Confussion on love in dreams

[xderickx]

Hi,

I've been having some what of a problem. Sometimes, I will dream about a girl (Never seen/meet her in my life) that I seem to have strong feelings for in a dream. I've never kissed her in a dream but I dream that we meet and i find myself hanging out with her in the dream - Now, once the dream starts to get juicy like we have alone time just me and her in what ever setting, I'll wake up (Usually in the middle of the night). I find myself sad when I awake. I'll look at the clock and notice i only been asleep for maybe 2 hours or so but it seems like the dream was atleast hours long. In the dream, I know she likes me and what not but in anycase, I'll go back to sleep and dream about her again. This dream occurs in like 1 outta every 10 dreams I actually remember (It's very rare that i remember any of my dreams cept this dream and nightmares). Anyone have any thought on what I'm going threw? I've had trouble with relationships so I kinda figured this is like a fantasy girl that I can never meet and it's really quite sad when I think about it.

Thanks for all and any replys

[Headinthestars18]

Hi,
I think your dream could mean that you are looking for the girl that you can spend a very long time with. You mentioned you've had trouble with relationships in the past. Maybe that could mean you keep dreaming about this girl because you really deep inside want to meet a girl like her. And you feel sad because you know it's a dream, and it's not real but you want it to be. I'm not sure, but this is what I think it means. I hoped I've helped in some ways.=)

[Imogen]

Yes I think ur dream is an emotion that you would like expressed in real life. Dream lovers represent the ideal of what we would like and what we desire to have in our waking life. Although they may be a stranger to you in waking life, they could recur so much in ur dream life that u may feel as though you know them.

hmm had this kinda dream often myself and really wish I could put a spell on my dream guy to make him real.