Husband had dream of infedelity

[Sweet Pea Jones]

My Husband woke me up and was very angry . I woke up very confused and told him what happened. He then proceeded to tell me that he had a dream and we were in this huge house and I was decorating a 12 foot tall tree for christmas . The house was ours and very beautiful . He then said that I began to tell him that I had cheated on him when he was out of town and that I was now 1 to 2 weeks pregnant . The person I cheated on him with was an old friend of his and that I was going to leave him and start dating this other guy .

He also said that the children were in the room and he kept telling them to leave and that they were scared . He said he had never been so angry and wanted to hurt me but that because the children were there he really couldn't .

I'm laying in bed with him while he is telling me this dream and I'm a little freaked out . I told him honey we have been married for over 7 years and together 8 . Not once have I ever strayed and for that matter neither has he .

We are going through a very stressful time in our financial life and his father and stepmother are causing problems . It just is a extremely stressful time .We are holding together strong but what does infedelity mean with pregnancy in a dream when thr spouse has never cheated ?

Extremely concerened ,Please help

[Wolfjk]

Originally Posted by Sweet Pea Jones

My Husband woke me up and was very angry . I woke up very confused and told him what happened. He then proceeded to tell me that he had a dream and we were in this huge house and I was decorating a 12 foot tall tree for christmas . The house was ours and very beautiful . He then said that I began to tell him that I had cheated on him when he was out of town and that I was now 1 to 2 weeks pregnant . The person I cheated on him with was an old friend of his and that I was going to leave him and start dating this other guy .

He also said that the children were in the room and he kept telling them to leave and that they were scared . He said he had never been so angry and wanted to hurt me but that because the children were there he really couldn't .

I'm laying in bed with him while he is telling me this dream and I'm a little freaked out . I told him honey we have been married for over 7 years and together 8 . Not once have I ever strayed and for that matter neither has he .

We are going through a very stressful time in our financial life and his father and stepmother are causing problems . It just is a extremely stressful time .We are holding together strong but what does infedelity mean with pregnancy in a dream when thr spouse has never cheated ?

Extremely concerened ,Please help

Hi,
Unfortunately stressful situations impact on ones dreams. Perhaps your husband is more stressed than you and blames himself for your financial worries. Jellousy is always a very big factor in dreams when the relationship is under strain.
Have a good friendly discussion with your husband about the dream, and about your feelings towards him reassure him.
Sometimes the subconscious uses shock and owe to wake the sleeper that has no relevance to the real life situation. Discount any meaning to his dreams as dreams are always about wht is happening in the sleep. Perhaps it was just one disturbing thought that entered his subconscious stream of thought that caused the dream and his anger.
Cheers Wolfjk

[Varzandeh]

Hi,
If a man dreamt his wife went for sex to another known man , it simply means that other man will do a man a favor or a simple help.Pregnancy means money as big as the belly was , and two weeks pregnancy means the core of a financial matter is closing.
For more info please see the words "Sex" and Marriage" and Woman" here in the Dream Dictionary Advanced , using search.

Dream language interpretation is an ancient science of allusions and pointing of the surrounded environment, as Mr. Einstein has said the events are like train stations which exist and we are moving towards them, these are prewritten destiny with some authority ( in decision making seconds) in very full details. This dream language should be translated, and interesting to know it is international and common for all human beings. But ignorance causes some misunderstanings.People were not aware of this language and always thought in a bad way , for example Mr. Freud said about sexual dreams it is because you have suppressed your sexual desires so misled everybody and some women dreamt about having sex with co-workers or another and thought they should do that, while it only meant he will do something for her, or some others dreamt had sex with the same sex and invented homosexual, while it meant the same ,Also some men dreamt his wife had sex with a man and didn't understand or a woman dreamt her partner had sex with a woman and didn't' understand ...etc.Do you see what catastrophes are caused by misunderstanding a language. About the approximate interpretation time table: Dreams at noon or exactly at midnight( In the summer time 13 at noon and 1 midnight else at 12)in the same day if past a few minutes, a few days later. Dreams at 10-11 in the morning in 15-30 days later. Also dreams at 3-4 in the evening in 1-2 months .Dreams in the sunset mostly are not truthful and are messed, they have no interpretations, Dreams at 4-5 in the morning in a few days to 2 months some dreams in the holy books( Josef dream of kneeling the sun and the moon and 11 stars)was interpreted after 20 years and other dreams of the Pharaoh's prisoners interpreted in the same day and after 7 years. Dream of Pharaoh about the 7 thin cows and 7 fat cows interpreted from the next year to 14 years. Also dreams in 6th of the month will interpret after 1-2 days, in 9th at the same day, in 10th after 20 days, in 13th after 9 days in 14th after 26 days and in 15th after 3 days, in 16th after 2 days and in 28th ,29th ,30th in the same day, but these are solar (Persian months and you should refer to a calendar or convert them) . Of course there are different kinds of dreams , like messy dreams which have no interpretations or deja vu dreams, or psychological dreams or dreams which are caused by bad food or drinks.

Bibliography:
1- Principles of the dreams, by Daniel the prophet (562-604 B.C) Peace be on him.
2-Divisions of the dreams, by Imam Sadeq peace be on him ( 663-798 A.C).
3- Generals of the dreams, by Mohammad ibn Syrin ( 690 A.C).




I want to tell you a reason to know that 5 senses can't understand anything except by the soul,
Have you dreamt you were eating and drinking and had pleasure of that. He said yes. I said: have you dreamt laughing and crying, and strolling in the cities that haven't seen yet but you know the specialties. He said: yes dreamt very much. I said: Have you ever dreamt about your dead brother or father and know them like they are alive.
He said: yes too many times. I said: tell me which sense has received such things to see the dead and talking to them or crying and laughing. He said: I can’t say which one. Because the body is slept like a dead. I said: tell me when you wake up don’t you remember and report to the friends exactly, He said; yes and sometimes I see that before night in real life. I said; which sense keeps it to remember the dream after waking. He said; there is no way for sense. I said then you should know because senses are vein here that is the soul that God has put wisdom in it and it is a reason. He said; what I dream is like mirage one thinks it is water but when arrive at there is nothing. I said; how do you say it is like mirage and you ate sweets and pickles and were happy and sad he said; because what I dream when I arrive at it is nothing. I said: have you ever had sex in the dream and your hearts beat, have you ever had wet dream about a woman or man. You know him or don’t know He said many times said had you orgasm and when you woke up you were wet then this is not mirage.
He said: dreaming orgasm is just like the real life .I said this is my reason that soul. Knows everything although senses are dead and can’t see or hear of course you shouldn’t deny that soul in addition of the senses knowledge recognition in the waking life and after vanishing the senses has sex with them then it recognizes the things after going senses and now you understand that the itself is guiding the senses and is their governor and none of the senses can’t do anything without soul; if the soul goes ahead body wasn’t get back and if soul gets back the body won’t go ahead with the soul the happiness comes and with it the ache is received if a sense is damaged the soul is remained but if the soul is damaged senses can work properly

[unclesirbobbyrobson]

Well dreams often put together a rather ridiculous story that nevertheless captures some emotions that we are feeling right now. Your relationship is under stress so the story reflects this stress. That the source of the infidedility ois close to home(a friend) so that he fills stressed and that he is doubting all the things that made him feel secure.

Dreams are not showing the reality as in the facxts - they instead show the reality of OUR EMOTIONS. Those are oftejn crazy and mixed up so try not to take them too seriously.

But it also shows that he needs to feel more secure so its probably best that he woke you up and it gives you a chance to talk things through
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Often one symbol in a dream will seemingly have no relationship to any other. Totally bizarre things happen and there seems to be no sense to the dreams meaning. Thats because some symbols have a very cryptic meaning. A parachute may simply express the need to escape from a very difficult relationship. The need to land safely is a direct comparison to the need to land safely in an emotional sense. Yet within the context of the dream it makes no sense. It seems confusing and funny when we describe a moment when our granny gets hit by a parachutist. But dreams are like that. One portion of the dream makes no real sense within the story of the dream. Yet its meaning is there. The trick is to weave together various symbols. So see how that parachutist links within your own real life thoughts. So if you woke up that morning and felt "Yesterday I started to realise that I need to get out of my relationship with my boyfriend. He is being totally abusive. Right now I just need to escape with as little fuss as possible". Its likely that this dream about a parachutist is directly linked to those real life thoughts. Then start to piece together a wider meaning to the dream. Look at the possible symbolic meanings to the other symbols and try to see what the dream is saying overall.

These pages are especially helpful in showing you how to interpret dreams

Dream symbolism and dream dictionary interpretation - How to interpret dreams Interpreting dreams
Dream symbolism - How to use dream symbols Triggers for dreams
Dream dictionary - A modern and well researched dream dictionary Dream dictionary

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