dream about a boy.

[buffy summers]

yea this is gonna be really really long so please bare with me.


last night i had this dream.
i lived in an apartment in New York,it looked rather old fashioned and to tell you the truth i think it was in the past sometime,and i dont mean like the year 2000,i mean like early 1900s or something.anyways i lived in the apartment with my older sister,my mother and my father.and my father knew this woman who had a son,id say he was about 18 years old anyway he moved into the apartment and lived in one room,he had a bed and all his stuff in there.his room was like really dark.anyway my sister and i started talking to him and became close.but when i was alone with him it felt really weird,just to let you know he had dark hair and always wore dark clothes,but when we were alone in his room he would talk to me in what sounded like poetry it was sweet,but kind of intimidating,i was very fond of him though,he was kind of really gorgeous.but when i was in his room with him something happened.he had like a sezuire[sp?] or something it almost seemed as if he was possessed for a moment by like a demon,and my dad and other men ran in an tied him to his bed,he feel asleep and i just watched him,when he got up he was back to normal.i dont really remember all of it but i got up,in my dream,and they told me he had died.they said he drank to much alcohol and it killed him.i cryed my eyes out as if he was like..my love or something.and when i got up my chest really did hurt like ive been crying.
and whats really weird to me is that they said he drank too much alcohol and died,but in my dream i almost always hung around him and i didnt even know he drank.i feel like there was something else that caused him to die.
anyways i know that sounded totally weird and probably made no sense but i havent been able to shake the dream off,like i really feel like i felt for this kid,and i have never saw him in my life.
i just want to know if anyone knows what this could mean?

[rocketsquirrel]

i lived in an apartment in New York,it looked rather old fashioned and to tell you the truth i think it was in the past sometime,and i dont mean like the year 2000,i mean like early 1900s

living in an apartment reflects that your life is crowded, you have little personal space or privacy, and since people in the 1900's simply had only the basics (only rich people had indoor plumbing, most homes didn't have electricity or running water) you live only on bare nesscessities, eitheir by choice, or due to limited or low income.

and my father knew this woman who had a son,id say he was about 18 years old anyway he moved into the apartment and lived in one room,he had a bed and all his stuff in there.his room was like really dark.

Do you have a cousion, who is the son of your father's brother or sister? This 18 yr old boy could represent a cousion of yours. He could represent a part of you, but the nature of the dream to me indicates someone you are related to, or someone in school you have not personally met yet but will or you have met and don't remember meeting. Since he lives in one room in the dark, this young man is isolated, lonely, and depressed.

anyway my sister and i started talking to him and became close.but when i was alone with him it felt really weird,just to let you know he had dark hair and always wore dark clothes,but when we were alone in his room he would talk to me in what sounded like poetry it was sweet,but kind of intimidating,i was very fond of him though,he was kind of really gorgeous.but when i was in his room with him something happened.he had like a sezuire[sp?] or something it almost seemed as if he was possessed for a moment by like a demon,and my dad and other men ran in an tied him to his bed,he feel asleep and i just watched him,when he got up he was back to normal.i dont really remember all of it but i got up,in my dream,and they told me he had died.they said he drank to much alcohol and it killed him.i cryed my eyes out as if he was like..my love or something.and when i got up my chest really did hurt like ive been crying.
and whats really weird to me is that they said he drank too much alcohol and died,but in my dream i almost always hung around him and i didnt even know he drank.i feel like there was something else that caused him to die.
anyways i know that sounded totally weird and probably made no sense but i havent been able to shake the dream off,like i really feel like i felt for this kid,and i have never saw him in my life.
i just want to know if anyone knows what this could mean?

The kind of sweet poetry that is has a scary undertone represents that the man is very creative, with good potential, but because of his depression, he is tends to be a little scary and pre-occupied with violence....this is not unusual for someone suffering from depression. Now its interesting you mention alcholism and a seizures....alcoholics often die from siezures. The brain becomes so addicted to alcohol that when alcohol is not present, the brain has problems functioning, and a siezure starts...and the the siezure is often fatal. This is a completely preventable outcome and this is what makes it so tragic. Depression and alcoholism are treatable. So who in your life is lonely, isolated, depressed, creative, and is more poor than you are? Intervention can save his life.

[buffy summers]

first of all thank you so much for reading and replying.your reply really seems to make alot of sense.well actually no i dont know any of my cousins,theyre all overseas,except for one and hes like 35 or something.
and hmm maybe your right about that this "guy" is apart of me...like a part of my personality cause recently i have been pretty down,so maybe he has something to do with that.and hmmm actually no one i know is depressed or has alcohol problems,at least not to my knowledge...and about the sezuires[sp?] and alcohol i never knew that..thats really interesting.
is there anyway that you could meet people through dreams?i know it sounds insane but i did hear a theory about it a while back.
thanks again.

[Varzandeh]

Hi,
Dreams are symbolic and should be interpeted.A young guy and dark clothes means a sorrow is on the way.
He died means the sorrow will vanish.
You cried if in tears means a happiness after.
Good luck.

[Minaker]

Buffy, I completely disagree with the other interpretation. I'm surprised the thought hasn't occurred to you, but the TV show your username comes from is a clear influence on your dream; the mystery boy may not have looked like David Boreanaz, but he is a variation of Angel -- a dark-haired, dark-clothed, depressed, handsome young man who is possessed by a demon but is most of the time quite normal, and an object of your affection. I'm not saying the other details of your dream are insignificant, but the dream can't begin to be interpreted without at least being aware of this cultural influence.

[buffy summers]

minaker,ahah actually the thought did kind of occur to me...and i have been watching alot of buffy the vampire slayer lately....so i see your point,i suppose.

thank you all for interpretating my dream.

i just hope it has nothing to do with death in real life...or sorrow*shrugs*