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[chipmunk]

i have had the same dream twice in the last 9 months it differs slightly but the main dream is the same. i dream that my dad who died in may 2007 isnt dead..in both dreams i bump into him or ring his phone and he answers, in the latest dream he looked different due to the fact that his hair was grey which my dads hair wasnt but he tells me that he didnt actually die. in the first dream i even take him to see his grave but in my dream the place i take him isnt where the grave actually is now and in my dream i cant find the grave even though i know it was there previously.

[bright_dreamer]

Hi CHipmunk,
It sounds to me that you may still be grieving for the loss of your Dad. THough he is gone physically, you know he's still with you in spirit.
He said he didn't die in you rdream. His memory and spirit is still alive in your heart.
His hair is graying in your dream, may mean that time has passed, and if alive, would appear older.
I hope this helps,

[yosef]

These dream interpretations are from the book Ten Thousand Dreams Interpreted. You can get the book here
http://www.freewebtown.com/godisking...nterpreted.pdf

To dream that you see a newly made grave, you will have to suffer
for the wrongdoings of others.
If you visit a newly made grave, dangers of a serious nature is hanging
over you. Grave is an unfortunate dream. Ill luck in business transactions will follow, also sickness is threatened.


To dream of the dead, is usually a dream of warning. If you see and talk
with your father, some unlucky transaction is about to be made by you.
Be careful how you enter into contracts, enemies are around you.
Men and women are warned to look to their reputations after this dream.

To see your mother, warns you to control your inclination to
cultivate morbidness and ill will towards your fellow creatures.
A brother, or other relatives or friends, denotes that you
may be called on for charity or aid within a short time.

To dream of seeing the dead, living and happy, signifies you are letting wrong
influences into your life, which will bring material loss if not corrected
by the assumption of your own will force.

To dream that you are conversing with a dead relative, and that
relative endeavors to extract a promise from you, warns you
of coming distress, unless you follow the advice given you.
Disastrous consequences could often be averted if minds could grasp
the inner workings and sight of the higher or spiritual self.
The voice of relatives is only that higher self taking form to approach
more distinctly the mind that lives near the material plane.
There is so little congeniality between common or material natures
that persons should depend upon their own subjectivity for true
contentment and pleasure.

Paracelsus says on this subject: “It may happen that the soul of
persons who have died perhaps fifty years ago may appear to us in a dream,
and if it speaks to us we should pay special attention to what it says,
for such a vision is not an illusion or delusion, and it is possible
that a man is as much able to use his reason during the sleep of his body
as when the latter is awake; and if in such a case such a soul appears
to him and he asks questions, he will then hear that which is true.
Through these solicitous souls we may obtain a great deal of knowledge
to good or to evil things if we ask them to reveal them to us.
Many persons have had such prayers granted to them. Some people that were sick have been informed during their sleep what remedies they should use, and after using the remedies, they became cured, and such things have
happened not only to Christians, but also to Jews, Persians, and heathens,
to good and to bad persons.”