Cold hand

[ENYGMA]

My father in law is a very clever man and is well known for his intelligence and insight into things. He is now an old man and apart from a few scares about his health, he still seems to have his wits about him but is becoming increasingly sensitive.

He phoned my husband this morning in a flat panic as he had been having a sleep and dreamt my husband woke him by stroking his forehead and he said my husbands hand was ICE COLD........he phoned my husband (who is not in good health at the moment but my father in law doesn't know this) to ask if he was alright cos this dream had upset him so.

Any views? Varzandeh can you help?

[Jennings]

It would appear that your father-in-law has been picking up his son's state of health buy beyond this I do not think it is a predictive dream. Those people who are emotionally close (and you will be aware of this) frequently tune-in to the other person's situation, and especially with regard to health.

[Varzandeh]

Hi Enigma,
It is nice to hear from you again.I tried to e-mail you and your cousin several times but your emails both or expired.I'm worried if something has happened for your family or your cousins family.I wish not, and I wish everybody is healthy and successful.
Your father in law was asleep means : 1-He is in rest 2- He isn't aware of something also if he has debts will pay or if is ill will cure.Your husbands hand means his work or his brother or sister, if very cold means some annoyance for them.
Please let me know your health and please let me know an e-mail.
Good luck.

[ENYGMA]

Hi Varzandeh

Thank you for replying....your interpretation makes absolute sense regarding his family situation (brother is an alchoholic living off the old man who should be in an old age home but is worried about this brother who he constantly supports and who constantly lets him down and drinks up the support instead of turning it into something positive.....). I will email you to let you know where and what I am about.

Many thanks

Enygma!

[unclesirbobbyrobson]

well you may well be worried about this dream being a premonition of your husbands death. It m,aybe that the dream was telepathic. He picked up the illhealth and the dream reflects the present situation. That maybe as far as the dream goes.

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[ENYGMA]

Hi Jennings

You too made a lot of sense, my husband visited with my father in law at the weekend and things did not go well as my father in law proceeded to tell my husband how to change a tyre on a car ( as a father would tell a little boy)where apon my husband snapped and told my father in law in no uncertain terms that he is 49 years old now and does NOT need to be told how to change a tyre.......my father in law was very upset so my husband says but I actually think my father in law (being a doctor) realised my husbands health is not so hot for him to be so disrespective which he never has been .

Tks...it too makes sense

[Jennings]

I too have been chastised by my adult children when attempting to help them; it is actually a healthy sign for both parties as it reflects good nuturing but we forget that each of us needs to learn from our contemporaries and through our own mistakes. It can be difficult as a parent to rescind this status.