. I can't remember the name I said in the dream.) It must have been for a romantic encounter, because I remember wondering how my husband would feel about this.

I look at the "80" sign, and see that I'm not in the right place. I turn around and go back to the original intersection. There is another red traffic light. I stop, but wonder why it's red since the road is not busy. I let a car go by. (it's headlights were on, it's now dark.)

I turn back onto the original road and go a short way, when I see route "3" make a turn to the right. My 3 daughters are now with me.
I turn right onto route 3, and end up on a bridge. It is cold because it is late winter/early spring time. AGain, I thought about my husband finding out.
I get off my bike, and meet the man. We talk, when all of a sudden, my youngest daughter (age 4) falls backward off the bridge into the water.

I scream at the man to save her. I look into the water. It is dark, and a light from the bridge is shining where she fell in. There is no sign of her. The man dives in after her and disappears in the water.

At that point I wake up, feeling shaken.
I then tried to go back to sleep, and I think I had a lucid dream where I tried to resolve the situation. The man had to come up for air, and dive back down. He pulled my daughter up onto the bridge where I began to perform CPR. Again, I then woke up.

[Wolfjk]

Hi Bright dreamer,
This is a dream that indicates some upset in your family or marriage. You Are struggling with a moral problem. I can't tell what it is, but the dream hints at a desire for romance in your life.
Cheers Wolfjk

[bright_dreamer]

Originally Posted by Wolfjk

Hi Bright dreamer,
This is a dream that indicates some upset in your family or marriage. You Are struggling with a moral problem. I can't tell what it is, but the dream hints at a desire for romance in your life.
Cheers Wolfjk

Hi,
The wanting romance makes some sense. I've been having some health problems that have greatly interfered with that aspect of our marriage. I would never consider cheating on my husband, and he's completely faithful to me.

Maybe the "red" lights in the dream are telling me to STOP, and not consider an affair? The turns in the roads are my choices?
The route "3" may represent my 3 girls?

I'm still stumped on why I was riding a bike at night, why my daughter fell backwards off the bridge and disappeared under water, and the route "80" sign.

What do you think?
Thanks for your help,

[Varzandeh]

Hi,
Dreaming of a path/route means searching for belief and constancy about it and a true material affairs.
If one dreamt was going in a highway means he will go in the way of belief and God's satisfaction .
If dreamt he guided a group to a right way means he will guise people to honesty.
If dreamt he was lost in a way and was wandering around means he is wandering in understanding belief.
If dreamt he was going in a way and was not tired means he will take his rights from someone but with difficulty.
If dreamt someone took him from a straight way to an inclined way means that person will make him busy with lies.
If dreamt he was going in a way in a dark night and finding the way was difficult for him means he will find the true way of life.
If one dreamt there were many different ways and he didn't know which one to choose means he will be wandering in religion and belief and will sit with pagan people.
If dreamt a way was difficult for him and didn't know where is going to then turned to the right hand , and was lost at night , means the true way of life will remain hidden for him.
If dreamt he went out of a straight way on purpose means he will use tricks and deceive for an enemy.
If dreamt he was going in a way and a woman came to him and he left the way for her means the material world will deceive him and there will be failure in his belief and will give up the goodness and belief.
If dreamt there was green grass and plants in his way means his belief is pure.
If dreamt he was going in a way by guessing and probability means he will innovate in religion or he will wander in his affairs. The Livestock/153.
If dreamt he took someone out of a way means his belief is corrupt. The Sun/10.
A way may also mean : 1- material world 2- A happiness and comfort 3- Good deed 4- blessing 5- Pleasure and comfort.

No. 3 means christianity,
No. 80 means he will be beaten or emotionaly hurt because of a woman/man.

[unclesirbobbyrobson]

Well in many ways romance in the dream seems to have a little in common with the man trying to save your daughter. Its a big bold act. Its very much the hero. Heros are very much the symbol of the romantic. Maybe your just lacking that right now. At the moment you are m,aybe caught up in the mundane aspects of life.

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[Wolfjk]

Originally Posted by bright_dreamer

Hi,
The wanting romance makes some sense. I've been having some health problems that have greatly interfered with that aspect of our marriage. I would never consider cheating on my husband, and he's completely faithful to me.

Maybe the "red" lights in the dream are telling me to STOP, and not consider an affair? The turns in the roads are my choices?
The route "3" may represent my 3 girls?

I'm still stumped on why I was riding a bike at night, why my daughter fell backwards off the bridge and disappeared under water, and the route "80" sign.

What do you think?
Thanks for your help,

Hi Bright dreamer,
Thanks for your post. Dreams are always about what is happening in the sleep they occur in. Sometimes negative thoughts need a dream to divert attention from the problems, other times the sleeper needs the dream to wake her up from some pain or discomfort. The subconscious is not concerned with other people in the dream but uses them, and uses your feeling towards them to create the dream. For some reason you needed to wake up from this sleep and your subconscious used the fear and care for your daughter to wake you. However dreams change very often in sleep. The subconscious mind can sense what is happening in sleep and if the sleepers condition or comfort improves the dream becames less threatening.
Dreams only have meanings in the context of the dream. Many elements of the dream are there simply to grab your attention and bring you nearer to waking. So the number three and number 80 are there in your dream to bring your brain into play.
Cheers Wolfjk

[bright_dreamer]

Hi everyone,
Thanks for your replies. It's greatly appreciated!