relationship trouble and a little bit of abuse?

[LauraDora]

In the dream me and this man were in love with each other but hated each other at the same time (if you know what i mean). (i think we had hot unpredicable sex but there was always something that stopped us being in a proper relationship). And we were sat by his pool near his mansion (i lived there because he had rescuded me from a shooting where they tried to kill me) and all of a sudden when he was talking about a past encounter with the person who had tried to kill me when he said "if only i hadnt .." and he just stopped. i knew he had done something very bad in the past and i couldnt trust him until he told me what he had done. i had prestered him for a day until he had to go somewhere to take care of something (they phoned for him while we were i the middle of a meal at a restaurant). Then i went to his mothers (who hates him) and told her who i was and that i needed to know what he had done in the past that made him so ashamed. She said that he had killed his best friend in a fit of rage and his sister who his friend had married was dead because her brother had taken her to his mansion and it had been attacked while she was in it! i was staring dumfounded out of the window when i saw headlights. a few minutes later he walked through the kitchen door and he saw that i knew!he grabbed my arm and pulled me out of the house, his mother was shouting stuff at him in spanish (i think). when we were out in the front yard i yanked my arm out of his arm and he turned round and said "get in the car" really angrily and i just said "not until you tell me how it happened!" he said to me again "Get in the F*ck*ng car!" this time there was more anger in his voice. i said "no". then he hit me and my lip had bust (only a small cut) it knocked me to the ground his mother ran to me. but i got up and hit him back and said "dont you f*ck*ng dare do that to me ever again!" and i walked off while his mother shouted more stuff at him in spanish. he just got into the car and went back to the mansion. later i was in this club and so was he all his heanchmen thought he was wrong to hit me but they said it was a way of kinda protecting me (whatever that means). i did this while in a tight long dress (i think it was gold), high heels and my hair in a half updo (i think by the time he had dragged me out it was nearly all out). i dont know anyone in the dream and i am a teenager but the man was in his 40's aleast! can anyone help me with this dream?

[unclesirbobbyrobson]

Well the dream perhaps plays through various relationships types. Think about hot sexual relationships. Think about the dream and how things fail in such a relationship. Its really a duiscussion inside your head. It maybe that in some ways you want something more exciting and hot.. yet you realise that a much steadier relationship is more likely to succeed

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Many dreams are about your current frame of mind. In some ways they are about your fantasies. We dream about how cool we will be in such and such a situation. In our dreams and fantasies we are Spiderman. Yet dreams are also realistic and will contain cryptic messages showing how we are becoming unrealistic in our thoughts. We allow ourselves to get carried away with how things will improve. In truth we are merely motivating ourselves. If we achieve half of what we want in our dreams then we are doing well. If you have been lying awake in bed and thinking about the day to come then that fantasy may appear in your dreams. The connection may not be obvious but it’s definitely there.

Generally an upbeat dream is likely to be about the future and how we are trying to get ourselves into the right frame of mind to tackle the problems and sitations in our lives.


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