Reoccuring Dreams

[Confused063]

I've been having these dreams for acouple of months now, just to give a little background history heres the deal- I like a guy I work with, we went out once, but hes too shy and he finally started to open up to me, but then he got busy one day and bailed on me on our second date, which is fine, but he was too scared to talk to me about it. Well throughout all this I keep having dreams that he ends up with someone else at work, for example- I had a dream a month ago where a girl was kissing him outside of work, the next night I had a dream he was sitting on a girls lap at work, now last night I had a dream we had a new girl at work and she just went up to him and asked him out and then they hookedup.

I dunno what this is telling me, to move on ? or what.. Please Help

[Maideleh]

Hmmm. I don't think your dream is telling you to do anything in particular. I think it just reflects the very real anxiety that you're feeling about the situation. It reflects your fear that he just didn't like you. Or may be you're anxious that the second date didn't happen because of a third party influence. Regardless of what exactly you're anxious about, the anxiety (which may be pushed aside for more important daily functions during waking time) is bleeding over into your dreams.

I think you simply want to know whether he really likes you and whether this is going to happen.