Ex-Girlfriend Dream, HELP

[dimension]

Hi,

My ex-girlfriend and I had a wonderful, WONDERFUL relationship. We met several years ago and were best friends and eventually started dating eight months ago. She also has a little boy who meant the world to me. Everything about us was perfect until two months ago, her mother moved back home to be closer to the family and she did NOT like me at all. She started telling lies about me and didnt want us to be together at all. Well, that worked. We had a VERY bad breakup because of her mother and we no longer talk.
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NOW...here is my dream:

I dreamed that I was living back in my home town (many mile away from my ex) and was shopping in town when I ran into my ex's mother...and all she said was that "You are going to miss it, after court she is going to be getting married". And that was it, I woke up.

Now, my ex is NOT getting married nor is she dating anyone. What does this mean?

[Jennings]

Two is company, three is a crowd and that's the problem. It would appear that your Ex loved her mother as much as she loved you; it also appears that her mother continues to bear considerable influence in her life so if the relationship continued it would most likely have been problematic owing to her mother's influence and/or intervention. Your dream simply confirms your knowledge and disappointment of this problematic paradox and your sadness of the parting.

[Mystery_Woman]

usually dreaming of marriage symbolises death- not physcially- but it could be a warning that her mother is ensuring the death of your relationship- missing her wedding- means you will not understand the reasons for parting, as she still wants to be with you- but loves her mother perhaps more than you, so will give up her love for you for her mother's approval- also her mother feels threatened by you so she has taken away her daughter from you in fear of losing her to you...

[dimension]

Thank you both very much!

[unclesirbobbyrobson]

COURT : how your exs mother will be judged in the long term

It’s always best to see dreams as using symbols in a wider sense. In courts we are judged for our actions which are bad (so your mother in law you feel will be judged for her negative actions in the long term)

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What exactly is a dream? A dream often captures some new thought or feeling or fantasy. Often deeply embedded in it is some idea or thought. Try to bear that in mind when understanding a dream. A dream will symbolise some conceptual thought such as "I think my grandmother is still angry with me after what I said" . Many dreams revolve us making such judgements based upon our intuitions.

How exactly do you go about understanding the meaning of a dream symbol? Well first you start to make associations with that symbol. Take for instance if you had a dream about Tony Blair the Prime Minister of the UK. You can associate many things with him. First of all he is a decision maker. The dream then could capture you wanting to take some serious decision within your own life. But equally Tony Blair is a man who began his political life a hero who was universally popular. Now he is disliked by almost everyone in the country. Maybe the dream captures some similar situation for yourself eg "When I first started my job everyone liked me. I could do nothing wrong. But recently I have become universally unpopular". But we could also see Tony Blair in another sense. He is the ally of President Bush and is often accused of doing everything he says and because of this has been accused of being a poodle. So maybe the dream captures some theme with a similar "yes man" theme. But Tony Blair could also have different meanings. He has virtually said that he will resign in the spring and there was much speculation about this and about how he should go about resigning. Maybe the dream captures a similar theme in your own life eg "I am thinking of leaving my job. But if I tell my boss it may cause trouble for me. I might just leave it as long as possible".

Therefor its possible to list many different symbolic meanings. Any one of these could be correct. The first association that comes to mind is not always the correct one. Its a matter of trying out different theories and then seeing if they fit the situation or feelings within your life. If one seems to work then try working in the other dream symbols.

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[dimension]

Ok, here is the latest dream that I had.

Last Night, I dreamed that my parents and I were walking on the beach at night just relaxing, then all of a sudden, we were in my ex's grandmothers house (where my ex lives) and I was talking to her grandmother in the kitchen and her grandmother was giving me something in a bag (dont know if it was mine or what) and she wispered to me to "Never give up on love, if you want it, you fight for it...dont let her go, ect". Then I walked out of the kitchen and went to the stairs to get my jacket and my ex was at the top of the stairs and we wouldnt look at each other. Then I woke up.

She is in my dreams in some way EVERY NIGHT. Just not in detail like the above dream. We were going to get married...and it have been over three months since we parted and since we spoke...I dream about her everynight...I feel like I am going crazy! I have tried to not think about her, been trying to hang out with other people, but she is with me all the time.

What does the above dream mean and how do I get past this or do I?