The Most Informal Wedding Ever...

[crys1908]

I had a dream last night that a male friend of mine was getting married. The only attendees were me, my Mom and another friend. The bride was wearing a beautiful dress but she was frantic because the groom (my friend) was late. After quite of bit of time had elapsed, he arrived at the wedding wearing blue jeans, strolling casually and he even answered his phone during the ceremony... After the ceremony started, he looked over to the attendees with desperation hoping that one of us would save him. When neither of us said anything, he went through by answering "I don't have a choice" instead of saying "I do."

I've looked all over the Web and most of the dream sites talk about your wedding. I was just in the audience so what does this mean (for either of us)?

[allyrarnold]

I'm not sure if this is someone that used to date but this dream signifies a real connection with this person, maybe a co-dependency even. This is evident in the fact that you were 1 of 3 guests and that he looked to you to save him from making what he thought was a mistake to get married. If this is someone you're dating, maybe time is running out in the relationship and if it's not, maybe it's time to explore the possibility of dating. Although your dream is about his wedding being a disaster, it's more rooted in the belief that you are the right person for him. Basically saying you're the wedding is a disaster because I'm not in it. The fact that your mom and friend are present also supports this. I think him looking to you guys to save him might mean that he's open to you. I would love to know more about the relationship.

[allyrarnold]

Originally Posted by crys1908

and he even answered his phone during the ceremony...

I just reread your post. I"m willing to bet the farm that your primary communication with him is via telephone.

[crys1908]

Co-dependency might be a little off. :-) We've never dated. He's been a friend of mine for about 5 years or so and yes, most of interactions have been over the phone.

[allyarnold]

Originally Posted by crys1908

Co-dependency might be a little off. :-) We've never dated. He's been a friend of mine for about 5 years or so and yes, most of interactions have been over the phone.

So maybe not dependency , however, there is an emotional connection there that maybe you don't realize. Even though you say you guys haven't dated, the disastrous wedding is a fear that things will change or that person won't be there for you in a way that they once were. Are either if you going through major changes in your personal life?

[crys1908]

I'm always going through some kind of personal change or another. Anyway, thanks for the information.