Weird graphic Sex dream that I need interpreted! Please!

[Curlyq]

Ok. First off let me add this dream/nightmare has caused me much anxiety and stress and is quiet graphic. I might add that I am also struggling being alone a lot in my first year at college seeing as all my friends moved back home. I'm left here only with my bf. I might add that I consider myself a pretty sexual person. (this does have to do with the dream) But My bf has been trying to "please" me by going down on me but can't quite seal the deal. I do think about it and get frustrated with myself when we can't make it work.

The dream:
I start out in a basement. There are about 10 little girls, about 3-4 years old if i could guess. It almost seems like a birthday party. This one little girl seems to be following me around and shes always smiling and happy around me. I feel pretty powerful to be able to have control over this young girl. I then cut to the absolutely horrible, gross, part. She starts going down on me while im laying down. And in the dream it is really good. I forget whats going on and then after awhile i feel guilty about it so i tell the girl to stop. (conisidentally i do the same thing to my bf, not because i feel guilty but because i feel frustrated when i can't get it to "work" right away). The last part of the dream is i see my mom sleeping in the room and she walks out with me and says something like "its ok as long as you get what you want." then i wake up.


I must also add that the morning i woke up from this dream i had left the tv on with nickelodeon on all night. I woke up to Dora the Explorer hah. Please someone tell me im not a freak! heh

[bright_dreamer]

Hi,
I'm going to try!

You said that you are frustrated that your boyfriend cannot please you sexually. Maybe he feels the pressure of pleasing you, and fails because he's afraid you won't like it.?

I'm guessing that the little girl in your dream represents you. The girl really looks up to you, and wants to please you. Kind of like putting you on a pedistal. Girls in dream represent innocence, and immaturity. Maybe you looked up to someone as a child, and really wanted to please him/her. Looking for approval and validation? In real life, you said you are frustrated with yourself for not making things work. WHen you were younger, did you get frustrated when you didn't get the approval you needed?

In your dream, your mother said that it's ok as long as you get what you want. However, it felt wrong to you in your dream.

ANother angle could be that you look at your boyfriend to please you, but he's too immature or not sure it's the right thing to do. HE wants your approval and validation, like the girl in your dream.

I'm also guessing that your dream may be telling you, that in the back of your mind, this sexual situation isn't right for you both at the moment. Maybe talking with your boyfriend, and finding other outlets for each other may help the situation.

Check the links below to see if they help.



Dream Moods: Your Dream Symbol Interpretation (basement)

Dream Moods: Your Dream Symbol Interpretation (girls)

Dream Moods: Your Dream Symbol Interpretation (mother)

Dream Moods: Your Dream Symbol Interpretation (sex with girl)

I wish you luck
Take care