I dont understand and need help

[DebbieD1026]

Hello everyone!!
ever since i was old enought to remember dreaming and telling people about them the next morning, i have been told by many that there is something different about me..
the oldest dream that i can remember having was one when i was 10 years old, my grandmother was in the nursing home, she was in there because she had recently had surgery and couldnt take care of herself at home. no one expected her to die. I woke up and went to my parents room and at first my mom thought i was sick and asked me if i was ok. i told her that grandma had just died, she said honey grandma's fine go back to bed, well i threw a fit and didnt give up until she called the nursing home. they said that they were just about to call her and give her the news that her mother had just passed away.
thru out my life i have had dreams of bad and good things not always death's but like when i had my son in 1981, i dreamed that he was going to have to be born by c-section and i dreamed he was a boy and what he weighed. eveything in my dream later proved to be true. he even looked like the baby in my dream.
the next 2 dreams in which i will share are the most startling to me.
this past summer 2007, i dreamed my cat got killed, 2 days later i found him dead, i remember going to my son's house later that day to talk to his girlfriend about finding my beloved thomas dead. she asked me if i ever dream about her or my son Scott to please let them know. good or bad they wanted to know..
2 days before Thanksgiving i had a dream my son got killed on the interstate.
with him being my only child, i felt the need to inform him of this, but my husband said not to because regardless they would have went to her parents house that day. even though i knew they wanted to know my dreams good or bad i listened to my husband and didnt want to spoil there day by revealing something that may not have even came true.
Thanksgiving morning they left there house at 7am to go to 60 miles away to spend some time with her parents and were planning on leaving early to come back to our home to spend the rest of the holiday with us.
their car broke down on the interstate, they walked to the nearest gas station and called her mom to come pick them up, they went to her parents house and at 8:30 that night headed back with the car hauler to bring there car back to Indy, while they were loading that stranded car up on the hauler a 18 year old that had fallen asleep at the wheel, hit the back of the car that had her mother beside it, her mother was airlifted to Methodist hospital where she was pronounced dead.
although it wasnt my son that got killed that night, i feel like my dream still came true because if he had been warned then maybe he wouldnt even have headed towards brazil,indiana. if his car hadnt been broke down on the interstate then her mother wouldnt have gotten hit.
Yesterday while i was at there house, my son and his g/f were trying to tell me everything and my son looked towards the ceiling and begged god saying why didnt you send us a sign, knowing i had there sign and didnt warn them i feel so bad. i broke down and told them everything, they didnt hold anything against me but I did let them know from here on out regardless rather its good or bad rather it comes true or not, everyone is going to be told of my dreams.
my dad as always referred to a brother branham i think thats how its spelled he was a prophet that died in a car accident the same year i was born 1962.
my dad has always told me that he thinks that brother branham is living thru me. i dont know about life after death and i dont understand dreams. what i do know is im scared to go to sleep. i dont want to dream anymore good or bad i just want to sleep and not dream. not every night i even have dreams but im just scared to sleep and have been on meds for the past 20 years due to bi polar. the drs. know i hear voices and see things that others cant but am i seeing these things and hearing these voices because im different and they are really there? i guess what im trying to ask is am i physic? are these voices and sounds really there but the drs. are just labeling me "nuts"
because they dont understand as well?

[Varzandeh]

Hi,
Direct saying dreams are rare and dreamsusually are said in a symbolic indirect sayings.Your case is somewhat prophetic.This is granted to rare people.


Here is some more info:
I want to tell you a reason to know that 5 senses can't understand anything except by the soul,
Have you dreamt you were eating and drinking and had pleasure of that. He said yes. I said: have you dreamt laughing and crying, and strolling in the cities that haven't seen yet but you know the specialties. He said: yes dreamt very much. I said: Have you ever dreamt about your dead brother or father and know them like they are alive.
He said: yes too many times. I said: tell me which sense has received such things to see the dead and talking to them or crying and laughing. He said: I can’t say which one. Because the body is slept like a dead. I said: tell me when you wake up don’t you remember and report to the friends exactly, He said; yes and sometimes I see that before night in real life. I said; which sense keeps it to remember the dream after waking. He said; there is no way for sense. I said then you should know because senses are vein here that is the soul that God has put wisdom in it and it is a reason. He said; what I dream is like mirage one thinks it is water but when arrive at there is nothing. I said; how do you say it is like mirage and you ate sweets and pickles and were happy and sad he said; because what I dream when I arrive at it is nothing. I said: have you ever had sex in the dream and your hearts beat, have you ever had wet dream about a woman or man. You know him or don’t know He said many times said had you orgasm and when you woke up you were wet then this is not mirage.
He said: dreaming orgasm is just like the real life .I said this is my reason that soul. Knows everything although senses are dead and can’t see or hear of course you shouldn’t deny that soul in addition of the senses knowledge recognition in the waking life and after vanishing the senses has sex with them then it recognizes the things after going senses and now you understand that the itself is guiding the senses and is their governor and none of the senses can’t do anything without soul; if the soul goes ahead body wasn’t get back and if soul gets back the body won’t go ahead with the soul the happiness comes and with it the ache is received if a sense is damaged the soul is remained but if the soul is damaged senses can work properly.



Dream language interpretation is an ancient science of allusions and pointing of the surrounded environment, as Mr. Einstein has said the events are like train stations which exist and we are moving towards them, these are prewritten destiny with some authority ( in decision making seconds) in very full details. This dream language should be translated, and interesting to know it is international and common for all human beings. But ignorance causes some misunderstanings.People were not aware of this language and always thought in a bad way , for example Mr. Freud said about sexual dreams it is because you have suppressed your sexual desires so misled everybody and some women dreamt about having sex with co-workers or another and thought they should do that, while it only meant he will do something for her, or some others dreamt had sex with the same sex and invented homosexual, while it meant the same ,Also some men dreamt his wife had sex with a man and didn't understand or a woman dreamt her partner had sex with a woman and didn't' understand ...etc.Do you see what catastrophes are caused by misunderstanding a language. About the approximate interpretation time table: Dreams at noon or exactly at midnight( In the summer time 13 at noon and 1 midnight else at 12)in the same day if past a few minutes, a few days later. Dreams at 10-11 in the morning in 15-30 days later. Also dreams at 3-4 in the evening in 1-2 months .Dreams in the sunset mostly are not truthful and are messed, they have no interpretations, Dreams at 4-5 in the morning in a few days to 2 months some dreams in the holy books( Josef dream of kneeling the sun and the moon and 11 stars)was interpreted after 20 years and other dreams of the Pharaoh's prisoners interpreted in the same day and after 7 years. Dream of Pharaoh about the 7 thin cows and 7 fat cows interpreted from the next year to 14 years. Also dreams in 6th of the month will interpret after 1-2 days, in 9th at the same day, in 10th after 20 days, in 13th after 9 days in 14th after 26 days and in 15th after 3 days, in 16th after 2 days and in 28th ,29th ,30th in the same day, but these are solar (Persian months and you should refer to a calendar or convert them) . Of course there are different kinds of dreams , like messy dreams which have no interpretations or deja vu dreams, or psychological dreams or dreams which are caused by bad food or drinks.

Bibliography:
1- Principles of the dreams, by Daniel the prophet (562-604 B.C) Peace be on him.
2-Divisions of the dreams, by Imam Sadeq peace be on him ( 663-798 A.C).
3- Generals of the dreams, by Mohammad ibn Syrin ( 690 A.C).
4- Guides in the dreams , by Jaber ibn Hay'an( Father of the new chemistry)
5- Interpretations, by Ibn Ash'as ( 840 A.C).

[DebbieD1026]

Originally Posted by Varzandeh

Hi,
Direct saying dreams are rare and dreamsusually are said in a symbolic indirect sayings.Your case is somewhat prophetic.This is granted to rare people.


Here is some more info:
I want to tell you a reason to know that 5 senses can't understand anything except by the soul,
Have you dreamt you were eating and drinking and had pleasure of that. He said yes. I said: have you dreamt laughing and crying, and strolling in the cities that haven't seen yet but you know the specialties. He said: yes dreamt very much. I said: Have you ever dreamt about your dead brother or father and know them like they are alive.
He said: yes too many times. I said: tell me which sense has received such things to see the dead and talking to them or crying and laughing. He said: I can’t say which one. Because the body is slept like a dead. I said: tell me when you wake up don’t you remember and report to the friends exactly, He said; yes and sometimes I see that before night in real life. I said; which sense keeps it to remember the dream after waking. He said; there is no way for sense. I said then you should know because senses are vein here that is the soul that God has put wisdom in it and it is a reason. He said; what I dream is like mirage one thinks it is water but when arrive at there is nothing. I said; how do you say it is like mirage and you ate sweets and pickles and were happy and sad he said; because what I dream when I arrive at it is nothing. I said: have you ever had sex in the dream and your hearts beat, have you ever had wet dream about a woman or man. You know him or don’t know He said many times said had you orgasm and when you woke up you were wet then this is not mirage.
He said: dreaming orgasm is just like the real life .I said this is my reason that soul. Knows everything although senses are dead and can’t see or hear of course you shouldn’t deny that soul in addition of the senses knowledge recognition in the waking life and after vanishing the senses has sex with them then it recognizes the things after going senses and now you understand that the itself is guiding the senses and is their governor and none of the senses can’t do anything without soul; if the soul goes ahead body wasn’t get back and if soul gets back the body won’t go ahead with the soul the happiness comes and with it the ache is received if a sense is damaged the soul is remained but if the soul is damaged senses can work properly.



Dream language interpretation is an ancient science of allusions and pointing of the surrounded environment, as Mr. Einstein has said the events are like train stations which exist and we are moving towards them, these are prewritten destiny with some authority ( in decision making seconds) in very full details. This dream language should be translated, and interesting to know it is international and common for all human beings. But ignorance causes some misunderstanings.People were not aware of this language and always thought in a bad way , for example Mr. Freud said about sexual dreams it is because you have suppressed your sexual desires so misled everybody and some women dreamt about having sex with co-workers or another and thought they should do that, while it only meant he will do something for her, or some others dreamt had sex with the same sex and invented homosexual, while it meant the same ,Also some men dreamt his wife had sex with a man and didn't understand or a woman dreamt her partner had sex with a woman and didn't' understand ...etc.Do you see what catastrophes are caused by misunderstanding a language. About the approximate interpretation time table: Dreams at noon or exactly at midnight( In the summer time 13 at noon and 1 midnight else at 12)in the same day if past a few minutes, a few days later. Dreams at 10-11 in the morning in 15-30 days later. Also dreams at 3-4 in the evening in 1-2 months .Dreams in the sunset mostly are not truthful and are messed, they have no interpretations, Dreams at 4-5 in the morning in a few days to 2 months some dreams in the holy books( Josef dream of kneeling the sun and the moon and 11 stars)was interpreted after 20 years and other dreams of the Pharaoh's prisoners interpreted in the same day and after 7 years. Dream of Pharaoh about the 7 thin cows and 7 fat cows interpreted from the next year to 14 years. Also dreams in 6th of the month will interpret after 1-2 days, in 9th at the same day, in 10th after 20 days, in 13th after 9 days in 14th after 26 days and in 15th after 3 days, in 16th after 2 days and in 28th ,29th ,30th in the same day, but these are solar (Persian months and you should refer to a calendar or convert them) . Of course there are different kinds of dreams , like messy dreams which have no interpretations or deja vu dreams, or psychological dreams or dreams which are caused by bad food or drinks.

Bibliography:
1- Principles of the dreams, by Daniel the prophet (562-604 B.C) Peace be on him.
2-Divisions of the dreams, by Imam Sadeq peace be on him ( 663-798 A.C).
3- Generals of the dreams, by Mohammad ibn Syrin ( 690 A.C).
4- Guides in the dreams , by Jaber ibn Hay'an( Father of the new chemistry)
5- Interpretations, by Ibn Ash'as ( 840 A.C).

I still dont understand please break it down to me.. its now 1:17 am i thought at 11 it was sunday morning when it was actually saturday night.. im not thinking anymore of me. i went and laid down and thought i slept for 8 or 9 hrs. but i guess it was just a few minutes or maybe an hr, i dont know. i just cant get back into the groove of things because im scared of going to sleep and dreaming knowing whatever i dream will come true!!
im on aol under the screen name of donniedodson7511 if anyone see's me online at any time please feel free to instant message me. i cant stay awake much longer, i cant help but go to sleep. i just wish whatever was making me do this would go away, i dont never want to dream again never again!!
right now as i write this out im hurting so bad knowing i could have warned my son and his g/f and maybe they wouldnt have went to brazil, if there car hadnt broke down then her mom would still be alive! but i chose to not tell them so im paying the price.. while they sit and blame thereselves for going i blame myself for not saying anything, but i have asked everyone this question. if you were told of a dream would that stop you from taking a trip on a holiday to visit your mom? they all have said no they would have visited her regardless of whatever was said or done, but if they knew that it was coming from someone who's every dream has came true would they still go, they said no! that hurts me so bad knowing i helped cause this woman's death.. im know different then the person drivng that truck that fell asleep and plowed into her.
the only thing i can say right now is i hope when i lay down finally that i sleep in a non dreaming sleep, im just so tired and thoughts are running thru my head that shouldnt be and im trying to be strong and not think about them. when i get up in the morning the first thing i do is sign online and it stays on all day so if anyone wants to talk to me please Instant message me.. i just pray to god i dont dream tonight!!

[DebbieD1026]

i just woke up, i had a hard time trying to get to sleep for seeing my friend and her mother, and that dreadful day that will come soon. but there were no dreams. someone heard my prayers thank you god!!
i know this is a dream interpretation but can i go into what happens while im awake.
everyone in my family and my husband's knows i hate going to a wake or funerals, in my own words i say im scared to go. everyone says the same thing to me, Debbie the dead cant hurt you. althought there right about them not physically hurting me, mentally its tearing me up!
like i said in the above posts i see people, and also hear voices. most of these people i see while im still awake have already passed away. my grandpa that died when i was 2 years old, i have never seen a pic of him because he was one that just simply hated his picture took and avoided it all together. but i can describe him to a T and even tell you what clothes he had on, my parents didnt take me to his wake or funeral but the clothes that he wears are the ones he was laid to rest in.
he so far hasnt caused me any pain, but there have been others that have.
my best friends dad died when she was very 12. i didnt know her or him while he was alive. we didnt meet until she was 31, i didnt know all that happened and one day she asked me if i would go to the cemetary with her to place flowers on his grave. i said yes. we went and i asked her later on the way back to tell me about her dad, she decribed him to me and also told me he committed suicide by a gun to the head. she just wanted to know if maybe god had forgiven him for taking his life. she knew that i seen people dead or alive and asked me to close my eyes and tell her what i could see. I told her i didnt have to close my eyes he was right there beside her. although what i saw i knew she didnt want to hear so i didnt describe to her the graphics just kinda overlooked that area and gave her a description of the man next to her, she looked at me and asked what was he wearing? i described that to.
she said that from what i have just told her is correct. from that time on i see this man, but i see him as a man with a gunshot to head and in pain, very sad eyes, almost as if hes to say if you have anything to help me cross over do what you got to to get me to the other side.
at wakes and funerals i see the dead people twitch or breath, does anyone know how it feels to just stand there and watch this and there nothing i can do about it. its almost like my mind is playing tricks but its not its really not!
i also see something above there head. its almost as if somehow there getting the message to me that they have crossed over and are fine. so i feel a little better knowing they are ok on the other side, but i dont see this at every wake. some people that have passed were one of god followers others werent while they were alive. so i kinda look into that and mentally prepare myself before stepping up to the casket. regardless of rather i see it or not, families will ask me do you see anything i still say yes to try and comfort them. knowing i really didnt see it, again mentally hurts.
the night before 911 i didnt dream about the what actually happened i really dont remember even dreaming that night. but the next morning about 5 minutes before it actually happened i felt a rush of people go by me, i heard crys and felt pain in my heart. i didnt know what was happening. i sat down in the front room the tv was already on. the next thing i saw was breaking news of what happened in newyork. i have went up to total strangers and talked to them. like this one lady she was pregnant and crying, i went up to her and asked her what was wrong at first she didnt wan to talk about it but then after i placed my hand on hers and said whatever it is it will be ok. she looked at me and said the dr. just told her that they couldnt find a heartbeat in her unborn baby. i said honey the drs wrong because i feel it your little girl is fine. she said how can you know. i just told her what i saw and felt and even told her what the babys name would be, she was totally shocked i didnt know what she was carrying and i for sure didnt know what her and her husband planned on naming there baby. but she told me i was right the name was to be named after her deceased mother. i didnt see her again until maybe 1 year later at the same clinic, she had her daughter with her the little girl named Rebecka Lynn.
although i dont have any proof that these things happened i can tell you im not making anything up. what i can show you is proof of my son's fiances mom
she was a friend to me and we actually share the same sister-in-law. she is my husband's sisters husband sister. i have known her for 23 years, her real name is Dortha Gwinn everyone knew her as Dottie Mae.
her funeral is pending at French Funeral Home
and the last i checked there was a video at MyWabashValley.com - MyWabashValley click on the video marked woman hit on I-70. the video is dark but you can hear the reporters voice. you can also go to my myspace profile by going to myspace.com and clicking on search and finding a friend by email address and typing in donniedodson7511@aol.com. if you want to see Nicky or Scotts page i keep all my friends hidden but there in my comments area click on there pic and it will take you to there pages. Nicky has a blog up now its very sad and no one can make it thru without crying her mom meant so much to her in every way! i feel so bad by not saying anything about my dream to anyone but my husband donnie, i not only allowed a death to happen but the kids lost there only car this car was my sons way of finding work, they had just moved into an apt but he lost his job and was currently looking for another one. because of my decision she lost her mother, he lost a future mother in law, everyone else lost a friend and a family member, and they lost there car and will probably lose there apt. no one knows what this is doing to me no one can say anything to me that will make any of this better. if i had done what they asked me when my cat died then maybe they would have listened to me that morning when i debated telling them or not about my dream. true things happen in life that are out of our hands but knowing every single dream i have comes true and not warning them, could have prevented this.

[Isthider]

Hey Debbie,

From reading your posts it's clear to me that you have an incredible gift as a clairvoyant.

A question I have for you is if you believe in fate or not. If so, although you knew that something was going to happen the events still played out in such a way that you could not have done anything about them - even if you tried. If you had told your son about your dream, would things be different? Would he have died? No one can know.

On the other hand, if you believe in free will this is an invaluable experience which shows you how precious your gift is. If you indeed have these abilities then someone or something is telling you to make the best use of them.

My advice to you, should you take it, is to forgive yourself. Whether this event was in or out of your control, it is in the past, and although the past is important it cannot be changed. Do not forget, but do not dwell on it.

If you are having real trouble about this talk to a trusted friend/ relative/ councillor.

I also think it's a good idea to seek out somebody with similar gifts to your own with whom you can share your experiences.

I'm only a young person and new to dream interpretation, but i really hope this message gives you some reassurance.

All the best,
Isthider

[unclesirbobbyrobson]

Well I your experiences are a little different from mine. I have had what appear to be strikling premomnitions. Yet I also mix in many ordinary dreams which seem to reflect every day paranoias and problems. Some false premonitions. I though like you remain totally convinced that poremonitions can come true and that we can access times and places and emoitons that are considered paranormal.

I totally believe you. BUt have you had any false premonitions where you felt for certain that something bad wass going to happen and did not

Personally I always approach people in a similar way to what you do. You didn't want to tell of the car crash because you didn't want to worry people and you may be wrong. Quite often my dreams are wrong and its easy to misintperpret dreams. So instead of scaring someone witless just try to emphasise the other possible explanations

I can generally tell if someone is lying.. their dreams seem absurd.. yet you tend to tell things in genuine and random ways.. its just got that strike ofg authenticity.. where you didn't dream of 911 but woke up with strong feelings...

But truly what can you do with such skills.. its like a curse.. personally premonitions always make me feel that something happens for a reason.. that yes something bad has happened but that life goes on and that not all things are explained in life. The very fact
its a premonition makes it predestined.. so it has to be accepted..

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There is evidence to show that dreams can talk in a way that our waking minds understand. It just chooses not too. People have reported dreams which have included the literal interpretation of the dream. In one dream the dreamer heard a voice which stated that the dream meant "he was going to take a relaxed attitude to some problem that could blow up at any time". The symbols where very much consistent with this message. Dreams use quotes and questions when they get the opportunity. So why does the dream mind not interpret itself properly all the time? Dreams seem to be more of an internal process. Short term memory banks are switched off during dreams. We are not meant to remember them so why bother translating them.

Try the following pages to help you understand dream symbolism and how to interpret dreams.

Dream dictionary - A modern and well researched dream dictionary DREAM DICTIONARY
Dream symbolism and dream dictionary interpretation - How to interpret dreams Some tips
Dream symbolism - How to use dream symbols How to use dreams symbols

[Fcosta]

How do we recognize a direct saying dream??
How do I know that a direct saying dream is a direct saying dream and not symbolic drea??

Originally Posted by Varzandeh

Hi,
Direct saying dreams are rare and dreamsusually are said in a symbolic indirect sayings.Your case is somewhat prophetic.This is granted to rare people.


Here is some more info:
I want to tell you a reason to know that 5 senses can't understand anything except by the soul,
Have you dreamt you were eating and drinking and had pleasure of that. He said yes. I said: have you dreamt laughing and crying, and strolling in the cities that haven't seen yet but you know the specialties. He said: yes dreamt very much. I said: Have you ever dreamt about your dead brother or father and know them like they are alive.
He said: yes too many times. I said: tell me which sense has received such things to see the dead and talking to them or crying and laughing. He said: I can’t say which one. Because the body is slept like a dead. I said: tell me when you wake up don’t you remember and report to the friends exactly, He said; yes and sometimes I see that before night in real life. I said; which sense keeps it to remember the dream after waking. He said; there is no way for sense. I said then you should know because senses are vein here that is the soul that God has put wisdom in it and it is a reason. He said; what I dream is like mirage one thinks it is water but when arrive at there is nothing. I said; how do you say it is like mirage and you ate sweets and pickles and were happy and sad he said; because what I dream when I arrive at it is nothing. I said: have you ever had sex in the dream and your hearts beat, have you ever had wet dream about a woman or man. You know him or don’t know He said many times said had you orgasm and when you woke up you were wet then this is not mirage.
He said: dreaming orgasm is just like the real life .I said this is my reason that soul. Knows everything although senses are dead and can’t see or hear of course you shouldn’t deny that soul in addition of the senses knowledge recognition in the waking life and after vanishing the senses has sex with them then it recognizes the things after going senses and now you understand that the itself is guiding the senses and is their governor and none of the senses can’t do anything without soul; if the soul goes ahead body wasn’t get back and if soul gets back the body won’t go ahead with the soul the happiness comes and with it the ache is received if a sense is damaged the soul is remained but if the soul is damaged senses can work properly.



Dream language interpretation is an ancient science of allusions and pointing of the surrounded environment, as Mr. Einstein has said the events are like train stations which exist and we are moving towards them, these are prewritten destiny with some authority ( in decision making seconds) in very full details. This dream language should be translated, and interesting to know it is international and common for all human beings. But ignorance causes some misunderstanings.People were not aware of this language and always thought in a bad way , for example Mr. Freud said about sexual dreams it is because you have suppressed your sexual desires so misled everybody and some women dreamt about having sex with co-workers or another and thought they should do that, while it only meant he will do something for her, or some others dreamt had sex with the same sex and invented homosexual, while it meant the same ,Also some men dreamt his wife had sex with a man and didn't understand or a woman dreamt her partner had sex with a woman and didn't' understand ...etc.Do you see what catastrophes are caused by misunderstanding a language. About the approximate interpretation time table: Dreams at noon or exactly at midnight( In the summer time 13 at noon and 1 midnight else at 12)in the same day if past a few minutes, a few days later. Dreams at 10-11 in the morning in 15-30 days later. Also dreams at 3-4 in the evening in 1-2 months .Dreams in the sunset mostly are not truthful and are messed, they have no interpretations, Dreams at 4-5 in the morning in a few days to 2 months some dreams in the holy books( Josef dream of kneeling the sun and the moon and 11 stars)was interpreted after 20 years and other dreams of the Pharaoh's prisoners interpreted in the same day and after 7 years. Dream of Pharaoh about the 7 thin cows and 7 fat cows interpreted from the next year to 14 years. Also dreams in 6th of the month will interpret after 1-2 days, in 9th at the same day, in 10th after 20 days, in 13th after 9 days in 14th after 26 days and in 15th after 3 days, in 16th after 2 days and in 28th ,29th ,30th in the same day, but these are solar (Persian months and you should refer to a calendar or convert them) . Of course there are different kinds of dreams , like messy dreams which have no interpretations or deja vu dreams, or psychological dreams or dreams which are caused by bad food or drinks.

Bibliography:
1- Principles of the dreams, by Daniel the prophet (562-604 B.C) Peace be on him.
2-Divisions of the dreams, by Imam Sadeq peace be on him ( 663-798 A.C).
3- Generals of the dreams, by Mohammad ibn Syrin ( 690 A.C).
4- Guides in the dreams , by Jaber ibn Hay'an( Father of the new chemistry)
5- Interpretations, by Ibn Ash'as ( 840 A.C).

[Jennings]

Debbie, having read your first post only (it is now 02.10 hrs) you are normal, gifted, and psychic! Keep well away from the medics who will treat you in total ignorance.

I knew of a biker who travelled to work along the same highway daily. His wife had a dream that he would be involved in a road accident in which he would be injured and the motor bike would be in flames. He decided to change his route. The following day on his way to work, taking the new route, he collided with a car and was injured while his motorbike was destroyed in flames.

How could you possibly know that by telling your son of your dream that he might have taken avoiding action and on doing so could have been killed. Your husband's advice was appropriate so cease feeling guilty. I know of an Australian family doctor who has the same gifts as you have. Try not to be afraid of them and try to use them to help others but diplomacy rules so it might not be the best thing to tell them outright about what you fear or receive psychically about them; you might just wish to say something like, 'I wonder why I fear for you so do be careful' or something like this otherwise if they are as anxious as you are they may react foolishly.

[hazelflame]

Yes I agree that if you would have told your son & daughter in law then you would have changed it to your Son passing away instead. I don't know why but I always have this strong feeling after a "premonition" type dream that if I tell the person or More than 2 people that Im actually making this Prophecy come true. Lately, Ive been having detailed dreams that wont go away....but Im trying to look at it as a Message that needs to be understood.

Your Ability is very rare though and I believe you did the right thing...because if you told your son it would have jinxed it to come true. Ive also heard that if you tell 3 or more people the premonition dream will come true....thats why I say this. Maybe you should try praying or mediating for god to give you a clear understanding about this so you know how to handle it.