A dream about my brother who passed

[Maggie Kowalczyk]

Originally Posted by MichelleM78

Hi Maggie,

First let me say that I am sorry to hear about your brother. Losing a loved one is one of the hardest obstacles we face.

I am not an expert either, but I hope I can help w/ my interpretation.

I have dreamed about numerous passed relatives that I was extremely close to emotionally.

"he was walking along a lake shore" "island on the lake" I am Christian so I would say that the island was heaven and walking the shore meant that he was lost and not sure how to crossover to heaven.


"As my boyfriend was passing the figure, he realized that it was my brother and asked my bother about his name. My brother admitted that it was his name, and asked my boyfriend how he knew him?" This may have something to do w/ your b/f regretting not meeting (or getting to know) your brother

My boyfriend told my brother that "everyone is looking for him" Relatives and friends who have passed previously and are awaiting his arrival into Heaven

"my brother asked to go home" Not sure about this one, but I am thinking Heaven and crossing over

I hope I have helped you some what. Hopefully I am not being to literal or offensive- I do have a ba in psych and consider myself something of a minor sensitive.

If I can help in any other way then please let me know.

were catholic and an another christian has interpreted this as "that hes alone and doesnt want to leave" ?????

[sdcross778]

my friend whom i wrote about is also an aquarius...she is finally finding some peace in her life after all these years. So thats why I felt as though the dream next to the ocean was a symbol for her journey here, the next phase. I am guessing from my own experience that your brothers death is not the end, but another beginning, or transition. I personally think your brother is at peace on his journey....but as I also believe what we dont learn in this life, we will in the next and so on....so it does sound like he still has some lessons to be learned, but dont we all..If it were me, I would pray to him and let him know how much he is missed and loved...and forgiven, if you think that might be an issue with him for taking his life and leaving you all behind to grieve his loss and no answers. I'd tell him to move on in his journey incase he hasnt...and that everybody is going to be okay here. The only reason your brother would not move on is because of his family, if he felt he had to stay to watch over you or that he hurt you too much when he left....if there is guilt left. Im also going to post a song...that is sung by celine dion, it is beautiful and when I hear about people taking their own lives...I think of them when I hear it. So I'll post it for you

[sdcross778]

"Fly" by Celine Dion

Fly, fly little wing
Fly beyond imagining
The softest cloud, the whitest dove
Upon the winds of heavens love
Past the planets and the stars
Leave this lonely world of ours
Escape the sorrow and the pain...
And fly again

Fly fly precious one
Your endless journey has just begun
Take your gentle happiness
Far too beautiful for this
Cross over to the other shore
There is peace forever more
But hold this memory bittersweet
Until we meet...

Fly, fly do not fear
Dont waste a breath, dont shed a tear
Your heart is pure, your soul is free
Be on your way, dont wait for me
Above the universe you'll climb
On beyond the hands of time
The moon will rise, the sun will set
But I wont forget...

Fly, fly little wing
Fly where the angels sing
Fly away, the time is right
Go now, find the light

[MichelleM78]

Originally Posted by Maggie Kowalczyk

were catholic and an another christian has interpreted this as "that hes alone and doesnt want to leave" ?????

I was baptized Catholic as well. I just don't agree w/ everything that Catholics believe in. I do believe in God and Heaven. I don't feel that your brother is alone. He may be scared to enter Heaven (he sounds like he was younger when he passed). I think he will find his way. I don't know where the other person is trying to say he doesn't want to leave from? Did they say?

[sdcross778]

I thought they meant that her brother was on the other side, but hadnt made it into heaven...im not sure exactly where they meant he was, where ever you go when you die, not heaven, but some place in between, im not sure. I def. dont believe in the catholic religion either...it is another case of extreme religion in my opinion.

[MichelleM78]

Originally Posted by sdcross778

I thought they meant that her brother was on the other side, but hadnt made it into heaven...im not sure exactly where they meant he was, where ever you go when you die, not heaven, but some place in between, im not sure. I def. dont believe in the catholic religion either...it is another case of extreme religion in my opinion.

Yup....that's why I refused to get confirmed!

[Maggie Kowalczyk]

Originally Posted by sdcross778

my friend whom i wrote about is also an aquarius...she is finally finding some peace in her life after all these years. So thats why I felt as though the dream next to the ocean was a symbol for her journey here, the next phase. I am guessing from my own experience that your brothers death is not the end, but another beginning, or transition. I personally think your brother is at peace on his journey....but as I also believe what we dont learn in this life, we will in the next and so on....so it does sound like he still has some lessons to be learned, but dont we all..If it were me, I would pray to him and let him know how much he is missed and loved...and forgiven, if you think that might be an issue with him for taking his life and leaving you all behind to grieve his loss and no answers. I'd tell him to move on in his journey incase he hasnt...and that everybody is going to be okay here. The only reason your brother would not move on is because of his family, if he felt he had to stay to watch over you or that he hurt you too much when he left....if there is guilt left. Im also going to post a song...that is sung by celine dion, it is beautiful and when I hear about people taking their own lives...I think of them when I hear it. So I'll post it for you

just to let you know, he didtn take his life. it was an accident, and he was young, only 17

[Jennings]

Your dream would indicate a degree of tranquility in your relationship with your boyfriend but the closeness of you both has been distanced by the passing of your brother. If this is the case then it would be due to your grief in not being able to provide the affection he currently desires.