surprise wedding on the lawn & little girl

[bright_dreamer]

Hi,
I appreciate your help.
I dreamed that my husband and I were driving up a road towards a local ski resort. (My grandparents' former home in real life is also on the same road.)
It was winter as we were driving. As we drove by my grandparents' former home, the sun was shining, the grass was growing, and there was a wedding taking place on their lawn.
We stop to look, to see my husband's sister and brother in law getting married. The few people attending the wedding were unknown to us. We were in shock that we didn't know this was taking place. We couldn't understand why we weren't told about the wedding.
(In real life, my grandmother is deceased, and my grandfather, while still living, is very ill. However, neither of them were in this dream. Their yard and the outside of their house was very vivid in the dream. In real life, my sister in law and her husband do not know my grandfather.)

Then, I dreamed that I was visiting my father in another state. In real life, he built a new house. In the dream, his new house is situated in a very run-down neighborhood. I went into his house. I remember very little except that there were 2 kitchens. One downstairs and one upstairs. The one downstairs was specially built for my step mother who is in a wheelchair. The upstairs kitchen was built normally. I asked my dad why the kitchen upstairs? He said that they were going to hire a cook, but didn't.
I then remember seeing a little girl about 4years old, that was a different ethnicity than us.

Then, my dream moves to another location...I can't recall now what it was exactly. The little girl was there again. This time, she was said to belong to my sister in law and her husband (the ones in the first part of the dream.) They adopted her, and she was 4 years old.
(In real life, my sister in law married 4 years ago.)

Very strange, and I can't seem to make anything of it. ANy thoughts or ideas are appreciated.
Thanks for your help,
Peace to all of you,
Bright Dreamer