A dream about my brother who passed

[Maggie Kowalczyk]

My boyfriend had a dream about my brother who drowned 6 months ago. In his dream he was walking along a lake shore. The water was really blue and it looked like there was an island on the lake. There were people behid my boyfriend but absolutely nobody infront of the direction he was heading in. After a brief moment a tall figure was walking towards him. As my boyfriend was passing the figure, he realized that it was my brother and asked my bother about his name. My brother admitted that it was his name, and asked my boyfriend how he knew him? My boyfriend told my brother that he's dating me(im the sister). My boyfriend told my brother that everyone is looking for him & my brother asked to go home. They both got into the car, and then my boyfriend woke up.

Can someone please interpret this for me????

[Katie81]

I'm no expert, but i think your boyfriend knows you and your family are aching due to your brother's death. I believe that this is his subconscious wishing he was able to do more to make you feel better.

[Varzandeh]

Hi,
Dreaming of a deceased person alive means that a dead job or something forgotten or something impossible will be arranged and will revive for your bf.
A lake means someone with a limited science( a doctor , a lawyer) or a big boss.
This may take a month or two to happen, pleas elet me know when something happened.
Good luck.

[Fonskers]

I am definitely not an expert here, but I have had similar experiences. A good friend of mine passed away 5+ years ago and about 2 months after his death I started having dreams with him in them. Mostly they were of him telling me that he is okay and that he is always with me. I would share these dreams with my mom and she would always tell me that my friend was coming to visit me in spirit form to tell me that everything is all right...at this point I was still grieving very heavily.

I am not really a religious person...I have my beliefs, but nothing HUGE. I don't know what your beliefs are, but if you believe in an afterlife, consider that your brother might be "lost" so to speak. I don't want you to think that he's in a bad place!! He just hasn't found his way yet and somehow he's found a way to reach out to your boyfriend to try to find his way. I would suggest prayer of some sort....

[Varzandeh]

Hi,
Approving your ideas ,i should say dreaming of a passed away person alive is a symbol that says he has a good situation in the spirituals.
Also if a dead person spoke to you and it was good means God may forgive you .
Good luck.

[MichelleM78]

Hi Maggie,

First let me say that I am sorry to hear about your brother. Losing a loved one is one of the hardest obstacles we face.

I am not an expert either, but I hope I can help w/ my interpretation.

I have dreamed about numerous passed relatives that I was extremely close to emotionally.

"he was walking along a lake shore" "island on the lake" I am Christian so I would say that the island was heaven and walking the shore meant that he was lost and not sure how to crossover to heaven.


"As my boyfriend was passing the figure, he realized that it was my brother and asked my bother about his name. My brother admitted that it was his name, and asked my boyfriend how he knew him?" This may have something to do w/ your b/f regretting not meeting (or getting to know) your brother

My boyfriend told my brother that "everyone is looking for him" Relatives and friends who have passed previously and are awaiting his arrival into Heaven

"my brother asked to go home" Not sure about this one, but I am thinking Heaven and crossing over

I hope I have helped you some what. Hopefully I am not being to literal or offensive- I do have a ba in psych and consider myself something of a minor sensitive.

If I can help in any other way then please let me know.

[sdcross778]

I dont know for sure what to make of it, all I can do is share my dream with you. My friend from school was really really troubled. she was molested by her dad and rejected by her mother. she was the most destructive person i knew, yet i felt to befriend her and understand her. my dream, she was sitting on the beach, next to the ocean. it was early morning and she was sitting there next to her child(she doesnt have any in real life because she said she would probably kill it) she seemed peaceful and logical...which she never was in real life. she was the biggest trouble maker around. im wondering if your brother was a cancer, picses or aquarius? when i dream of certain people around large bodies of water around the ocean, they are often born under these signs, which to me, means they have or will find peace. also, sometimes visits from the other side, can be scrambled in from bits and fragments of our minds. The ocean is where many people take vacations...it is a symbol of peace and harmony.

[sdcross778]

sorry , i left out scorpio, so was your brother a cancer, scorpio, picses or aquarius? i know i spelled that wrong, but i am wondering if you brother was a water sign?? this could be an indication that he IS at peace and has made it to the other side.

[sdcross778]

also, i know aquarious isnt a water sign, but they are associated with water.

[Maggie Kowalczyk]

Originally Posted by sdcross778

I dont know for sure what to make of it, all I can do is share my dream with you. My friend from school was really really troubled. she was molested by her dad and rejected by her mother. she was the most destructive person i knew, yet i felt to befriend her and understand her. my dream, she was sitting on the beach, next to the ocean. it was early morning and she was sitting there next to her child(she doesnt have any in real life because she said she would probably kill it) she seemed peaceful and logical...which she never was in real life. she was the biggest trouble maker around. im wondering if your brother was a cancer, picses or aquarius? when i dream of certain people around large bodies of water around the ocean, they are often born under these signs, which to me, means they have or will find peace. also, sometimes visits from the other side, can be scrambled in from bits and fragments of our minds. The ocean is where many people take vacations...it is a symbol of peace and harmony.

he's an aquarius