ex girlfriend

[tank]

Hello all.

For the last two nights, I have dreamed of my ex girlfriend. We have been broken up for over 20 months. As of late we have not been talking. I have a hard time talking to her and being friends with her. She was the only one I have loved.

Ok, first dream involved her being at a party I was hosting in some strange house. After the party we were on the couch talking and kissing. Then she showed me her tattoo which was really surprising because she is not the type. After this I awoke freaked out about dreaming of her.

Second dream. Was very basic. She was over my new place and we were hanging out and watching tv.


I have had a few dreams about her in the past few months. I have had two of them dreams which involved being at a wedding reception. The first one appeared to be our wedding, but I am not 100% sure. The second wedding reception seamed like I was a guest, because I got a few large slices of cake as I was walking out of the hall.

I know I am throwing out a lot of info out. The bottom line, is that I do not like the way I feel after dreaming about her. I wish I knew a good way to get rid of these dreams and feelings.

[Leidee]

I am not going to go too much into the dreams because, Tank, as I suspect you know, to keep dreaming about an ex after this amount of time does indicate some unresolved feelings.

Briefly - the tattoo - this symbolism indicates your feeling that you don't know her as well as you used to and that you also don't know as much of what she does with her time as she used to. Dreaming about weddings is more likely some kind of wish fulfillment taking place in your sleeping mind.

What is more important in this situation is to free yourself from the emotional entanglement you still feel. In my experience, it is always best to have some time away from the other. No talking, no emails, no seeing each other. You need to have time without her in your head so that you can start to move on. You will never have the opportunity to love another fully if you keep having these feelings for your ex. There is no joy in living in the past...

[tank]

Originally Posted by Leidee

I am not going to go too much into the dreams because, Tank, as I suspect you know, to keep dreaming about an ex after this amount of time does indicate some unresolved feelings.

Briefly - the tattoo - this symbolism indicates your feeling that you don't know her as well as you used to and that you also don't know as much of what she does with her time as she used to. Dreaming about weddings is more likely some kind of wish fulfillment taking place in your sleeping mind.

What is more important in this situation is to free yourself from the emotional entanglement you still feel. In my experience, it is always best to have some time away from the other. No talking, no emails, no seeing each other. You need to have time without her in your head so that you can start to move on. You will never have the opportunity to love another fully if you keep having these feelings for your ex. There is no joy in living in the past...

Thanks Leidee. I have been avoiding her for the last two months. We have not talked. The feeling are still there. Living in the past something I never used to before. Getting her out of my head is going to be the hard part. I have been trying to get that done for the last few months....

[tank]

ok, three nights in a row now!! Seriously... this needs to stop...



So this time, I was pulling into a gas station when my car lost control and kept on sliding without any collision. After I pulled in into the stall, I immediately noticed I was riding a bicycle towards a car parked in one of the gas station stalls. I noticed her stepping out and ignoring me. I called her name twice without any response. After this, I pulled away from her and shouted two very bad words at her. After that, I pulled my bicycle to the one of the gas pumps and started to fill up a gas tank which was attached..... No idea what this means....

[Jennings]

What it all means is that you are in grief at the loss (figuratively speaking, death) of a loved one, even after 20 plus months! You will eventually surmount this stage but it also indicates that you possibly do not have another partner currently in your life and hence why she is populating your dreams; another female in your life should chase her away.

[Leidee]

Tank - the dreams will stop. Try not to worry over it so much.

If as you say you have really only broken contact in the last two months, then it is fair and reasonable that your ex is on your mind. Think of it as a habit that you are learning to break. It is one day (or night!) at a time. But, rest assured, it will happen for you.

Blessings
L