Ex-girlfriend dreams after breaking up with the current one?

[shimo]

Hi everyone,

First of all I'd like to thank the authors of this site. I was always fascinated with the art of interpreting dreams, now I have people to discuss these situation with, which is awesome

Important for analysis:
Ok. I did have a relationship with someone for 8 years, from which a child was born. We didn't really get along after a year of living together, mostly due to her family at the time (my oh my did they mix themselves in our life), and I came to a point where it was impossible for me to continue being remote-controlled all the time.

So I decided to leave her. I gotta admit that I kinda regretted it very soon after that but as I just said, it was impossible to deal with the situation. I believe that one of the reasons for me to regret it it's because I know for a fact that it wasn't her fault, she had basically to choose between her family and me - she couldn't do it so I guess I just helped her to take a decision (probably forced her to).

Now, I was with a new girl for almost a year and had to break up with her as well because she suffered from schizophrenia or something alike (she never tried to figure it out, never gave a dime about her constant yelling etc). I was feeling like a child, really. Had to follow her orders all the time or I would get yelled at daily. She would be nice most of the times, but whenever the "bomb" exploded, I felt ridiculous at home. It was like a time bomb everyday, I kept asking myself "when is she going to yell today...". Intolerable situation.

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Moving on, on the same night i broke up with her, I dreamed about my ex.
In brief, this was it (i don't remember all the details by the way):
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Dream:
We had setup a date at night. I did show up but exteremely late due to something I couldn't control (traffic) but couldn't find her anywhere. I felt completely lost, and waited for a lot of time in the middle of a very bad neighborhood (all kinds of people / criminals were there - no idea what this means). Still I waited there risking to be robbed or something alike.

I then decided to go home and pickup a cab. When I got in the cab I noticed something really strange: her father was the driver! But he didn't seem to know me and in my dream I did associate that person with him but I didn't seem to associate that in my mind. It was him but we didn't seem to know each other. Totally strangers. I did ask him to speed up as I wanted to get online to at least check if she was there so I could be with her at least remotely. I refused to do so, but I decided to bribe him , and it worked. I didn't really see the time but I presumed it was like 4AM or 5AM. This explains why I wanted to get home FAST.

When I got home I ran to my PC (which wasn't my current home actually but my parents home), and logged on - she was still there waiting for me. I opened a chat window with her, felt really relieved but I didn't even text anything to her, I woke up just after that.

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Any clues? By the way I broke up with my current gf because I also figured out that I didn't love her enough...

Thanks for helping me out, people!

[Varzandeh]

Hi,
She was lost means you don't appreciate her as she merits.

[shimo]

Originally Posted by Varzandeh

Hi,
She was lost means you don't appreciate her as she merits.

Hi, thanks for taking the time to read it.
Actually she wasn't lost, I guess this wasn't the case, the problem was: I got there too late

Thanks!