Beating and Maiming

[Synchiron]

Well first off, I never usually dream, or if I do, I can't remember it.
Yet, for the first time in over a year I have had a dream the strange thing is, I had the same dream twice in one day.

I am in church to hear my little sister's choir. There is a man there, in front of me, and he is making a nuiscance of himself, by being loud and rude. I decide to ask him nicely if he would be quite, and he starts to be very basty to me, and then a fight starts, punching and kicking.
Then all of a sudden we aren't in the church anymore, we're in a hardware shop, and I am using all of the tools, Hammers, nails etc to hurt him. And then I wake up.

Any ideas about this one?

[unclesirbobbyrobson]

well often dreams throw your own behavior back at you. Did you get annoyed with someone else the day before?

What petty disputes or problems stuck in yourmind the previous day?
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[Pmartinez]

Your post is interesting, it is showing violence in a place that requires respect.

Now, is important that you understand that dreams are incoherent, meaningless and they don't always bring a message.
When interpreting a dream allot of experiences must be taken into consideration, first a little background is needed, a cognitive behavior evaluation is also a good place to start.

I will try to give you my evaluation, step by step

First, you are in a church, as mentioned before this is a place of respect, love, peace and regeneration (spiritual). Your sister is in a choir and you are there to hear her sing. Let me explain something quickly before I go on: Your sister in the dream does not necessarily means that is your sister, she can be anyone that you feel close to. A father figure can also be a friend, auncle or a woman. A father is the person that has always been there for you and has guided and aided you in moments of needs.

You are trying to hear your sister sing, however there is this man that does not allow you to do so and the argument starts and escalates to a fight. ".. I believe that your sister is your inner "you", you are trying to speak out, you want to be heard, you are demanding respect and understanding, perhaps something going on in your life right now, or you are trying to send a message to someone that you or someone needs help. The man, is someone that is keeping you from expressing yourself or reaching the person that you think needs help. This person is someone that is very difficult to deal with, is someone that perhaps has a great control over your life and consequently he/she does not have any respect for you (this person is acting like an ass in a church), your fight, is basically your frustration and need to be heard and understood. Aggression is a symbol of frustration, and pain. In the hardware store, you are no longer in a church, this tells me that you are a person that has great respect for others, you are fighting this person and really trying to hurt him/her, I believe that in your dream you are fighting, however; in your mind you are making a great effort to reach out and because it frustrates you it brings allot of anger.

My advice to you is to take the time to speak to someone that can help you. Please DO NOT discuss this with friends, although they may want the best for you their advice may not be exactly what you need to hear. Try to speak to a pastor, priest, Rabi, counselor etc.

I hope this helped a little.

Take care

Pmartinez

[Synchiron]

Reading through your responses, both of you. It really did help thank you.

There was an incident with my ex recently, and I thought I was over it, I guess something is still plagueing me about it all as what you say sounds very much like the situation.

Thank you for your responses and help.

Kat X