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[pleasehelp1433]

This is my first time on the site- but I had a very graphic and disturbing dream last night that I am wondering why I had drempt it!! Please someone intrupret.

I was in a house - which was kinda in the middle of nowhere-ran down, little lighting, dark, and grungy looking. It was not at the age I am now (25) but more like a teen, I am not to sure the age I was in my dream, but I know alot younger. Anyways, the house was filled with kids, mostly all babies, from 2 weeks- about 5 yrs. It was night time, I felt scared and wanted to escape the house, but couldn't, there was no where to go. There was a man that lived there- older, with a dark brownish white hair and gotee, bad teeth- unkempt. He was sleeping- I tried to go up the stairs to get my kids- (I have two in real life same ages in my dream) ages 5 and 6 but when I went upstairs, the other babies started to wake up. (The all were sleeping on the floor, everywhere) The man started to wake up...This is when he got up, and was saying something to me- I couldn't understand what he was saying but he was mad and upset... it was gibberish.. It scared me. I froze in place, I didn't move. My kids were near me. He randomly choose a child- which was I remember in my dream a boy about 6 months and was going to rape him. I remember crying in my dream and wishing that I could stop him, but I couldn't. He raped the child in front of me and my two kids- I was screaming
to my kids "close your eyes..CLOSE YOUR EYES!!" and I tried to grab my kids so they wouldn't see what was happening, but it was too late and they saw what he did. I was crying histericaly and I remember thinking in my dream "why did you take their inocence? WHY.. WHY did you have to do that? They were inocent and pure, and now you have taken that away from them" (Not sure If I was refering to my kids or the other kids or the child that was raped in my dream) I woke up at that point. I woke up and was sick to my stomach.

Some one please tell me what this means!!!!!!!

[pleasehelp1433]

Can someone please help me! This has been upsetting me all morning!!!!!!

[sdcross778]

it sounds like a nightmare...the way I interpreted it, might be a victim type of insecurity where in a situation someone feels no power to protect or defend themself or others.

[sdcross778]

so maybe there is a real life situation with you where somebody is over powering you, maybe they control you or they do things that you dont agree with, it doesnt nec. have to be violent, then again, it could just be one of those dreams that has nothing to do with you and it came out of nowhere, just a nightmare

[unclesirbobbyrobson]

Well dreams do relate to real life thoughts. They literally translate into the kinds of thoughts that are bugging you... Its just a matter of understanding the symbolic language they are written in.

Rapes often link to the kinds of wider uses we attach to them. We say we feel as if we are being raped. So look for situations where you feel the associated emotions ... powerlessness,humiliation, etc

Tyhe dream also uses images which relate to tiuredness. Often when we are tired we are not able to stand up to people who are imposeing themselves upon us... trying to humilate. What situations the day before or right now link to the emoitions of tiredness and humilation.




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[Gypsy55]

Hi
A couple of questions, were you assaulted as a child, or were you afraid of an older person at that age. Since your children are now getting older, is there anyone in their life that you don't feel comfortable leaving them with. This dream may be due to feelings of anxiety that your children are growing up and that you may not be able to protect them the same way as when they were younger. I would use this time to remind your children about strangers or feeling uncomfortable and what to do.

[Wolfjk]

Originally Posted by pleasehelp1433

This is my first time on the site- but I had a very graphic and disturbing dream last night that I am wondering why I had drempt it!! Please someone intrupret.

I was in a house - which was kinda in the middle of nowhere-ran down, little lighting, dark, and grungy looking. It was not at the age I am now (25) but more like a teen, I am not to sure the age I was in my dream, but I know alot younger. Anyways, the house was filled with kids, mostly all babies, from 2 weeks- about 5 yrs. It was night time, I felt scared and wanted to escape the house, but couldn't, there was no where to go. There was a man that lived there- older, with a dark brownish white hair and gotee, bad teeth- unkempt. He was sleeping- I tried to go up the stairs to get my kids- (I have two in real life same ages in my dream) ages 5 and 6 but when I went upstairs, the other babies started to wake up. (The all were sleeping on the floor, everywhere) The man started to wake up...This is when he got up, and was saying something to me- I couldn't understand what he was saying but he was mad and upset... it was gibberish.. It scared me. I froze in place, I didn't move. My kids were near me. He randomly choose a child- which was I remember in my dream a boy about 6 months and was going to rape him. I remember crying in my dream and wishing that I could stop him, but I couldn't. He raped the child in front of me and my two kids- I was screaming
to my kids "close your eyes..CLOSE YOUR EYES!!" and I tried to grab my kids so they wouldn't see what was happening, but it was too late and they saw what he did. I was crying histericaly and I remember thinking in my dream "why did you take their inocence? WHY.. WHY did you have to do that? They were inocent and pure, and now you have taken that away from them" (Not sure If I was refering to my kids or the other kids or the child that was raped in my dream) I woke up at that point. I woke up and was sick to my stomach.

Some one please tell me what this means!!!!!!!

Hi,
This was a very bad nightmare. However the dream was caused by what was happening to you in the sleep. Perhaps the last sentence in your post:

I woke up and was sick to my stomach.

Is relevant! It means that you were actually feeling sick in your sleep and the sick feeling was not caused be the dream. It was the cause of it!
My guess is that you eaten, drunk or taken something before sleep that made you feel sick.
Cheers Wolfjk

[pleasehelp1433]

Well dreams do relate to real life thoughts. They literally translate into the kinds of thoughts that are bugging you... Its just a matter of understanding the symbolic language they are written in.

Rapes often link to the kinds of wider uses we attach to them. We say we feel as if we are being raped. So look for situations where you feel the associated emotions ... powerlessness,humiliation, etc

Tyhe dream also uses images which relate to tiuredness. Often when we are tired we are not able to stand up to people who are imposeing themselves upon us... trying to humilate. What situations the day before or right now link to the emoitions of tiredness and humilation.
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In response to your first paragraph- I do not feel like anything at this time, nor when I went to sleep was bother me. I went to sleep very happy.

Maybe tiredness.. but not that tired.

Thank you so much for your feed back.

[pleasehelp1433]

Originally Posted by Wolfjk

Hi,
This was a very bad nightmare. However the dream was caused by what was happening to you in the sleep. Perhaps the last sentence in your post: Is relevant! It means that you were actually feeling sick in your sleep and the sick feeling was not caused be the dream. It was the cause of it!
My guess is that you eaten, drunk or taken something before sleep that made you feel sick.
Cheers Wolfjk

When I said sick to my stomach- I ment from the actual dream- like from being upset in my dream.

Thank you for your help

[Deep thought]

pleasehelp1483

I think it is particularly important why you appeared younger in the dream. On first glance I would agree with Gypsy55 and unclesirbobbyrobson in that it is likely a life situation where you feel powerless in someway, but as you have personally dismissed that I would then turn the direction towards why you were a teenager. Did anything of note happen to you as a teenager that either A) made you feel overly powerless, week or embarrassed
or
B) made you feel specifically like you were no longer an innocent being

If the answer is yes to either one of those it might be an idea to see a counselor to work through old issues you might have about that.

If seeing a counselor is not your thing then try meditation and introspection to attempt to confront these issues yourself.

I do feel that a larger part of it is what Gypsy55 was talking about though and it's how these issues bring up a desire to protect your own children. Good to know that your fatherly instincts are not the issue. You should want to protect them from strange men or women; things like pornography which is now largely what is found on Television (only mildly toned down) and large sections of the internet. Although I am not a father myself my heart goes out to you and your desire to protect their innocents from the dangers that the world presents. If I were you I would make sure you have friends and family around you that share the same desire, cause after all you can't watch them 24/7 but it would be comforting to know that those that are watching them have the same values as you.

Best wishes to you and your children in their life journey

-Dt