First Dream Ever About a "Dream Guy"

[CasperStorms]

Hello Everyone

Before I go into my dream I should go into some backstory. First off I am 21 and a little over a year ago I broke up with my BF of four years. He changed into a person I didn't like after he started hanging with a new crowd of people (who didn't care for me) and allowed his hateful best friend back into his life. For the first time in the four years we've known each other, we stopped talking and were not friends. He eventually got with another girl, but last I heard they weren't together anymore. As for me I have yet to be in another serious relationship since. I was talking to this guy but he ended up being a jerk. Apart of me is still in love with my ex and I wish we could fix the issues that tore us apart. But now I am at a point where I know I need to move on because we may never get that chance and I want to find a good guy. So last night before I had the dream I started feeling scared. Going through that entire process of getting to know someone and opening up again is scary for me. My ex had known so much that I hadn't even told my closest friends. So to imagine through going this all over again and not finding someone who could understand me bothered me.

So anyway, last night I dreamt that I am going to the mall with some close friends. All of a sudden this guy approaches me and we make an instant connection. He tells me he wants to walk around the mall with me. We go to get something to eat, but the food is horrible. So we finally decide to go to a restaurant with my mom and friends to eat hot dogs. Very soon after, I'm in the car with him and my mom is driving him home. We start to hold hands and look each other in the eyes. I can't say that we were in love, but we were definitely "in like." So all of a sudden my nephew (whose also my age) says "you both are adorable." Which was weird because my nephew would never say something like that lol. My ex used to say I was adorable a lot, but I don't know if that is a connection or not.

Anyway, we finally get to his house and all I can think about is kissing him. He grabs my hand and tells me he wants me to meet his dad. As were walking I said "meeting the parents already?" and he says "yes...I am proud of you." So we walk to this apartment building that is only about three stories and he calls for his dad. The man opens the window and the guy introduces us. The weird thing is that he called his dad "Duncan Hunter." I know that Duncan Hunter is running for the republican presidential nomination and the father looked NOTHING like him. That was strange because I'm not a republican, but I was watching something about the candidates the night before.

After that, the guy tells me he wants to call me tonight, so he runs into his house to get a piece of paper. As I look down the street I see this group of girls (could have been some guys as well) coming up and for some reason I didn't trust them at all. It wasn't a very good neighborhood and it was dark. So I walked to my mom's car until he came back and I grab my journal from the back seat. He finally comes back and as I am walking back to the building I started writing my name and phone number down. I soon approach him and the group were coming closer. I started feeling uncomfortable for some reason and tried to write fast. Now that I think about it, I felt like this group was going to mess it up for me and tear us apart because I was different from them and the people that lived in the area. At the same time I couldn't wait to kiss him goodnight and find out his name.

But then the dream ended after my mom started calling me! I woke up feeling so happy and excited about this unknown guy, but was also upset that I didn't find out his name or kiss him. I told my mom I had a great dream and she is made a joke saying...."where you kissing you know who?" She was referring to my ex BF and then all of a sudden my thoughts wondered back to my ex. To get to the my question....I am wondering if this dream guy is someone I may meet in the future; someone that will make me fall in love again and help me deal with my fears. Or is there a deeper meaning that I am not catching. Thanks in advance to anyone that can help and it's greatly appreciated.

[genialuv]

I think what is going on is that you are remembering all the good things that you and your ex shared. And the group that was trying to tear you guys apart was the group that your ex became friends with before you guys split up. But your mom being in the dream I'm not sure what that signifies.
Happy Dreaming
-genia