A dream about my boyfriend, his friends, a car and my cell phone...really weird!

[Headinthestars18]

I had a dream that my boyfriend and his friends were in his car and I think, from what I can remember, they were chasing me onto the grass with his car and I tried running away and I think I did. Then I remember opening my cell phone and my best guy friend sent me text messages and so did someone named Drew. It's weird because I have a friend named Andrew and his myspace heading is drew...so it was weird. I remember my cell phone saying there were 12 messages. I remember other things happening, but I can't quite remember what.
In real life, me and my boyfriend just started going out last Tuesday, but he's been a jerk to me lately. He's just so busy all the time and last night he gave me two options. He told me we could stay together as boyfriend and girlfriend and not hang out or talk as much because of his schedule or we could remain good friends and I could still tell him that I love him and he would respect my decision. And I told him no, that I want to stay with him and he was okay with it. I was freaking out and asked him if he was breaking up with me and he said no and that he loves me and cares about me. I know he does, but I worry so much about everything. He's really sweet..but he can be mean and he even admitted it.
Sorry that I am sharing this, i just thought maybe knowing this could help initerpret my dream. And in real life, his friends are kind of stand offish. His best guy friends girlfriend told him that I am a little weird...so Idk. Maybe I just worry too much...Any help for this dream would be appreciated! THANKS! =)

[bright_dreamer]

Hi,
Please don't feel you need to apologize for the extra information. It's ok to add whatever you think is relevant! It actually is quite helpful. In fact, I think your dream is telling you what you may already know, but don't want to face.
By the sound of your post, I'm guessing that you are quite young (teenager?)
You said your boyfriend was mean, and admitted it. Then you said he's really sweet. It did sound like he was breaking up with you, but left you to "decide" to stay with him. He doesn't have time for you, but he wants a relationship on his terms. From my experience, it sounds a lot like the first signs of a controller/abuser.
Please keep an eye out. When a person is mean one minute, then sweet and asking forgiveness the next...that is a red flag! Especially, if he starts putting blame on you for his behavior. ("You made me mad because _______" "It's your fault that I ______." Then he is all sweetness, and makes you believe you need him, and can't live without him.) If this is how it is, you need to find help and support, and get out of the relationship.

His friends are stand-offish. What kind of crowd does your boyfriend hang with? Are they the type to make bad or risky decisions?

In your dream, you said you were being chased by your boyfriend in his car with his friends. Being chased, and running away, means there is a fear. (again, I believe, in the back of your mind, you know things aren't right.)
You use your cell phone, possibly as a way to summon help. You see a name you recognize, possibly of someone you can trust. Has "Drew" or anyone in real life warned you about your boyfriend? That may explain the messages on your cell phone.

Maybe I'm off base, but I've seen it before, and I sense the urgency and uncertainty in your post. If this helps, or didn't help, feel free to let me know.
I wish you luck,
Peace to you my friend,
Bright Dreamer

[Headinthestars18]

THANK YOU SO MUCH! That brings a lot to focus and what he is all about...he actually, quite recently, put single on his myspace when we are still together...so I don't know anymore. I am terrified of losing him, but he's not a good person from what i am getting. And his friends are defff the type to do risky things and they aren't exactly nice....so idk. bUt thanks soooo muchhh for the information. He is very controlling! He tells me I am not allowed to talk about certain things or things I can't say. What do I do? How do I approach this? Thanks! And I am 18 btw, so yes, i am a teenager.=)

[bright_dreamer]

Hi headinthestars,

Honey, you are 18, and have a lot to look forward to. I know it's hard to let go of someone you care about. However, you verified that he can be controlling, and doesn't want to acknowledge your relationship in public.
Again, these are HUGE signs of an abuser, and you owe it to yourself to make your own happiness. DO not rely on him to make you happy....even when he's all sweet and says he loves you. AGain, he wants you on HIS terms.
If he's hanging around a tough group of friends, then, again, it's not a safe situation for you to be in.
If you want to leave him, get someone to be there for you Before you try to break up with him. Have your parents or other trusted authority figure by your side when you do it. If you feel that your safety may be in danger, seek the advice of local law enforcement before you break up with him, just in case.

I wish you peace. I think your dream was telling you what you already know about your boyfriend. In this case, I'd listen.
Good luck,
Peace,
Bright Dreamer