own funeral

[lisasky]

I already posted this on chit chat but I'm new and put it on the wrong thread. Sorry if you already read it.
I had the most disturbing dream last night. I dreamed that I had died and was at my own funeral sitting with everyone else as people arrived. I was crying uncontrollably. Not because I was afraid to die but for my family. How would they do it all without me. No body talked to me at the funeral but they could all see me. I had the feeling that once the service was over I would be gone and they wouldn't see me anymore. One friend came up to me and placed a jacket on my shoulders to comfort but again nothing was spoken. Before I was at my own funeral I remember being in a funeral home looking at all these weird coffins. They were more like beds, lawn furniture all made of wood. I had to take inventory of them. Really weird. I awoke with a terrible headache. Just a little about myself. I am a stay at home mom of 3 children. A Christian and my father passed away this past June and my mom is now living with us. My husband is having a real hard time with his job right now. Any insight to this disturbing dream welcomed. Thanks

[travellight]

[QUOTE I dreamed that I had died and was at my own funeral sitting with everyone else as people arrived. I was crying uncontrollably. Not because I was afraid to die but for my family. How would they do it all without me. No body talked to me at the funeral but they could all see me. I had the feeling that once the service was over I would be gone and they wouldn't see me anymore. One friend came up to me and placed a jacket on my shoulders to comfort but again nothing was spoken. Before I was at my own funeral I remember being in a funeral home looking at all these weird coffins. They were more like beds, lawn furniture all made of wood. I had to take inventory of them. Really weird. I awoke with a terrible headache. Just a little about myself. I am a stay at home mom of 3 children. A Christian and my father passed away this past June and my mom is now living with us. My husband is having a real hard time with his job right now. Any insight to this disturbing dream welcomed. Thanks[/color][/color][/quote]

The dream is not suggesting that you will literally die, so relax about that. It is more likely that you are feeling overwhelmed with life and responsibilities and you feel that no one is paying you any attention or you feel totally unappreciated for all that you do for others. Especially with the recent loss of your Father and have your Mother living in the home means extra burdens...not that you needed any more with 3 kids and a hubby. Add on top of that a hubby with a difficult job situation, means that you are giving probably way more attention and care out to others and are on the short end of the receiving stick. The dream is trying to snap you out of it and pay attention to self as well. Dreams have to exaggerate sometimes to get us to pay any attention to them, just as your dream exaggerates the symbolism. All the furniture in the dream is WOOD....and wood in a dream suggests outdated ideas. It may be some of your ways of living are outdated and you need to think a bit more modern about life. Get your children and mom and husband involved more in helping out with the family and chores. Declare one night a week ALL YOURS and go treat yourself to some private time.
just my thoughts...
TL

[Varzandeh]

Hi,
Usually death means a problem will be solved , for working people being in a funeral means a management promotion for managing as many people as there were in the funeral.
If one dreamt died and then saw herself alive there means she will have a long life.Crying means a happiness from God is on the way .A jacket means some dignity is on the way.This is a goodnews dream on the way soon in a month.
Good luck.